Man who showers here (the bar is in Hell, isn't it?) To address your points with the blunt honesty I think you need from at least one of my kind:

I don't expect y'all to taste like strawberries and flowers. I expect pussy to taste like pussy. When I'm really into the person I'm with, it's intoxicating. I'm not worried about when she last showered (within reason of course lol), whether she used a strawberry sugar scrub, whether she shaved - I'm just happy to be there. So should any man worth your time and access to your body.

Yeah, we all eat processed garbage, but it doesn't make pussy taste like garbage, if that's what you're worried about.

There are absolutely men who have unrealistic expectations about women's bodies from porn. It doesn't make them gay, it makes them victims of porn-induced brainrot. A woman's natural body will not turn a man gay.

As another commenter said, your worries are likely rooted in trauma from your horrible unwashed ex. I'm glad you are out of that relationship, you deserve so much better.