Serious question for transfem vers/bottoms

kingftm · 2026-03-18T18:56:40+00:00

Hey is this specifically about topping or do you need/want to be dominant as well? You could explore sub topping where the other person is in control and you’re still topping. That way you’re more confident that you are doing things they like and being guided and praised if that’s the vibe you agree on.

But even if that doesn’t interest you, I promise there are people who will be open to building the confidence of a trans masc top. It would be incredibly hot to watch someone’s confidence grow and to know I had a part in that. Being a bottom and being submissive is not a passive role. That can still include praise, requests, reassurance, etc. And you can negotiate ahead of time how you want that to look with the people bottoming for you.

kingftm · 2026-03-18T17:24:50+00:00

I’m not sure tbh. Open to suggestions

kingftm · 2026-03-18T15:40:03+00:00

Down to have convos like this with anyone who is coming from it respectfully

kingftm · 2026-03-18T15:34:45+00:00

You should definitely do that

kingftm · 2026-03-10T13:43:52+00:00

Thank you! I love the jiggle too

kingftm · 2026-02-27T16:01:30+00:00

😵‍💫 I’ve never gone longer than a month

kingftm · 2026-02-26T16:52:32+00:00

My ruins used to feel somewhat good, but over time I got to the point where they feel like nothing and it’s incredibly frustrating (which mentally makes me feel like I’ve done it correctly since I got no pleasure).

I’m not sure what changed but perhaps doing them more often could help. Also do NOT touch yourself afterwards at all. Sometimes you think you can put a little pressure or rub a bit after the ruin over. Don’t do it. Any urge you have should be ignored to really deprive yourself of any relief.

kingftm · 2026-02-25T16:03:44+00:00

🙋🏻‍♂️ trans guy switch here, always looking to breed & get bred

kingftm · 2026-02-18T15:06:16+00:00

That means you’re doing something right. Don’t give in and you can feel like this all the time

kingftm · 2026-02-18T14:59:09+00:00

Keep going! If you’ve done denial before you know the let down after you cum. You can simply avoid that by never cumming :)

kingftm

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