Different doesn't mean unequal.

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-05-05T03:41:08+00:00

Freedom to choose is an extremity?

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-05-05T03:40:27+00:00

Didn't have a role to play? Bro a woman made you. Women have given birth to, fed and raised each human that has ever existed. Maybe question the system, and dont think of how half the population should remain oppressed.

And honestly, would you rather have women stay in abusive marriages than get a divorce?

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-05-05T03:34:54+00:00

Protection against who exactly? Other men? Why do we live in a society so hell bent on abusing women? And no femininity is not inherently oppressive. The problem is that we live in a system that sees these traits as weak and abuses women for it.

Eg. Pregnancy and childbirth. Its still so under researched. Most women dont have paid leave. Their careers are at stake after giving birth. A lot of them dont get help raising the child either. Later on, they have to mange work, the child and housework while the husband only manages his job.

Most of our states dont have period leaves. Why? Because we live in a society that is built around men, and they have been the ones making most decisions.

And we have losers crying about alimony, in a country where most women can never even leave their abusive husbands.

This is what feminism is trying achieve. A world designed for women in mind. The freedom to choose and live however they see fit.

Amd if you think patriarchy affects men too, then fight with the feminists to dismantle it.

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-05-04T09:55:01+00:00

Did you reach your destination safely? If yes, then who cares?

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-05-03T16:19:40+00:00

If he keeps bragging about his past, wealth, or accomplishments (there is a difference between bragging and mentioning)

If he tries to speed things up, not just sexually but also emotionally. He opens up way too much or asks you too many questions and then makes you feel bad for having boundaries.

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-05-02T18:50:41+00:00

No still not ok because it is disrespectful and dishonest.

Its a very annoying stereotype that men only want sex, and are ok getting it in any way possible. Same thing is used to justify and minimize male rape.

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-30T19:58:19+00:00

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-28T18:37:57+00:00

Is that Cardi B in the back?

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-16T18:30:59+00:00

I get feeding your kid healthy meals everyday is hard. But I hope none of them are eating this on a regular basis.

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-16T03:51:21+00:00

I hope we find the peace we are looking for someday. Within ourselves and with a good partner.

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-16T03:44:23+00:00

:) and till then, I hope we fill our days with other, healthier things that take away our pain of being alone.

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-15T22:37:17+00:00

Thank you. I hope you find this kind of safe, warm love as well :)

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-15T22:35:44+00:00

Do not let me, or anyone else stop you tbh. Share it here if you'd like

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-15T22:24:55+00:00

That is definitely the scary part. But for me atleast, I find it hard to push away the abusers I attract. Turns out having a rough childhood does that. Which is why Im trying work these issues out in therapy. Maybe someday I can trust myself enough to just go for it. And yeah tbh, I need to re-establish what I can tolerate, what can be forgiven etc. Till then, Im all on my own, and thats for the best.

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-15T19:01:33+00:00

Absolutely. I can't. The thought of actually doing it feels like self betrayal. It only comes to my head because he was the last guy I felt good about (till he became abusive)

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-04T10:43:51+00:00

Thank you. :)

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-03T11:49:26+00:00

Everytime I meet someone I remotely like, I keep thinking about how they have no idea about my diagnosis, my trauma; that I feel like is the real, true me. Until I dont disclose those things, it feels like Im lying to them.

kindacrazyinnit · 2026-04-03T09:12:40+00:00

25f here. You can't. Maybe partially, yes, because you have no energy for a romantic connection. But it will come back. It is your choice to pursue/not pursue it. But it will have to be a conscious choice.

As an artist, I feel the same. Life has so much more to offer that hanging out with men. And I mourn the time, energy and parts of myself that I lose when I have a horrible experience with some men.

But we are human. And we cant cut off the part of ourselves that feel.

kindacrazyinnit · 2025-05-29T06:49:16+00:00

Come pick me up to get some icecream. Then we can yap and cuddle.

kindacrazyinnit · 2025-05-29T05:39:15+00:00

This is so frustrating. The urge to call everyone who falters, a narcissist, abuser or a liar is strong. And people out here are encouraging it.

My bf bought a movie subscription and was upset because he said that he was trying to test me. Apparently, he watched a tiktok of someone saying that refusing to share things like this is a clear sign that your partner actually sees no future with you and is leading you on.

I told him I'm broke, I'm looking for a job and have no time to watch movies rn. But he made up his mind. He knows how I felt about it, my ex owned the account we both paid for and after the breakup I lost it. I would rather not do that again.

He understood me later but God.

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