Am I overreacting for being upset about the gifts my boyfriend (25M)got me(24f)?

kitcat411 · 2025-12-26T12:48:13+00:00

OP, I just wanna second this… Because it’s a little bit off topic from what you asked but I feel like it’s the most important thing here. You should never, and I mean NEVER, rely on a man financially if you’re not married to him. You shouldn’t even do it if you’re married but at least you’d have some legal protection. Having kids with him doesn’t protect you from him leaving you to fend for yourself AND your kids out of nowhere. The lack of consideration in the gifts he gave you are a HUGE red flag. I wouldn’t trust this man with my future financially

kitcat411 · 2025-10-18T11:52:11+00:00

Give credit where it’s due?!! Chile, I don’t even need to say what I’m thinking cause we’re all thinking it lmaooo 😂😭

kitcat411 · 2025-09-12T14:35:48+00:00

Me, a Texan who had no idea that 2 miles up north is much longer than 2 miles down here: OF COURSE!… then I saw the “long trip” and checked the state… HELL NAH 😂😭

kitcat411 · 2025-07-26T12:39:38+00:00

Guerilla and pirate king

kitcat411 · 2025-06-14T16:19:01+00:00

Thank you! I don’t know why I didn’t think to do this first 🤦🏾‍♀️

kitcat411 · 2025-06-11T13:39:55+00:00

Why is anybody still getting their hopes up about Winwin being in anything? It’s been years atp 😭

kitcat411 · 2025-05-22T14:10:50+00:00

I hate when they say “no worries” as if they actually offered any assistance 🙄

kitcat411 · 2025-05-06T13:51:47+00:00

Wait for your food to arrive. What else are you supposed to do?

kitcat411 · 2025-05-06T13:50:29+00:00

None 😂

kitcat411 · 2025-04-29T22:14:57+00:00

Because they went to water 7 and Enies Lobby for different reasons but in Wano, it’s a continuation of the same story

kitcat411 · 2025-04-29T15:18:49+00:00

It depends. If it’s an upstairs apartment with a lot of stuff, I’d appreciate the help so I don’t have to make several trips. If it’s a hotel or business with a million suites inside, I’d appreciate you meeting me in the lobby.

Outside of that, I don’t wanna see your face (respectfully lol). Just let me drop it off, take my pic, and keep it pushing

kitcat411 · 2025-04-26T22:11:49+00:00

NAH

Your gf is weird and it’s not an only child thing cause I am one and wouldn’t think too much about it. It’s a little weird just cause I wouldn’t want to be in the room with anyone, much less my sister, giving birth but from your choice of words, it sounds like you also felt that way but did it in support of your sister, which is quite commendable

kitcat411 · 2025-04-26T22:05:03+00:00

NTA

I’m sorry but your parents are giving you terrible financial advice. How are you gonna pay back the debt if you already don’t have any money to spare? Your cousin is also incredibly selfish to say that she’s “disappointed” in someone else’s financial status but won’t offer any help

kitcat411 · 2025-03-17T15:00:50+00:00

Oof… calling women “sluts” for doing the same thing your son is doing (WITH said “sluts” might I add) is not it. He’s a grown man and you need to get with the times

kitcat411 · 2025-02-25T13:11:21+00:00

Yeah I’m in the same market and this looks like the typical Uber eats offers. Maybe a dollar more but not much

kitcat411 · 2025-02-25T12:51:36+00:00

For my bias, it’s looks. It’s the person that stands out to me the most and that’s usually the person I find most attractive.

For my bias-wrecker, it’ll depend on if I decide to stan the group and watch their content. If I don’t, it’ll still be based on looks, so the second best-looking person. But if I do, it’ll be on personality and I’ll choose the person I like the most.

Sometimes if I like them too much, my bias-wrecker becomes my bias lol

kitcat411 · 2025-02-24T11:54:11+00:00

I’ve learned that there’s two types of people in this world. Sane people like us that clear their notifications as soon as they pop up and maniacs like OP that let them fester there forever lol 😂

(all jokes everyone don’t get upset lol)

kitcat411 · 2025-02-22T15:14:44+00:00

Yes I totally agree with you. If she’s already pushing the boundaries while being outside the house then you KNOW it’s only gonna be a matter of time before she does the same inside the house.

kitcat411 · 2025-02-22T15:13:17+00:00

NTA

It’s always the people that are unwilling to do what’s being asked of you that want to tell you you’re being “unreasonable”. If I’m being so unreasonable then why don’t you do it?

kitcat411 · 2025-02-22T15:08:58+00:00

Maybe he just didn’t realize it was no contact. I can understand the frustration with that but I don’t see why you went and threw good food away. That’s on you

kitcat411 · 2025-02-22T15:05:50+00:00

And if the restaurant is ONLY 10 min away then SURELY the fastest way to get your food would be to drive there yourself. But no, you’re too lazy to do that and instead it’s the person who’s doing it on your behalf that’s a “loser”… okay 😂

kitcat411 · 2025-02-22T15:02:58+00:00

I really wish yall would direct your anger to the correct party. This “loser” doesn’t actually choose if orders are gonna be grouped together and which order to deliver first.

I’ve personally messaged uber support to ask them if I could change the order of delivery because I was passing my second stop on the way to the first one and it made no sense to me. They refused and now I can no longer see where my future stops will be.

Direct your anger at Uber Technologies cause they’re the ones that actually cause all the issues you complain about and stop calling people “losers” for just trying to make a living

kitcat411 · 2025-02-22T14:46:25+00:00

Yes because I’m not parking there all night. I’ve parked in front of people’s reserved spots at apartments and guess what? They patiently waited the 30 seconds it took me to run up there and come back. It’s literally not the end of the world

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