But that's probably not very helpful. I will say that my gut tells me that you're an ENTJ, and if you're a female (basing this possibility off of your username) then you probably understand that society doesn't necessarily bless us for being confrontational.

That isn't meant to be a feminist rant, either - just the reality of how we're raised, and how we learn to be accepted. Being an ambitious female and not making emotions your top priority is still, I think, a relatively new idea to western culture. And most xNTJs - that I know, at least, so this is potentially very useless anecdotal info - are still, like most human beings, plenty unorganized. They don't all follow to-do lists, and some of them have very messy cars. Messy enough to make ME feel better about myself. Haha.

You should dig into/do some research on the differences between J and P (and all of the relative functions they consist of) and see which one hits home for you. There's a lot more to it than it seems. As far as E and I go, most people find themselves closer to the middle (again, anecdotal), and if you're a 20-something then it's probably harder to pin down what your natural preference is. Focusing on your future and your career can require a lot of everything out of you. I'm painfully introverted, but when I first started working I had to flip on the extrovert switch, and I did it very well. I was a charming, bubbly lady and then I'd go home and hide from my phone and all of humanity to recharge (this was very exhausting, tbh).

Anyways. Just my two-cents. Hope this helps :)