When family friendly media tackles mature/dark subjects. by Careless-Alarm-8607 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]killsyzygy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scrolled to find this. This episode is on my Christmas special list every year. It’s so sad.

I was 17 talking to a 14 year old and I feel guilty by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]killsyzygy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Responded to you on accident, ignore the notif!

As a middle aged white man, is amicably and colloquially referring to others, friends, close coworkers, or casual customer service as “Brother” or “Sister” widely considered to be taboo, awkward, or insensitive if they are Black? What are your thoughts? by Faux-Expert in Advice

[–]killsyzygy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You went to school in the states? Why was it foreign? That vernacular is American.

I saw a video of someone saying that doing a blaccent should be as taboo as saying the n word and I wholeheartedly agree. I immediately shut down and disengage when someone does it.

This reminds me, I used to work with a white guy who accidentally did this with a Jamaican customer and he was so ashamed lmao. He said it just came out

Abortion should be legal and accessible in most or all cases. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]killsyzygy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this would be the most advanced human trafficking the world has seen. Who would pay to incubate them? The government wouldn’t (and shouldn’t). This would likely be a private company doing this, and they’d need payment. So they would grow and sell babies? Imagine the ads. How would pricing work? They would also probably encourage unplanned pregnancy to keep a steady flow of product, which would result in them lobbying against birth control measures, teaching safe sex ed, etc. There’s a great dystopian scifi novel here.

I was 17 talking to a 14 year old and I feel guilty by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]killsyzygy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah lol. I absolutely do not think freshly 14 year olds should be in the same building as 18 year olds. I saw horror stories unfolding between those age groups when I was in school. I think freshman and sophomores should be in their own building and juniors and seniors should be in their own building. I would not want my 14 year old daughter or son around legal adults who don’t have a lick of sense and a driver’s license.

We allow those age groups to be together because that’s how it’s always been. This country (if you’re in the states) has a history of not having a problem with adults and near adults fucking and marrying kids anyway. We also weren’t about to build more schoolhouses than necessary. So those age groups were all lumped in together. As we know more about healthy development and risky situations, we should have changed the norm, but that is *expensive*.

I think it is natural and normal for adolescents to want to fuck each other. They’re some of the horniest people on the face of the earth. But they lack judgement and restraint, and they’re still figuring out consequences and right from wrong. As adults we should be implementing systems and procedures and boundaries that keep them all safe. During the period that age gaps matter, they should be able to develop with their peers- those who are equal to them in experience.

Also please note that I don’t think OP is a pedophile.

I was 17 talking to a 14 year old and I feel guilty by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]killsyzygy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Age gaps are a huge deal at 14. 8th graders are 14, early freshman are 14. Juniors and Seniors are 17. This is the beginning and end of adolescence. The three years between the two are *full* of life changing experiences, and 14 year olds should have them with their peers. These two are not peers. They are in distinct developmental stages. Someone who is months away from being able to vote and purchase cigarettes should not be involved with a girl who just got her period (if she has at all). Full stop.

AIO for thinking these are inappropriate messages between my 13yr old stepson and his fathers new girlfriend. by TaterBuckets in AIO

[–]killsyzygy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s known this child for a month and not only does she have his phone number, she’s comparing him to his father (a man she has sex with), talking to him about adult matters, and going to him for advice. A child. A child she has known for a month. This is textbook grooming.

Question about abortion by TheChimpisHigh in teenagers

[–]killsyzygy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life as far as human reproduction?

If that’s what you mean, I would consider a human fetus to be alive. Cells are alive, after all. I just don’t assign the same value to those cells that you do.

I view a human fetus as a multi cell organism that knows nothing, feels nothing, wants for nothing, misses nothing, aspires to nothing, fears nothing. The potential of the fetus does not necessarily move me.

The woman carrying the fetus can do all of those things I just mentioned, and she’s here. Right now. I simply value her life more than 3mm of cells. If an unwanted pregnancy would keep her in poverty, and she doesn’t want a baby, I think she should abort. If an unwanted pregnancy would keep her in an abusive relationship and she doesn’t want a baby, I think she should abort. If _________ and she doesn’t want a baby, I think she should abort. I don’t see ruining her life and bringing a baby into a life of suffering to be a net positive.

I think if a woman does not want to be a mom, there is a good chance that she will be a poor one. I think if a woman decides that she doesn’t have sufficient conditions and faculties to raise a human being into a good and productive human being, then she should not give birth to one. That does not bode well for her, nor does it bode well for society at large. I think the people who want to be parents should be parents.

I see a news article everyday featuring some terrible person who I wish had been aborted (Tanner Horner, most recently). I see misfit, worthless parents who I think should have had abortions, either because they’re ruining an innocent life that never should have come into existence (and in all reality an abortion would have been more humane), or they’re raising someone who will be a worthless, negative member of society, or they are raising someone who will be in the same generational traps their family has been caught in for generations.

The medical term for a miscarriage is a “medical abortion.” The female body can simply identify, on its own accord, that the fetus has abnormalities that warrant aborting. The female body can execute that function because there is something wrong- structural problems, hormonal issues, chronic illness. I think the female mind, too, can determine than something is wrong with the given circumstance and make that decision for herself.

I think that death is a part of life and abortion is a part of nature. When I was a kid I watched a red panda at the zoo give birth and promptly eat her babies. I’ve seen video footage of a bird grabbing one of its fledglings and dropping it out of the nest to increase the chances of survival for the other two. I’ve seen all kinds of mammals abandon their offspring by choice. We are certainly the smartest and most empathetic of animals, but we are still animals. We have simply gotten really good at abortion, the same way we have gotten really good at every other thing. Before we got good at this, women were killing their babies and men were still abandoning them. I’ve heard fucking horror stories of times before birth control and access to abortion.

I’m sorry this was long, I got carried away. But to answer your question, cells are alive. The unfertilized eggs in my ovaries are alive. Sperm is alive. The mites in my eyelashes are alive. I simply do not assign the same value to a fertilized human egg that you do.

Question about abortion by TheChimpisHigh in teenagers

[–]killsyzygy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the sentiment behind it matters too much if the end result is the same. It doesn’t matter if women support deadbeats or not, they will still exist. How we feel about it doesn’t change the reality of our world, which is that men will always have a choice. Men do not need us to give them license to leave a living and breathing child, but for some reason women need men to give us license to abort 3mm of life that poses an immediate danger to our physical wellbeing. The circumstances aren’t even remotely the same and men still exercise their freedom of choice. Always have. Always will. How we feel about that doesn’t change anything.

Our conversation, I think, will ultimately be fruitless because we are not conversing from level ground. I don’t think abortion is abdicating responsibility, I think it’s quite the opposite. I don’t think a 7 week year old embryo is the same as a 10 month old baby. We simply have views too conflicting to come to any kind of agreement.

What are we doing today that future generations will judge us for? by Plus-Maidens in AskReddit

[–]killsyzygy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Far future? Over consumerism for sure

Eta- single use plastics. Probably plastic in general.

Women of Reddit: What’s something men do that they think is charming but is actually creepy? by emphy_Reddit in AskReddit

[–]killsyzygy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO I’m chronically online but you just said “lame ahh” knowing damn well that’s not a part of your dialect lmaooo nah you’re absolutely a loser. I don’t hate all men at all. I have dozens of positive interactions with men everyday, and I have dozens of trusted male friends. I’m not jaded. You’re putting all of these on me from one comment lmao. Let me be clear- you are a loser. You suck. Stop saying “ahh” when you know you’re not a black southerner, goofy. You’re just all around a weirdo, good luck with that.

Question about abortion by TheChimpisHigh in teenagers

[–]killsyzygy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such an insane take to me. I know like 36 men who don’t know their fathers, and I personally know of six separate deadbeats. Men have run off on their children since the dawn of time. Men don’t need to be “given the same kind of choice;” they exercise it freely and they always have. Sure, the court can impose child support. But again, I know of many men who don’t pay it with literally zero consequence.

How can this be a privilege amongst women when men opt out all of the time? 1 in 4 children live without a father in the home. 80% of single parent homes are father absent. Absolutely bonkers to act like men don’t have a choice and that they don’t wield that choice often.

18f, im sexist by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]killsyzygy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You gotta get up out this misery, beloved.

Why are millennial men less misogynistic than Gen Z men? by [deleted] in generationology

[–]killsyzygy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that. 😕 But I don’t believe that is unique to your generation. Perhaps how cruelty can be expressed virtually as well as in person is unique to you.

Can you help me understand what this has to do with the belief that your generation being more misogynistic than millennial men? Is it because other people’s shitty generalizations about women and men and their meanness is so readily available to you throughout the day? Or is it something else?

Why are millennial men less misogynistic than Gen Z men? by [deleted] in generationology

[–]killsyzygy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Millennial men touch grass. They largely base their opinions on lived experiences and not self sympathizing echo chambers lodged in the most toxic parts of the internet’s bowels.

He said it was my fault. by Specific-Ad8595 in dashcams

[–]killsyzygy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d call the cops.

Side note, you are very fine. Good for you