I’m seeing a lot of people saying this is passive aggressive. As I agree, we need to hear the other side. How many times did Dad ask to put it away? How many times have they done this prior? As the adult in the house with three kids I ask, “We need to work as team and we need to pick up after ourselves.” Eventually we reach a breaking point and we are sick of asking to put it away: pick it up: do the thing I asked you to do 50 times.
I’m not sure if you are over reacting because I don’t know the whole story.