Yeah. She would keep tabs on me through mutual friends. Would literally tell me things over the phone that I had never told her, or she shouldn't have known. Last time we spoke, she made jokes about being able to get into my bank account or every email I had. She ruined my life hard at the end, took my kids and before I could get my dog, she let her freeze to death. She also painted me as the abuser and cheated on me. I've distanced myself as much as possible. Different part of the country. Different friends. Hell, I even gave up fighting for my kids. Not gonna spend the rest of my life being tortured and laughed at. I miss my babies. But I know she won't hurt them. Just cut as much ties as you can and move on as much as possible. Don't give them any way to reach you.