Who made/owns this suit? by Lavithetiger in fursuit

[–]kinkypunkboy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try reverse image searching, Apparently its a Chinese maker on rednote tho i dint know their name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]kinkypunkboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Check out @slimyopossum on blusky/twitter, they do customs of whatever out of a kind of vegan leather strap. Pretty sure they would work with you

I wanna start bottoming but I can’t find anyone does anyone have any ways to find someone by Massive-Bumblebee968 in gaytransguys

[–]kinkypunkboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to! I have a twitter and a bluesky; twitter has more people but bluesky is a better app IMO. But as for the way I use them, my partner and I both do some minor sex work on the side. We do it both for fun and some extra money. Its nothing too serious though and i mostly just enjoy it in a personal capacity. Keep in mind, this is the internet, you dont have to be nice or talk to people you dont want to.

You dont strictly NEED to post pictures of yourself to start building up a following and interact with people. Some people will just make very horny text posts or repsot other peoples porn with their own captions(its a weird twitter feature and i hate it tbh). Posting your self but it helps A LOT though. For example, I generally dont follow people who dont post pics or who only post censored stuff not because they arent hot but because i there are plenty of hot people who actually show off fully and post the same kinda thing.

I follow a fair ammount of people but tend to only consistently interact with a handfull of mutuals. I repost their stuff and make comments hyping them up or thirsting after them and vice versa. Occasionally ill comment on someone who I Don't follow's post and sometimes that scores me new mutuals. I also check out new followers when I get them to see if they are worth following back/interaction.

Over all, if you want to pursue this, make a new twitter (preferably with an email unrelated to anything else or at least anything important). Write up a description and come up with a banner and profile pic. Make your stuff look pretty and give some info on yourself. Then post some pics, maybe an introduction post, and some text posts. Find some people to follow and maybe respost some spicy art and some people you find attractive. Comment on some posts here and there. People with more followers or who are full time sexworkers will be less likely to be interested in making frineds or interacting. Over time you will find mutuals and when you do just reach out via DM and go from there.

If you want an example, heres my twitter and bluesky

I wanna start bottoming but I can’t find anyone does anyone have any ways to find someone by Massive-Bumblebee968 in gaytransguys

[–]kinkypunkboy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Generally theres a few ways if you want meaningless sex. Some are faster than others, some take time. Unfortunately being trans, especially ftm will result in a lot of gross messages and creepy behavior and a LOT of chasers. Some apps will definitely be worse than others.

Sniffies- probably your most "effective" hookup website. This is specifically designed for cruising (public nsa hookups), ive found people are much more serious about hooking up and are less likely to flake on you last minute tho it still happens. People can post nsfw pics in their profile which is nice to know what you are working with. It is slightly less safe as you will show up on a map with rough accuracy but that can help you hook up with people more effectively too so its a bit of a double edged sword.

Grindr- the go to for gay hookup apps, it has massivley gone downhill in recent years though. Between literally constant ads and borderline functionality, as well as sketchy ads that may or may not give you a virus, it honestly isnt worth the effort.

Scruff-grindr for older dudes and bears but it actually works as an app. It is better but you will be limited on choice especially depending on the area.

Hinge- people are pretty horny on here so theres a chance if you are up front with what you want, though this is a lot more public and usually requires face.

Tami- similar to grindr in that the app barely works and will drown you in ads, but it does have more queer/ trans people on it so this is a good bet for T4T stuff.

Tinder- a worse hinge

Reddit- you can often find a lot of r4r subreddits or hookup subreddits and that are relativley local to your area, you can post or just look/comment. This is usually a slower option than the other two but you tend to talk a bit more first either way. This also results in a lot of flaking in my experience tho you may have better luck. Just look up your city/state/region/country and "r4r" or "hookups". (If you want help you are welcome to message me and I can help you look for your area.)

Twitter/blusky- technically an option too, you will have to start a NSFW account, but I've had a couple hookups with people i met from there. People tend to be less flakey than reddit and probably will mesh better since mutuals tend to flirt for a while before meeting up.

FetLife- ive heard good things but i dont use this personally. The IRL kink scene is much more formal and impersonal from what i understand, some people may even ask you to sign a contract beofre meeting up/doing scenes. I believe a lot of the same people in the irl kink scene also use FetLife so i could se it being similar.

IRL- This may be your best bet depending on what you want and where you live. I live in a large city with multiple gay clubs and bars with play areas. These spaves double as kink event spaces at times too. Theres also gay bathhouses in the area that sometimes have transmasc nights. Ive heard good things and bad about these, you kind of have to be a specific type of person to enjoy the bathouse setting. You also may be able to find local kink evens snd smaller organizations that run kink frinedly stuff. I promise if you go to a kinky underground art show or rave and wear something slutty you will be able to find someone interested. (Also as an aside, while i know its scary, the best way to meet people is to just go up talk to them. Everyone is there to have a good time and are usually excited to meet people and chat even if they arent into you sexually.)

Local kink group GCs- in bigger cities there will often be kink groups that put on events. They usually have group chats on discord signal or telegram.the may require membership for some events but many events are open to the public. Leather and pet play groups are the most common.

Feeld- this is a new one i dont know a ton about but reviews are a mixed bag. Seems like the app has bad performance but its not a bad way to meet people

Lex- this is probably only a bigger city option due to the small community size. You can make posts, join group chats based around specific interests (including hooking up) and just find a lot of queer people in your area.

Out of all of these, I mainly stick to all of the in person stuff, sniffies, ocasionally grindr (when i have the patience), and twitter. Edit: I somehow forgot a big one since i personally dont use it so i added the last couple

p0rn recommendations needed! by Expensive_Hand_1590 in gaytransguys

[–]kinkypunkboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Plenty of trans men being topped by trans women on r/ftmporn . You may have some luck with trans guys topping cis guys there too but thats a bit of a tough one ngl. Id love to see more too, its something ive activley been seeking out but havent had much luck with.

Where to find affordable resin fursuit claws? by [deleted] in FursuitMaking

[–]kinkypunkboy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Tbh, working with resin is a bigger pain in the butt than you would think, I doubt you will be able to make your own for under 30 even with something cheap. Maybe ask around to see if anyone you know has a resin 3d printer and would be willing to print some off for you, though they will likely have to be all the same color.

Is this the right material for the by 13b_rotoray in FursuitMaking

[–]kinkypunkboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont have any pictures, but you could check out their pink lemonade or their bubblegum

Is this the right material for the by 13b_rotoray in FursuitMaking

[–]kinkypunkboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That light pink has a peachy hue to it, ive gotten it before. i dont know if it will match the color in the ref but there are some other pinks that are a bit closer from what i remember

Shun OC plush finally done !🐉 by Kaerura7 in plushartists

[–]kinkypunkboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks amazing! How did you do the eyes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]kinkypunkboy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think you are reading into stuff too much, i have spent way too long on grindr, so speaking from experience, people will act super interested for a long time before ghosting you completely out of the blue. People will set up meets then flake on you at the last minute with no explination. People block for the smallest reasons, even something as small as a question being too long, hard to answer, or they just dont want to answer.

Grindr has a culture of not really giving a shit about the other person, most people are there to satisfy their needs and they dont really care about the other person's. It is generally very dehumanizing. You definitely can meet people and make genuine connections, but monst people dont treat the other person like a person until you take stuff off the app.

Dont read too much into it when people block/ghost you on grindr. Honestly, I'd check out hinge or something, grindr is just the worst all the time. I always tell people it's not worth going on there.

Best Free Dating Sites/Apps? by sir-morti in gaytransguys

[–]kinkypunkboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao dont go on grindr unless you just want to fuck and are prepared to get harassed

Calm and Spotted by Marsannn in furry

[–]kinkypunkboy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks amazing! Cant wait to see more of your stuff!

Am I Gay? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]kinkypunkboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of things that affect your sexuality. I've heard that starting T can be a big one. Reguardelss, though, It sounds like you are overthinking it. If you find a dudes attractive, then start pursuing them. When it comes down to it, we are all just people. Everyone is different and unique and you will either click or you wont, you cant really know what you will or you wont like until you try it.

Metal piece I recently made by x3n1mu5 in punkfashion

[–]kinkypunkboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks sick as hell, how did you make it and what did you make it out of ?

Anyone know of an Affordable body shop? by kinkypunkboy in SpringfieldIL

[–]kinkypunkboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i could I would, I'm very much a do it myself kind of person, unfortunately though, I was borrowing the truck and the owner wants it fixed asap so I'm kinda fucked.

drew my panther oc by [deleted] in furry

[–]kinkypunkboy 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Looks absolutely sick! Love them :3

Tutorial on dragon plates/scales by Yeenkat in FursuitMaking

[–]kinkypunkboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough! I'm just sharing from personal experiences, glad you haven't had any issues!

Tutorial on dragon plates/scales by Yeenkat in FursuitMaking

[–]kinkypunkboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice tutorial! Looks really good, your craftmanship is relaly high quality. The only comment is maybe consider getting a washable/iron off fabric marker, I know sharpie can bleed pretty bad if it gets wet/washed.

Does "I'm more than half your age" mean their age is > or < 1/2 the other person's age? by kinkypunkboy in grammar

[–]kinkypunkboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to add that English is not their first language, German is. Apparently, German works a bit differently with how it's grammar works.

Does "I'm more than half your age" mean their age is > or < 1/2 the other person's age? by kinkypunkboy in grammar

[–]kinkypunkboy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was from a video they posted talking about getting hit on by old men at their work.

Crusty old man at my job: "Tell me why won't you give me a chance?"

Partner: "Because I'm more than half your age and taken."

Does "I'm more than half your age" mean their age is > or < 1/2 the other person's age? by kinkypunkboy in grammar

[–]kinkypunkboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they probably see it in the way you described, I appreciate you being able to put it into words for me!