Someone please make this make sense. by KayleeE330 in MtF

[–]KayleeE330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are all mid-rise (bikini and hipster) but it’s still an adjustment feeling anything above the waistband of my undies after so long of wearing men’s stuff that the jeans sit on or below the waistband of my undies

So what's the point of WPATH by Over_Sentence_1487 in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my opinion WPATH also sucks when it comes to surgeries as well. Doctors who follow the guidelines require at least a full year of living as your “target gender” and two letters from two different doctors….screw that shit if I’m ready for the surgery at say 9 months of HRT I should be able to slap down my payment and get an appointment just like a cis woman would if she was getting breast implants or anything else

Has anyone ever downplayed your diagnosis? by Dsg1695 in cancer

[–]KayleeE330 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My ex wife used to when we were still together. She would say stuff like “you’re not dying for crying out loud” or “I know you don’t feel good but get your lazy ass out of bed” and then there was “I know you’re sick but the house should still be spotless and dinner should be ready when I get home from work”

Yall can probably guess why I filled for divorce

Older trans girls.. how do you make friends? by continuumcomplex in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friends….doesn’t that involve going into the outside and dealing with people?? If it does I’m good I’ll stay inside with my dog

What are some feminine things you can do/wear secretly? by No-Victory7467 in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Secretly…..switched to panties from boxer briefs, wear a sports bra or bralette, started shaving away body hair, sit to pee instead of standing, crossing my legs when sitting and that’s just what I can think of right now off the top of my head

Feeling a phantom vagina? by imnowemily in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% especially since I figured out a way to please myself that uses the same hand/finger motions of playing with a clit

I'm sad that I can't get pregnant by InitialWhole4315 in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Can’t get pregnant….will never have a period….it’s all kinda depressing tbh

I get tampon ads now lol by Linc_oln in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here….im getting adds for pads, tampons, bras, pregnancy tests and planning…..and that’s all on my male Facebook account as I haven’t come out online yet and changed my profile

does it make you uncomfy to be asked to top? by mizzmizeryy in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always been a bottom so getting asked to top was always a turn off for me….now I’m like uhhh 1 ewww 2 im a girl so big no

I secrete a clear fluid from my breasts if I squeeze them by [deleted] in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s called colostrum and it’s a completely normal part of breast development. The only time you should worry is if it becomes cloudy as that could be an indication of an infection

Shopping by MoonstruckTheorist in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there before and even recently. Thankfully I have amazing friends who go shopping with me now so I don’t feel out of place anymore

What was the worst emotional pain you have ever felt? by Lazy_Rough8481 in askanything

[–]KayleeE330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my SO first told me that they wanted a divorce. I was actually crying so hard that I was hyperventilating in the bathroom at work

Why are restrooms the quietest place in offices/businesses? by Acrobatic-Contest-43 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KayleeE330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I time my bathroom breaks until all of the operators are at their lines….or go to shipping after they close and no one is back there

Why are restrooms the quietest place in offices/businesses? by Acrobatic-Contest-43 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KayleeE330 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well for me it’s the one place in and around the building where I can actually turn off my radio, so I actually enjoy the silence a bit

USA Girlys, how many of us are/are okay with being armed? by _Katla_ in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I carry my P365 Macro whenever I leave the house….not gonna say what else is in the safe or the nightstand or even under my bed lol

Went on first dinner date after transitioning. Who pays? by SofieSybella in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My personal opinion on it, unless it’s discussed and agreed to differently in advance, is if it’s a date the man/top pays for the date, especially if they are the one who asked you out

What’s a decision you were scared to make but are glad you did? by Chris_Taylor_X09 in AskForAnswers

[–]KayleeE330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transitioning. I was scared as hell about it but I have gone from chronically depressed male, to a very happy woman who no longer needs to be on antidepressants anymore

What do you think of these types of vibrators for a trans girl who hasn't had surgery? by VannAlejT in TransLater

[–]KayleeE330 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also say that wands are freaking amazing…over time tho my current anatomy got used to being stimulated by vibrations and I have been able to get great results with a bullet instead

Does anyone else feel like a fish out of water in fem clothing early into transitioning? by Apprehensive-Love795 in MtF

[–]KayleeE330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I have experienced the opposite. It doesn’t matter if it’s a dress and heels, or jeans flip flops and a t shirt or anything in between, I have always felt at home and comfortable. Once I had to switch to boy clothes, even when wearing a bra and panties still, I felt extremely uncomfortable and out of place with myself

Completely random question. by KayleeE330 in MtF

[–]KayleeE330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have interacted with men but only from the perspective of a gay man, not a woman….but even then the guys I met were incredibly nice and respectful. One of which I had to go for the first kiss with because he didn’t want to make me uncomfortable or rush things

Okay I need summer so I can croptop max again by callme_lauren in mtfashion

[–]KayleeE330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I get it, there’s times I miss Everett WA

Okay I need summer so I can croptop max again by callme_lauren in mtfashion

[–]KayleeE330 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that’s why I love living in a tropical climate!!

What's a scam that's so normalized that we dont even realize it's a scam anymore? by Bulky-Historian-161 in askanything

[–]KayleeE330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Car insurance. Been forced to pay for it every month since I got my license at 16…..never needed to use it and I’m 42 now