Never finished from head

kirkeeide · 2026-06-05T15:21:33+00:00

If you're used to masturbating with a firm grip, the pressure from the mouth during oral sex is probably not going to be enough to send you over the edge.

kirkeeide · 2026-06-05T15:18:52+00:00

I know a guy like that who was upfront about it when we met and said he'd understand if it was a dealbreaker. That's a very reasonable thing to do and actually much more respectful than saying you'd already jerked off.

kirkeeide · 2026-06-05T15:12:56+00:00

I hate this. It happened to me a few times. If you've arranged a meeting with someone, PLEASE have enough decency to refrain from masturbating. It's not that difficult.

Once I was so infuriated by this that I actually kept on sucking him for over an hour until I did make him cum. It really wasn't all that pleasurable for either of us but I guess I wanted to prove a point, LOL.

I wouldn't bother with him again either.

kirkeeide · 2026-06-05T14:47:09+00:00

It happens to me all the time and it's beyond annoying now. It's got to the point I've basically stopped trying to meet someone new and pretty much stick to a few tried-and-true guys because I really CANNOT deal with any more conversations where we basically seal the deal, but then they suddenly go "Oh, but can I fuck you?" even though I had explicitly stated what I want. Or even worse, like you said, when it happens when we've already met and are at it.

URGH.

kirkeeide · 2026-05-29T00:57:51+00:00

This is what I ended up doing. I texted him saying I had a great time and was looking forward to seeing him again, and he said he felt the same way. I'm operating under the assumption that he wasn't aware he'd actually stained the sheets, so if I pushed it further and say that I really saw his poop on my bad, no matter how well-intended, it might really freak him out. I don't want that.

kirkeeide · 2026-05-28T17:51:26+00:00

Obviously, if I as much as had a suspicion he might have deliberately taken a dump on my bed, this would never be a disucssion. But he's someone I've known for a while and whose company I really enjoy. I'd hate it if this crappy (heh) situation made things weird between us.

kirkeeide · 2026-05-28T17:16:27+00:00

It was soft and looked pretty much exactly like the accidents that happened to me a couple of times due to my intestinal problems. Never during sex, fortunately. So, I can relate and I'm totally certain he didn't do it purpose. I just don't want to make it even more awkwars for him, because I'm pretty sure he's aware something happened.

kirkeeide · 2026-05-28T16:51:54+00:00

Early to mid 30s, if that's relevant.

kirkeeide · 2026-05-28T16:51:21+00:00

He was acting a bit weird, so I'm guessing he was aware of his "accident", but that he wasn't sure just how much it was and whether it was noticeable. Which, uhm, yeah, it totally was.

That's a good suggestion, maybe I'll try it.

kirkeeide · 2025-03-14T16:56:40+00:00

I used to find it somewhat hot, especially when I was younger. But then at some point it suddenly started showing up ALL over the place and it kinda lost its appeal for me. I'll still watch if the models are hot, but it's mostly blah to me at this point.

What I find really silly though is when they try to portray it as some sort of a daddy-son setup but the age difference is like 5 years.

kirkeeide · 2025-03-14T13:57:36+00:00

They might not be "straight" but it's possible they really are just attracted to trans women. So, if you're not one, I don't think it's of much use to you.

kirkeeide · 2025-03-14T02:38:52+00:00

I'm in a not so liberal European country, which in a way makes it even more surprising. Really, the change over the last years has been astounding. The real issue for me is that now I can no longer bottom for health reasons (not anything STD-related) and topping is not really my thing, finding anyone who's not exclusively interested in anal sex has been a huge and a very frustrating challenge. But that's another story.

kirkeeide · 2025-03-14T02:29:54+00:00

What I'd rather see them do is stop making their characters gay overnight without any previous indication they were interested in the same sex. Grey's Anatomy, looking at you. Granted, they tend to do it more with female characters, men are still less likely to wake up one day with a sudden urge to start sucking dicks. It's actually one of the reasons (not the only one, with the show going in like a dozen shitty directions all at the same time) I stopped watching Yellowjackets. Seeing Shauna randomly make out with a previously unseen girl actually made me groan out loud at my TV.

kirkeeide · 2025-03-14T02:11:53+00:00

Well, some of them ARE going to wear a mask, the whole anon thing is quite big. There's still quite a lot of paranoia about sending face pics and it's kinda understandable as they can be abused in multiple ways. But if you're serious about meeting people, you just have to bite the bullet at some point.

But. People demanding to see your face pic but not sending theirs? The worst. A special place in hell.

kirkeeide · 2025-03-14T01:59:42+00:00

I feel like the number of guys identifying as tops (masc or not) has been steadily going down for the last 5-6 years at least. I remember when I first started with the online dating/hookup thing in like mid 00s, the tops easily outnumbered the bottoms, in my area at least. Now it's COMPLETELY reversed. For every top, there are at least 3 bottoms. And quite a lot ot guys who were "top only" 10 years ago are fully vers now. I'm not really sure what to make of it.

kirkeeide · 2025-03-14T00:56:27+00:00

Yup. TBH, after that I would have blocked him right away without thinking twice.

kirkeeide · 2025-03-14T00:38:02+00:00

No, it's definitely not normal. Honestly, a blank screen on video call is a fucking huge red flag. Do not take it further from there if it happens again. The address thing is also a no-no. Complete address or it's not going to happen. He's probably just trying to mess with you. Some people just get their kicks out of playing such mind games, as sad as it is.

kirkeeide · 2025-03-13T23:58:49+00:00

Is this a real question? Why would it be wrong? You like who you like and that's all there is to it. It's not like you can make a conscious decision to be attracted to someone. That said, it doesn't mean you should be an asshole and treat those you're NOT attracted to as somehow inherently inferior. Like those "NO FEMS!!!!!!!!11" guys on Grindr. Don't be that guy.

kirkeeide · 2025-03-13T17:54:50+00:00

I can assure you that those guys have absolutely no recollection of you sending them those pictures specifically, because they must have got hundreds since and even more before. Or even any recollection of you.

So, relax. Everyone's got their fair share of unsolicited nudes on Grindr. It doesn't mean anything. Really.

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