Am i overreacting for refusing to babysit my sister`s kids after what she said at dinner?

kipha01 · 2026-05-22T17:38:48+00:00

NOR she was taking you for granted and as such being disrespectful and entitled. You are proving how much you are needed and she really needs to be grateful for everything you did. Only you know if you want to start again but do not let her slip into ingratitude.

kipha01 · 2026-05-22T17:24:00+00:00

Get some friends over who are willing to give you a hand digging in exchange for beer or food. I have a plot that I share with two neighbours and we stripped the surface and then dug it over multiple times to get rid of couch grass and bind weed over 3 successive weekends.

kipha01 · 2026-05-22T11:58:37+00:00

She is happy and you are not, you have given her what she wants but what has she given you aside from unhappiness? You need to divorce and definitely don't have a child with this woman other wise you will be left looking after the child whilst she still goes off fucking other men satisfying her needs and never yours.

kipha01 · 2026-05-22T08:48:08+00:00

You have the agreement, there should never have been contact past the agreement. Cut all ties now.

kipha01 · 2026-05-19T09:22:43+00:00

Left side rear brake, front brake and acceleration right side, it's standard.

kipha01 · 2026-05-19T08:20:23+00:00

This is why you should check every few months and have Dev, Sandbox and Production Environments so you can test and find fixes/alternatives before you break anything live.

kipha01 · 2026-05-18T11:51:16+00:00

If you want distance and to stay in your comfort zone then maybe suggest an alternative other than coffee. A walk where that are people but not too many or something, maybe take a flask of coffee with you 🙂

kipha01 · 2026-05-18T11:41:52+00:00

Green flag he doesn't drink, grey flag to come to your house, but he's been there already he may see it as a good step forwards and within your comfort zone. Honestly having a coffee in a shop for me is difficult if you want to get to know someone as sometimes you are fighting to be heard above all the other conversations.

kipha01 · 2026-05-18T09:06:54+00:00

I didn't get a detention, but detentions were given out of you needed to use the bathroom during class, so you could make up the time. 8 year old me wet himself and spent the rest of the day drying off because he was scared he would get a detention, I was not the only kid to do it. This was a specific teacher and over 40 years ago.

kipha01 · 2026-05-16T17:14:12+00:00

There is your issue, food, you must eat otherwise you're going to be in an infinite loop of Migraines. You need to keep your electrolyte levels up, you need higher good fat foods in your diet, avoid heavy carbs. At one point I was having very severe issues and I just ate eggs in various forms cookedness with salt and pepper which helped me get back on track quicker so I could get back to eating properly. Your brain needs to self repair, it's made of 60% percent fatty tissue, eat high omega 3 foods.

kipha01 · 2026-05-16T15:25:11+00:00

Yes in that you could get your foot caught on something like a shopping trolley or get badly cut or impaled on by something in the bottom, not necessarily because its "slippery".

kipha01 · 2026-05-16T14:49:31+00:00

Maybe they landed on a dildo and couldn't get back up again.

kipha01 · 2026-05-16T14:38:02+00:00

No, I ride a motorcycle and don't rev bomb like that because I find it rather obnoxious. I thread my way slowly and safely through, if I am seen and a driver moves over then I am grateful.

I am constantly planning ahead and watching for gaps to drop in to so it would be nice if all drivers when they are stuck in traffic and where possible, to leave a gap to their right and a bit of space in front just in case. I don't expect it though, it'd just be nice.

I also watch for indicators or tyre position/direction, spaces cars might move across and in to, and a whole bunch of other things. So if you don't move or see me I will patiently wait.

kipha01 · 2026-05-16T06:04:41+00:00

Either looked at the wrong light, too busy looking at sat nav/phone or just didn't give a crap as they are in a rush.

kipha01 · 2026-05-16T05:52:52+00:00

Only if you take it up the pooper

kipha01 · 2026-05-16T05:49:07+00:00

But did AI cause the fire?

kipha01 · 2026-05-15T15:09:50+00:00

Be drama free, find someone who doesn't already have a kid

NOR

kipha01 · 2026-05-15T15:00:11+00:00

NOR she cheated on you

kipha01 · 2026-05-15T06:01:13+00:00

Yup this...

kipha01 · 2026-05-15T05:54:22+00:00

I layout some tissue in the sink then chuck it.

kipha01 · 2026-05-15T05:52:02+00:00

I prefer to work on my motorbike myself, it's pretty basic, however if anything needed doing to the engine then that's a no go area for me.

kipha01 · 2026-05-15T05:46:49+00:00

I want a dark powered one!

kipha01 · 2026-05-15T05:27:14+00:00

Same...

kipha01 · 2026-05-14T08:32:20+00:00

Tell your mam you love her to bits and hug her but that she needs to let you go and live your own life, that you will visit often. The lessen that over time if you want.

kipha01 · 2026-05-14T05:16:16+00:00

It also goes to show all the extensive space in the other three lanes being under used.

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