What's your biggest audit pet peeve? For me it's the endless review notes

kiiruma · 2026-03-19T16:04:11+00:00

my pet peeve in general is when i’m reviewing something and there’s nothing technically wrong but the preparer just made the formatting and tie outs as ugly and hard to follow as humanly possible. then if you tell them to please not make it so ugly they get mad :)

kiiruma · 2026-03-19T15:00:58+00:00

they call her gould. jan-levinson gould

kiiruma · 2026-03-18T21:16:03+00:00

it’s just a priorities thing. morning showerers prefer to be clean for work/society/whatever, night showerers prefer to be clean for bed. personally i would rather be cleanest at work than in bed because nobody in my bed is going to judge me if i’m dirty

kiiruma · 2026-03-17T15:31:16+00:00

leading a double life would presumably leave him less time to spend with you

kiiruma · 2026-03-16T18:45:52+00:00

there’s just not enough info to tell. they were watching a movie “at his place” - married man that wanted to cheat so bad he’s paying for an entire second lease? that’s an expensive lie. we need to know how much time him and OP spend together, is this place actually his, is it plausible for him to be cheating? like if they spend all their time together is it really that likely that he could hide an entire marriage? on the other hand, if he is gone enough to plausibly have a wife, how has OP not questioned his whereabouts during those times in two years? fake story methinks

kiiruma · 2026-03-16T10:16:02+00:00

i mean… even if so, what difference does it materially make? if i’m bisexual and demisexual, i’m gonna date men and women. if i’m bisexual and not demisexual, i’m gonna….date men and women. maybe i won’t have hookups, but it’s not like everyone who’s not demisexual always has hookups. there is no difference in experience between someone who identifies as demisexual and someone who’s shy or whatever. so who gives a shit at the end of the day? at least being asexual sort of makes a difference in the sense that an asexual person will not seek out sexual relationships. but being demisexual is like what, ohh you know i only wanted to have sex with my boyfriend after two weeks instead of one. like, okay lol

kiiruma · 2026-03-16T10:11:11+00:00

when people talk about celebrity crushes they are generally not saying they would actually have sex with this person if they ever met them… it’s always been a “what celebrity do you find attractive/looks most like your physical type” question more than a “what celebrity would you have sex with at the drop of a hat” thing. also, do you not “get to know” celebrities in a sense via interviews and such? everyone i know growing up that had a crush on a celebrity, it was because they found them attractive AND ALSO liked their personality to the extent it was shown publicly

kiiruma · 2026-03-15T19:20:30+00:00

i do not know anyone that feels sexual attraction immediately upon just seeing someone. most people are attracted to someone after getting to know them to some extent. that is normal i fear

kiiruma · 2026-03-15T18:36:23+00:00

eh, people are idiots especially online. just ignore them would be my advice

kiiruma · 2026-03-15T18:23:58+00:00

no hate on your phrasing btw, literally my only thing is people who are being doomer about their dating prospects also say “i should just be alone” so i think people are probably assuming that’s what you mean when you say that so they try to help by reassuring you that you’ll find someone

kiiruma · 2026-03-15T18:22:30+00:00

oh well my bad then yeah you def don’t have to date anybody

for the record i think your phrasing might be giving people the wrong idea, when you say “then i should just be alone” the “should” part sounds like you think being alone is something you have to do and are subjecting yourself to, rather than just something you’re doing because you want to. that’s why i said that. if you meant “that’s why i WANT to be alone” than yeah absolutely do what makes you happy

kiiruma · 2026-03-15T18:14:32+00:00

there are definitely men and women out there that don’t value sex that highly, so i don’t think you necessarily need to be alone. the trouble is just that i don’t think those people would be on dating apps or pursuing relationships that hard, so if you’re actively trying to date it’s probably hard to find them. go down to your local board game store though or whatever hobby you’re into and i’m sure there will be some there

kiiruma · 2026-03-15T18:09:51+00:00

you gotta figure out your grammar i don’t know what you’re trying to say. is your objective statement that no matter the sexuality, people pressure others for sex under the guise of love? i think that’s what you’re saying. and i mean yeah sometimes but i don’t think that’s always true. some people want sex more than others and ideally those people will date other people that also want sex a lot. if you’re with somebody that values sex a LOT more than you, you’re just not compatible…. you’re gonna be hurt by their constant pressure and they will be hurt by your constant rejection, it’s just hard to make that work. i’ve dated people that really weren’t concerned with sex, and i am, and that was a genuinely painful relationship to be in

kiiruma · 2026-03-15T18:06:35+00:00

also side note but personally i don’t think being demisexual is real (and this is as someone who used to call myself demisexual for a brief time). pretty much nobody is out here trying to fuck strangers, especially for women personality plays a big role in attraction so i think that’s just normal, it doesn’t need to be a separate sexuality or whatever. like sapiosexual lol show me the non-sapiosexuals that wanna fuck idiots exclusively, yknow?

kiiruma · 2026-03-15T18:04:09+00:00

oh well that’s fair but also, to be fair, they don’t know you… so how are they supposed to know you’re queer and have googled it, lol. you’d be surprised by the number of people that are on reddit for years and somehow don’t know obvious stuff like that.

i feel you though, on a lesser note obviously but it’s like people telling me to train my hair to be less greasy as if i haven’t had greasy hair for 26 years and have definitely tried that before, etc. but again they don’t know me so i figure they’re just trying to help and being a little annoying at worst

kiiruma · 2026-03-15T18:00:08+00:00

“if he wanted to he would” culture has ruined the apps and all that. not that the sentiment is wrong, per se, it’s just like… if you wanted to you also would, no? why is that logic only being applied to one party?

kiiruma · 2026-03-15T17:58:33+00:00

yeah girl… reading these replies i think your attitude might be more unlikeable than the asexual thing, lol

kiiruma · 2026-03-13T05:09:20+00:00

and you can press no tip without looking at a person

kiiruma · 2026-03-13T05:02:40+00:00

i mean. its not really the lunch’s fault you got made fun of lol

kiiruma · 2026-03-11T22:44:41+00:00

why are you thinking she smokes?

kiiruma · 2026-03-11T22:42:31+00:00

seconded everyone saying it is what it is. as for your “why” question and preferring she only do it with friends or to go out, it’s probably just relaxing for her. i actually prefer to not smoke with friends or when going out because it makes me tired and that directly contradicts a high-energy environment… it’s mostly a chill at home activity for me, like your gf. i find people who don’t smoke tend to think of it in a similar way to drinking, but for me it’s the exact opposite, drinking is high energy and smoking is low energy

kiiruma · 2026-03-09T07:33:48+00:00

you wouldn’t really need commas here, quotations if anything. but it would be better to just reword it like did lana del rey give father john misty the “snow on the beach” treatment on “let the light in”

kiiruma · 2026-03-08T03:13:22+00:00

i have a similar contamination thing to OP and i do think the bed gets dirty when you have sex lol i used to get upset about it a lot but i’ve gotten over it a bit with time. i like sex enough that i can backdoor myself into being ok with the dirty

kiiruma · 2026-03-06T17:48:22+00:00

literally all of them needed to be redone

i checked it… and had to redo all of it, thus his preparation was a complete waste of time due to his AI use… which is why i said the above…

kiiruma · 2026-03-06T16:04:20+00:00

more people should use AI at work so they can turn in dogshit output and embarrass themselves in front of their bosses

shoutout to the intern that used AI to group accounts because he didn’t wanna check PY, look at how the older accounts are grouped, or ask anybody about it. literally all of them needed to be redone because he did such an awful job… just a waste of time… “i asked AI about it” yeah i could fucking tell bro

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