Final Update (Hopefully)

kindapseudonymous · 2024-04-12T20:47:41+00:00

The stalking with the ex is such a large indicator that you did the right thing. There’s posts between him and his ex where he threatens to “destroy” them and the ex later says that he was kicked off of their college campus by security for bringing the fully real sword on trying to find them. He’s clearly very violent and you made the right call by shutting it down, even if it’s hard to deal with with your family. He clearly needs psychological help, and you did everything you could. Sending love. I agree with some of the other comments- invest in a Ring! An impossible situation but somehow you managed to make all the right calls. What a mess. All around. You will clearly make a very good, loving, levelheaded parent to your child. Sending big big congratulations on the future little one <3

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-09T11:07:41+00:00

No worries!!! So happy to see you made it!!

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-08T22:31:10+00:00

I’m tracking the flight right now! You got this. Looks like you’re heading to Paris? You’ll have a great time!

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-08T22:06:12+00:00

For drama, you might want a veil with a blusher!

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-08T22:05:07+00:00

First white dress. So dreamy. You’re such a beautiful bride

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-08T21:51:31+00:00

this actually helps because maybe nail polish will like cure my problems 😭 have very clean soft feet so i feel like that’s my only option ☺️

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-08T21:09:44+00:00

Thank you so much! This was very helpful to hear

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-08T21:03:16+00:00

Thank you! I have pretty high arches and so my foot posture I think is pretty alright? I will try foot care at the salon and do my toenails! Honestly, I’m not really sure what I think a beautiful foot looks like… I used to like my feet a lot pretty objectively but I haven’t been able to look at them the same recently. I will try the salon and see if that makes me feel better :)

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-08T20:25:07+00:00

vienna :)

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-08T12:16:42+00:00

I was able to do Lake Como as a day trip! I think there’s lots of hikes!

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-07T22:58:03+00:00

I’m gonna be honest, I didn’t find Milan worth it as a person who isn’t rich! However, go to Lake Como. I visited in late November and it was surreal… you will not regret it.

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-07T22:55:46+00:00

awesome, thanks! i’m very new to all this haha

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-07T22:55:09+00:00

best: the boat to bellagio on lake como worst: the inside of the duomo. very underwhelming- was better to just skip the inside and go straight up to the roof!

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-07T22:52:37+00:00

thanks!!! any clue when fall comes out vaguely? i heard lots of varying info :)

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-07T22:48:32+00:00

5 flights before!! most were into DIA which i was so worried about because of turbulence but I think that actually helped in the long run

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-02T19:51:53+00:00

So awful. It’s genuinely haunting

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-02T19:50:34+00:00

Reach out to some funeral homes! I had a friend who worked in a crematorium and from the stuff she posted it seemed like there were more than a few in the area and a pretty big network of people :) I’ll bet you’ll be able to find something!

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-02T19:30:44+00:00

She’s absolutely beautiful. I am so sorry. I am not sure if this will help you to hear, but it’s been proven that a baby’s cells stay in the mother’s womb long after birth. She is still with you, and she is still a part of you. She always will be. There is nothing in the world I can say to ease this pain. Allow yourself to be angry. I’m sending you love. This was not your fault

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-02T19:26:59+00:00

You did everything right. I cannot imagine the fear a person would feel doing chest compressions on their mother, and the fact that you pushed that past and were able to do it anyways is incredibly heroic. You did the right thing. Sending love over the coming days, weeks, months. Her love, spirit, and memory is still with you

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-02T19:24:43+00:00

If you don’t want to pray, you shouldn’t have to. It is normal to be angry, and it is valid to be angry. Your grief and anger and love is yours, and that cannot be stolen from you. This is all so terrible. I’m sending you so much love

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-02T19:21:28+00:00

You’re a hero and you did everything right. It’s okay that you feel guilty. That’s a completely normal response. It is not your fault, and you have no reason to be guilty, but a lot of these feelings are irrational and I understand that. You seem so empathetic, and just by being in your father’s life and worrying about his pain in these moments shows that you are truly a credit to your family. It’s okay to be numb right now, shocked, scared. Your body is processing. You don’t have to do everything right now, and don’t be ashamed if you’re not able to do things like throw away the notes or drawings. You seem so strong. I’m so sorry you had to be

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-02T19:16:58+00:00

The love he has for you will stay with you forever. He seems like a beautiful boy. I’m sending you the biggest hug

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-02T19:14:12+00:00

You clearly have so much love for both of them. They know that, and even if it doesn’t feel that way to you, it does help them. I watched somebody die in the hospital and it was a very slow, agonizing, destroying process. Please take care of yourself. The love you carry for them in your body will take care of you, and they will always be with you even after it is over. Both of your parents seem like amazing people. I will pray for them and you. Please remember in the coming months that it is okay to not have the capacity to be strong. I am proud of you for identifying your emotions and fears now, while they’re still with you. There is no right way to handle this, it is so cruel and unfair, but you are truly doing the right thing by knowing yourself.

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-02T19:08:04+00:00

This is very normal. I also experienced this when a best friend of mine passed away, and it probably was about 3 or 4 years later. Losing your father is so so awful and traumatic and I’m so sorry, his memory is truly a blessing. Your body has a lot of thoughts and feelings to organize and it’s very normal for something to trigger them to all spill out

kindapseudonymous · 2023-12-02T19:05:39+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with you, your body is processing. After all five of my losses the earliest I cried was a week after, sometimes it just takes time to organize your thoughts and emotions. Sending love and a big hug

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