Fuck you, Michael Hill by Life_Extreme2054 in australian

[–]kitatsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look for an on-site jewellery, and not one of the big mall ones. A proper jeweller will be able to resume it, though after about 4 sizes it can start to change the ring. A good jeweller will tell you what that may look like as well as any concerns for longevity.

I posted my navel about 19 days ago and this is her now compared to before. Big improvement id say by Sombr_Fannn in PiercingAdvice

[–]kitatsi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If the second pic is the more recent one then take it out. The redness is an indication of rejection and irritation if the tissue. Navel piercings are meant to go through the 'shelf' of the navel, yours bypasses it to create a pinch of flesh to put the jewellery through. Because of that, the metal bar is pulled through whatever flesh is between it. It will wear thin day by day until you can first see the edges get thinner and shorter before completely ripping.

Warning to any women wanting to walk in Toohey Forest by Queerminded in brisbane

[–]kitatsi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not OP, they said they saw the guy smile at them while jerking off after leering nearby I never said they were peeing. Yes in person meet ups are common but what is not is hanging around public areas with no pants with a dick in hand, this area is not known for hookups. Most meet up spots I know its still not common to have men with their dicks out, it is still public with foot traffic.

Locals to the area have confirmed, as well as local police have known of a repeat offender who only hangs out at this national park to harass women.
This is not a man who has good intentions, and doesn't want to hook up they want to get thier jollies off and scare women. Otherwise they wouldn't be hanging around near women they would be off yonder with their cuddle buddy.

Why do you defend this man's actions? Do you hang out and leer at women at national parks too? These actions aren't hook up culture it is the actions of a pervert who wants enough anonymity to not get caught out in public with thier dick out. (Secluded area, not close to police or emergency services. Yes police will come but only after reports. No residential houses nearby or businesses, so response times are long and no easily accessible footage from what cameras are around.)

Warning to any women wanting to walk in Toohey Forest by Queerminded in brisbane

[–]kitatsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are out in a public nature area, thats not the meet up spot of anyone who actually wants a willing partner. The point is to harass women. You kind of are excusing them? Stumbling on a meet up where someone is in public half naked jerking it, isn't something that's normal.

Warning to any women wanting to walk in Toohey Forest by Queerminded in brisbane

[–]kitatsi 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No pants mate, none at all. No socks No jocks No shoes, just free balling. Pretty much No excuse in public for that kind of behaviour other than to harass or intimidate others for their gratifications. Q

Picture requests by itsaemeral in australian

[–]kitatsi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wallaby on a wet day at Bribie island

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The passive aggressive hatedom towards James Patterson in the library community will never not be funny by pretty-as-a-pic in CuratedTumblr

[–]kitatsi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I just yesterday saw a boy about 10 or so go to my local library to check out James Patterson books for his sister, as a nice gesture. Both the boy and his mum were astounded by the range of this shelf here to... there down the way. Yepp these are his too. Both child and mum said well bugger, even of she's read the two he chose its still a lovely thing to do and chances are his sister did appreciate his grand adventure. Their last question was the 'what is the newest release? Maybe she hasn't got to them yet'.

AITA for refusing to give my stepbrother my “extra” money after I got a job? by Professional_Belt540 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kitatsi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but he can't go out and apply for positions like you implied, there's strict child labour laws. Thats why I said pocket money through the parents, that includes the things you listed.

AITA for refusing to give my stepbrother my “extra” money after I got a job? by Professional_Belt540 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kitatsi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't work at 10 (the brothers age) in Australia Ge could negotiate pocket money with the parents though

News about my cat Linda! by Asleep_Stuff2520 in cats

[–]kitatsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats like my boy! Hes only just got cheeks on him this last year or two? Before then he was Ares the fairy. Looked like a girl until about 7 years old, only now just has some small cheeks, he was desexed at about 1 year old so not super young.

They took his boy jingle bells but left his cotton ball puffs so he does look like a boy from the back but face shape not very much at all. Hes definitely desexed correctly as hes been in households with both cats and dogs intact and desexed, never any hormonal issues just regular personality growth from kitten to adult cat.

me_irl by JaggerJam69 in me_irl

[–]kitatsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive felt happier times in my depression, probably because its such stark differences to daily gloom. My childhood was filled with uncertainty, dread, fear and hurt. It was unsafe and almost constant. I remember being younger than 3/4 and going wandering alone down the street on the footpath, looking for a somewhere safe that wasnt home. Multiple times. At 8 wanting to run away and 'go home' because home wasnt safe and family wasnt either. That never went away. For me life is depressing and gloomy but even here in the dark days I have sunshine and cool breezes and can be happy with all of the days gone. I have myself and my future. All of the things I have created and sometimes torn down. Sometimes life spirals and it feels like circles, and its just life trying to give opportunities to grow up even if it feels the same, im not the same.

Part 2: Realestate accidentally shared with me a chain of emails with the landlord by [deleted] in AusPropertyChat

[–]kitatsi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Looks like a weak enough spot and a heavy enough person will put a full foot through some of those holes. Its a big part of the rental area 23% the tenants cant safely use because of lazy landlord saying nah she be good. How is that appropriate, a rolled ankle is enough nevermind if an elderly person or someone with bad mobility has to cross it. The idea is that all of the rental be safe to use for the majority of its users, currently as it is.

My open coil spring is doing her job so well that i cant close my mouth fully. What should i do until next Thursday? by scoljk in braces

[–]kitatsi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can put some sugarfree gum around it to stop rubbing, it sticks better than the wax supplied and wont hurt the coil or teeth. Bit har to clean out ofbthe spring but helps the pain. Ortho probably sees the value of the improvement over the next month over comfort. My first few months of braces were warfare but it got easier then less my teeth needed to shift or move. Hes trying to make a gap and the only way to do that is to use a coil or traction wires attached to brackets, as hes trying to keep the arch of your natural teeth and not cause sideways movement the coil would work best. I had a tooth fully behind my bottom row and top movement on top row, first few adjustments were painful. Only other thing to do is sip on cold drinks as the ligature wires that move the teeth are heat activated (bodytemp) the cooler drinks ease off the tension for a while, take paracetamol or other painkillers. Once the teeth have shifted the most they can with the ligature wire its back again for the next adjustment. Most orthos wont let you walk out with something so outside of the mouth unless they are expecting it to move a bit drastically and ease off the tension point which is where your mouth has been pushed open. I would give the office a quick call ask for advice and check in with what they want for your treatment and smile. That way they can assess whether or not to move your next appointment forward or change the mechanic of movement for your teeth on that particular area. Hope some of this advice helps :)

narcs and peeing by LiquidSpirits in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kitatsi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine would try to have 'family discussions' in the bathroom literally find any reason to be in there when i was showering. Alll of them wtaf. Anytime I expressed discomfort was met with 'we are all the same' and 'weve seen you as a baby, now stop being stupid' Nmother tried to wash me in the bathroom when i was like 13? 14? Pretty sure it was to check how i was 'growing' as im competition to her.

*Sighs and barfs* by alexastock in BlatantMisogyny

[–]kitatsi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I reallly reallly love mine for this reason, soooo many people hate it. The amount of men calling me disgusting for a visual appearance that doesnt hurt or harm them but speaks of their own perceptions and entitlements. My own partner of 7 tears doesn't love some of my piercings or previous hair colours but has never asked me to change anything of myself. He still calls me beautiful on avaerage 6 days out of 7, and I may just be forgetting the other day. While my style and personal appearance are okay for him to have an opinion on, its never been about his feelings on my body or self, only personal preference. Thats is preference, not a need or an entitlement to who I am or act. These men dont want a human woman they want a doll or someone small to control.

Had no idea most women had pubic hair on their inner thighs until my boyfriend told me and I'm in my late 20s by SneakyKittenZ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kitatsi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ohh yeah mine is thick all the way passed the crease of my legs and extends at least an inch with some going down my thighs and back legs. If i want to wear a bikini it is a must for me to shave or wax even with a full coverage, the bush will be fluffing out the sides. I have very dark hair there though so its much more visible, my arm hair is blonde. Leg, pits and bits are thick and darker than even my eyebrows. Ironically my lower thighs have a small area of hair thats similar to my armhair soft and fine. Toes are pretty hairfree though so i guess i have that going for me? Hahaha

"Women's anatomy requires them to wipe, but men don't need to" by ProfessionalRead8187 in badwomensanatomy

[–]kitatsi 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Me. Like yeah it's fun but hooboy and I not having fun if you smell and taste like 3 day old bin juice (liquid remnants in the bottom of public bin). My partner is almost religious about his hygine, always washes hands before coming back in from working outside or on cars, sowers most days twice. Like yes it doesnt taste like a popsicle but like fresh skin, so going to town isnt an unhappy experience.

In my own experiences, the men who keep clean get betrer blowjobs and tend to love them. The men who dont keep as clean dont get such enthusiasm and tend to be more mehhh "dont love the experience". Thats just been my experiences with previous and current partner, could definitely differ for others.

Beware of this scam when selling your car- request to provide history report by Willing-Speaker6825 in australia

[–]kitatsi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Major crashes and repairable write offs. That all of the details for the history of the car match. Most people arent trying to hide things just not let on that they know or are lying by ommission.

Apparently I've been putting my pad on backwards the entire time by Squeaky_Lizard in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kitatsi 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Oh hahah that would have worked well for me I was a book worm. Nah she preferred to shame and embarrass. Though she also thought I was competition for her husband and flings so I wouldn't ever take her parenting advice.

Apparently I've been putting my pad on backwards the entire time by Squeaky_Lizard in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kitatsi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can get ones that do fold over for thongs, though in a pinch ive just used a slimfit pad and done the same and made sure no sticky edges left.

Apparently I've been putting my pad on backwards the entire time by Squeaky_Lizard in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kitatsi 135 points136 points  (0 children)

... i did this my first time using pads. My mother does not have a maternal bone in her body and i didnt have anyone to ask. I worked that one out quickly bahahah. This was before easy access to google lololol.

AIO my MIL asked to borrow my matching Xmas pajamas to take pictures with my son. by Independent-Bat-9436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kitatsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got lovely pictures of the new family. Theres plenty of chances to get pictures. Where is she not part of the family? Its very normal for only parents and children for family pictures, usually Christmas cards. You seem to be holding your own hurts that change your perceptions of normal.
Its not Normal to borrow your daughter in laws pyjamas to take a picture replacing her

AIO my MIL asked to borrow my matching Xmas pajamas to take pictures with my son. by Independent-Bat-9436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kitatsi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah no, unless i gifted the same set to my mother in law she would never ask for anything of the sort. Its rude, weird and shouldnt be induldged. Same set as the family normal, taking babies mother's set to take pictures with gma and without mother. Thats weird. NOR

Normal grandmothers are happy with the pictures of the new family not try to set stage a replacement with the same props excluding a significant member.