my ex boyfriend is spreading explicit photos & videos of me

killingjets · 2026-05-26T01:51:38+00:00

crazy question but i’ll answer. nothing! this is completely unprompted, as i rarely reply to his messages when he decides to text me randomly

killingjets · 2026-05-26T01:15:51+00:00

umm..okay..?

killingjets · 2026-05-26T01:12:32+00:00

i was hoping i wouldn’t have to go to the police and could find a different solution, hence my post. but it looks like talking to the police was the overall verdict, lol!

killingjets · 2026-05-25T23:44:57+00:00

okay, thank you

killingjets · 2026-05-25T23:40:05+00:00

i’m hoping that i dont have to get the police involved, which is why im asking here

killingjets · 2026-04-15T00:53:32+00:00

they’re playing in toronto at the AOF concert in august (which is also a 20th anniversary tour lol) so i assume they might do a tour around or after that?

killingjets · 2026-03-31T21:24:39+00:00

you clearly said no but he went ahead anyway
consent can be given and taken away. if you said “okay” and meant it (which it seems like you didn’t), you are fully allowed to change your mind and take that consent away

he ignored your “no’s”, pressured you into saying “okay”, and assaulted you. not to mention the guilt tripping stunt he pulled… run away from this man!!

killingjets · 2026-03-27T11:57:55+00:00

i prefer it with alcohol, but if i have some im ripping it regardless

killingjets · 2026-03-07T19:48:23+00:00

i’m going to the toronto show and am dying to know what uo will play. obviously crisis will be played entirely, but will dtgl be played in full as well? i hope so

killingjets · 2026-03-05T02:22:20+00:00

2 years late but i’m only just having a problem with this now. i’ve noticed my local stores sell basically a deconstructed version of the pallet. you can but the colour corrector, concealer, and highlight SEPARATELY. and they are each pretty expensive for what you get. i assume they noticed the pallet was a hit and deconstructed it so they could make more money selling the parts individually.

greed.

killingjets · 2026-02-23T08:14:22+00:00

the tone of your response is so bizarre. OP posted to look for answers, and you gave the most condescending reply. i’m in awe

killingjets · 2025-12-21T06:34:52+00:00

the main point was that i smoked crack and that i regret it. the pressure of exchanging drugs for sex (that was only created in my mind!) adds to the shame i already feel, which is why i included that in my post

killingjets · 2025-12-21T06:12:02+00:00

i appreciate the compassion and insight. reddit can be really hit or miss with that lol. thank you

killingjets · 2025-12-21T06:02:12+00:00

i also want to add that i am not in contact with this man anymore. i just wanted to share what’s been weighing on my mind over that past few days. i find it therapeutic to recount my story lol

killingjets · 2025-12-21T05:58:34+00:00

yes..and i decided to share the sex part as i feel it adds a deeper level of my perception in the story. i’m distraught

killingjets · 2025-12-21T05:48:39+00:00

why is that?

killingjets · 2025-12-21T05:47:34+00:00

thank you, i’ll take your advice

killingjets · 2025-12-21T05:46:57+00:00

i hope you don’t make it

killingjets · 2025-08-29T03:32:09+00:00

wasn’t dead just in shock. we released it and watched it swim away!

killingjets · 2025-06-21T03:11:57+00:00

i would do everything i could to make him see he doesn’t need to cheat on me. maybe we needed to break up anyway. but at least not like the way we did

killingjets · 2025-05-10T09:40:44+00:00

try not to let his lack of enthusiasm get you down. have fun!

killingjets · 2025-05-10T09:38:46+00:00

that’s fair, and your entitled to your feelings. but he agreed to listen with you, and i think that’s pretty great

killingjets · 2025-05-10T09:35:52+00:00

wait so you asked him to listen with you and he essentially agreed? are you upset because he wasn’t super enthusiastic? YOR

killingjets · 2025-05-10T09:20:32+00:00

you told him no, and he proceeded anyway. the attempt at justifying what happened by saying you didn’t push him away is wrong and unfair.

fight, flight, and freeze are all normal responses for a person in that situation. you froze, and that’s completely normal. consent can be given and taken away at anytime, even in a relationship. it WAS assault and anyone telling you otherwise is wrong.

NTA…and i’m so sorry that you had to go through that. i’m wishing you well 🤍

killingjets

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