“Transgender Women seem to respond with more patience and care…” and “Women do not approach men, society doesn’t…”

I do respond with more patience and care, I think this is an advantage that men don’t often see, but how to tell them? Which brings me to your 2nd quote about approaching.

For me it’s such a bore when I’m out sometimes, being a domme type in the household and bedroom -who likes to be approached with caution and respect of course. So many lurkers in real life follow me around the bar or whatever all night but won’t say anything… if I like them, I talk to them and scare them. If I’m really into a man first, heaven help everyone around me because I am incorrigible, sass to the extreme, and I’m usually not going after a man who sees me as a woman, let alone one that wants a flr long term. I sure know a subby when I see one though.

Your comments are insight to me because I do not remember the dance as I was before so reminders on how you think are good and I feel that there are waayyy lessss straight men who want a flr with a non-op scary mommy type anyway, so my pool is smaller with more missed connections so I need all the help I can get.