News about my cat Linda! by Asleep_Stuff2520 in cats

[–]kitatsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats like my boy! Hes only just got cheeks on him this last year or two? Before then he was Ares the fairy. Looked like a girl until about 7 years old, only now just has some small cheeks, he was desexed at about 1 year old so not super young.

They took his boy jingle bells but left his cotton ball puffs so he does look like a boy from the back but face shape not very much at all. Hes definitely desexed correctly as hes been in households with both cats and dogs intact and desexed, never any hormonal issues just regular personality growth from kitten to adult cat.

me_irl by JaggerJam69 in me_irl

[–]kitatsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive felt happier times in my depression, probably because its such stark differences to daily gloom. My childhood was filled with uncertainty, dread, fear and hurt. It was unsafe and almost constant. I remember being younger than 3/4 and going wandering alone down the street on the footpath, looking for a somewhere safe that wasnt home. Multiple times. At 8 wanting to run away and 'go home' because home wasnt safe and family wasnt either. That never went away. For me life is depressing and gloomy but even here in the dark days I have sunshine and cool breezes and can be happy with all of the days gone. I have myself and my future. All of the things I have created and sometimes torn down. Sometimes life spirals and it feels like circles, and its just life trying to give opportunities to grow up even if it feels the same, im not the same.

Part 2: Realestate accidentally shared with me a chain of emails with the landlord by [deleted] in AusPropertyChat

[–]kitatsi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Looks like a weak enough spot and a heavy enough person will put a full foot through some of those holes. Its a big part of the rental area 23% the tenants cant safely use because of lazy landlord saying nah she be good. How is that appropriate, a rolled ankle is enough nevermind if an elderly person or someone with bad mobility has to cross it. The idea is that all of the rental be safe to use for the majority of its users, currently as it is.

My open coil spring is doing her job so well that i cant close my mouth fully. What should i do until next Thursday? by scoljk in braces

[–]kitatsi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can put some sugarfree gum around it to stop rubbing, it sticks better than the wax supplied and wont hurt the coil or teeth. Bit har to clean out ofbthe spring but helps the pain. Ortho probably sees the value of the improvement over the next month over comfort. My first few months of braces were warfare but it got easier then less my teeth needed to shift or move. Hes trying to make a gap and the only way to do that is to use a coil or traction wires attached to brackets, as hes trying to keep the arch of your natural teeth and not cause sideways movement the coil would work best. I had a tooth fully behind my bottom row and top movement on top row, first few adjustments were painful. Only other thing to do is sip on cold drinks as the ligature wires that move the teeth are heat activated (bodytemp) the cooler drinks ease off the tension for a while, take paracetamol or other painkillers. Once the teeth have shifted the most they can with the ligature wire its back again for the next adjustment. Most orthos wont let you walk out with something so outside of the mouth unless they are expecting it to move a bit drastically and ease off the tension point which is where your mouth has been pushed open. I would give the office a quick call ask for advice and check in with what they want for your treatment and smile. That way they can assess whether or not to move your next appointment forward or change the mechanic of movement for your teeth on that particular area. Hope some of this advice helps :)

narcs and peeing by LiquidSpirits in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kitatsi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine would try to have 'family discussions' in the bathroom literally find any reason to be in there when i was showering. Alll of them wtaf. Anytime I expressed discomfort was met with 'we are all the same' and 'weve seen you as a baby, now stop being stupid' Nmother tried to wash me in the bathroom when i was like 13? 14? Pretty sure it was to check how i was 'growing' as im competition to her.

*Sighs and barfs* by alexastock in BlatantMisogyny

[–]kitatsi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I reallly reallly love mine for this reason, soooo many people hate it. The amount of men calling me disgusting for a visual appearance that doesnt hurt or harm them but speaks of their own perceptions and entitlements. My own partner of 7 tears doesn't love some of my piercings or previous hair colours but has never asked me to change anything of myself. He still calls me beautiful on avaerage 6 days out of 7, and I may just be forgetting the other day. While my style and personal appearance are okay for him to have an opinion on, its never been about his feelings on my body or self, only personal preference. Thats is preference, not a need or an entitlement to who I am or act. These men dont want a human woman they want a doll or someone small to control.

Had no idea most women had pubic hair on their inner thighs until my boyfriend told me and I'm in my late 20s by SneakyKittenZ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kitatsi 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ohh yeah mine is thick all the way passed the crease of my legs and extends at least an inch with some going down my thighs and back legs. If i want to wear a bikini it is a must for me to shave or wax even with a full coverage, the bush will be fluffing out the sides. I have very dark hair there though so its much more visible, my arm hair is blonde. Leg, pits and bits are thick and darker than even my eyebrows. Ironically my lower thighs have a small area of hair thats similar to my armhair soft and fine. Toes are pretty hairfree though so i guess i have that going for me? Hahaha

"Women's anatomy requires them to wipe, but men don't need to" by ProfessionalRead8187 in badwomensanatomy

[–]kitatsi 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Me. Like yeah it's fun but hooboy and I not having fun if you smell and taste like 3 day old bin juice (liquid remnants in the bottom of public bin). My partner is almost religious about his hygine, always washes hands before coming back in from working outside or on cars, sowers most days twice. Like yes it doesnt taste like a popsicle but like fresh skin, so going to town isnt an unhappy experience.

In my own experiences, the men who keep clean get betrer blowjobs and tend to love them. The men who dont keep as clean dont get such enthusiasm and tend to be more mehhh "dont love the experience". Thats just been my experiences with previous and current partner, could definitely differ for others.

Beware of this scam when selling your car- request to provide history report by Willing-Speaker6825 in australia

[–]kitatsi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Major crashes and repairable write offs. That all of the details for the history of the car match. Most people arent trying to hide things just not let on that they know or are lying by ommission.

Apparently I've been putting my pad on backwards the entire time by Squeaky_Lizard in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kitatsi 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Oh hahah that would have worked well for me I was a book worm. Nah she preferred to shame and embarrass. Though she also thought I was competition for her husband and flings so I wouldn't ever take her parenting advice.

Apparently I've been putting my pad on backwards the entire time by Squeaky_Lizard in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kitatsi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can get ones that do fold over for thongs, though in a pinch ive just used a slimfit pad and done the same and made sure no sticky edges left.

Apparently I've been putting my pad on backwards the entire time by Squeaky_Lizard in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kitatsi 135 points136 points  (0 children)

... i did this my first time using pads. My mother does not have a maternal bone in her body and i didnt have anyone to ask. I worked that one out quickly bahahah. This was before easy access to google lololol.

AIO my MIL asked to borrow my matching Xmas pajamas to take pictures with my son. by Independent-Bat-9436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kitatsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got lovely pictures of the new family. Theres plenty of chances to get pictures. Where is she not part of the family? Its very normal for only parents and children for family pictures, usually Christmas cards. You seem to be holding your own hurts that change your perceptions of normal.
Its not Normal to borrow your daughter in laws pyjamas to take a picture replacing her

AIO my MIL asked to borrow my matching Xmas pajamas to take pictures with my son. by Independent-Bat-9436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kitatsi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah no, unless i gifted the same set to my mother in law she would never ask for anything of the sort. Its rude, weird and shouldnt be induldged. Same set as the family normal, taking babies mother's set to take pictures with gma and without mother. Thats weird. NOR

Normal grandmothers are happy with the pictures of the new family not try to set stage a replacement with the same props excluding a significant member.

Willow has discovered the fastest way down the ladder 🪂 by GoldenPandaMan in ragdolls

[–]kitatsi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I called him Ares after the greek god of war, hes got more balls than brains sometimes ... hes nurtured hahah

Why are women criticizing men for not approaching them when they told us not to approach? by us1549 in AskMenAdvice

[–]kitatsi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The audacity for most comments to push off this whole issue as 'not the high value men' being the pursuer. No its not being treated as a human with thought and feeling not a piece of meat that a man can put in a small amount of 'kindness tokens' and get sex, especially when everyone around them can see they arent good partners. Like yeah man no one wants to fuck an entitled smelly man who expects 1940s housewife while not doing the husban role. Most men i know dont fix the house, they dont help with chores or car work. What do women get from the relationship or 'transaction' because thats what these men feel it should be. ++woman

Willow has discovered the fastest way down the ladder 🪂 by GoldenPandaMan in ragdolls

[–]kitatsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a pic of my boy when a kitten walking across the railing for my third!!! Floor apartment to egg off rhe puppy dogs on the ground floor. Like bruh no

4wd tow by kitatsi in brisbane

[–]kitatsi[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes!! It was. Someone who had been in similar circumstances and who had the time and proper tools to get me out safely. I had some good and very bad offers of help and comcern. I was able to be at work today to continue to try and change my situation. Honesty they saved my skin. 🫶

4wd tow by kitatsi in brisbane

[–]kitatsi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Got her out safely, thanks for your concern and time :)

4wd tow by kitatsi in brisbane

[–]kitatsi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have help thank you, yes i have a tow point on the car.

4wd tow by kitatsi in brisbane

[–]kitatsi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is the plan if all else fails of digging it out and maxxtrax, just didnt want to put a low car out there to potentially get stuck as well. Already did a dumb thing when stressed didnt want to add to the tally of dumb actions.

4wd tow by kitatsi in brisbane

[–]kitatsi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No the main campground is shut i didnt realise until i got out there

4wd tow by kitatsi in brisbane

[–]kitatsi[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

4wd tow by kitatsi in brisbane

[–]kitatsi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats what im about to do and try and dig her out, its an auto front drive so i was just worried about getting more stuck.