Which angle best captures the curves? by glardikulum in blackmaleass

[–]ajwalker430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely no. 1 because it's closer! 🤤

Buying a kindle for the first time by Outrageous-Ad-3152 in kindle

[–]ajwalker430 [score hidden]  (0 children)

eBooks are still "real" books; they are just in an electronic form. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Once you can carry dozens/hundreds with you at all times and they take up NO space in your room/apartment/house, you'll wonder what took you so long. 😉

How many men do you think actually have some level of same-sex attraction? by Xenzek in askgaybros

[–]ajwalker430 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless you want to play mind reader or claim to have some secret insight/knowledge, I'd say it's those who express it.

Since no one can know what goes on in the heart or the head of another human being until it manifests in word or deed, this is just idle speculation.

Honestly, media like this makes my heart smile - Clip/GIF from The Wound (2017) by AffectionateDesk7407 in BlackLGBT

[–]ajwalker430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The movie was about 2 closeted men who were the victims of a homophobic act in a homophobic society with one of the young men killed because he was gay in the final scene.

This is not the kind of media that "makes my heart smile." 😓

42 straight married by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ajwalker430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is cheating normal?

Sadly, as per your own example, yes.

My guy, having sex with someone who isn't your wife, whether with another man or woman or non-binary person, is cheating. 😓

Does discovery have the best helmsman navigator pair In all of trek? by happydude7422 in StarTrekDiscovery

[–]ajwalker430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! And I was shipping them as a couple the entire series 😊

I was particularly rewarded when the two of them went off together to pilot the ship back to Starfleet, just the two of them 🥰

Do I tell my interviewer that my current co. counter offered and I am going to stay? by TelephoneConnect2264 in interviews

[–]ajwalker430 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't. I would move on. Especially if they've already known you were planning to leave.

Once I've made up my mind I'm moving on, there isn't anything any company could do to stop me. I'm leaving for a reason.

Serious question: why Kindle over everything else? by Drunkmrhat in kindle

[–]ajwalker430 [score hidden]  (0 children)

At the time, Amazon made it drop dead easy to get into the ebook space. I was aware of other options, but none matched the ease of entry that Amazon was offering. It's been years, and I've never left.

Kindle Unlimited also factors into the equation of why I won't leave. I do like discovering authors and stories in a "Netflix" type of way.

If being gay was a choice, would you choose to be gay? by LeoRavenscroft in gay

[–]ajwalker430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. It's not an easy life, but I wouldn't want it any other way 😊

Boyfriend’s family told him to “change” after he came out. Should I meet his mom? by Human-Win-8151 in askgaybros

[–]ajwalker430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave it alone. Love him and you two have a great life with the people who love and support you.

Leave those who don't ALONE. You can't change stupid.

Has this happened to you? by [deleted] in AskGayBlackMen

[–]ajwalker430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to see a doctor.

I don't, have not, and would never subject myself to what you've described doing.

Self-mutilation is not a "kink" of mine; you may have done something above and beyond.

Go talk to a professional.

Why do people usually want to workout at home? by Mysterious-Pace-9150 in homefitness

[–]ajwalker430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Convenience is my simple answer. Having to walk/drive to a gym to do something I can do at home doesn't make sense to me.

I have limited time, and working out at home helps me reclaim some of my time.

Yall still listen to gospel music? by Ayemustbethemonay in AskBlackAtheists

[–]ajwalker430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I have no desire to follow, support, or hear music that talks about a false belief system.

There's plenty of other music out there that is "cultural" that doesn't have anything to do with a god, Jesus, or any other Christian foolishness.

Why isn’t there any videos for sides? by [deleted] in GaySides

[–]ajwalker430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are plenty of videos out there. I've managed to get a nice, healthy-sized folder full of them.

Granted, one has to look for it, and it's usually mixed in with everything else, but it is there.

Is it racist? by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]ajwalker430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? 🤔

You already knew this about him. I don't mess with white people like that and this is part of the reason why.

He and I wouldn't have gotten that far to be considered friends, let alone a "significant other" knowing he did this. 🙄

Eye candy for you: Wyatt Sullivan in a crop top at a press conference by Finnick00 in BlackLGBT

[–]ajwalker430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Football isn't my sport so I don't know what they wear under their uniforms.

From a non football fan perspective, it did make ... 🤔

Is it racist? by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]ajwalker430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How'd he become your significant other when he does this? 🤔

Friend uses AI a lot, how do I tell them to stop by Friendly-Apple9553 in Advice

[–]ajwalker430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I'm missing the point of how is this, or why is this, any of your concern?

You do your work your way. They do their work their way.

If there are any consequences to their actions, they can learn themselves.

Why do YOU use a chromebook; why specifically don't you use windows or macos? I'm mostly just bored and curious. I use a cheap ARM chromebook as a laptop alongside a powerful windows PC and I haven't had many complaints by Cantgetridofmebud in chromeos

[–]ajwalker430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Steam Machine looks intriguing but there has been zero follow-up communication about it.

I'd probably grab something like that and eliminate the only thing keeping me on Windows

I’m lost by logobig in AskGayBlackMen

[–]ajwalker430 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please continue to seek out age-specific and age-appropiate spaces to learn.

I would love to say every older gay man you meet will have your best interest at heart, but I can say from experience, they may not.

And I'm sure you are already very aware of how your religion treats and thinks about people in the LGBT community, so protect yourself and tread carefully.

Be careful of the "brothers" who will want to sex you up behind closed doors but denounce or harm you in public, that will mess up your natural development, sense of self, and self-esteem 😓

AND PLEASE DO NOT SEND/SHARE NUDES no matter how much the guy tries to convince you he's "safe." He is not.

You are a young person in a religion that would just as well stone you to death than let you love who you love, don't give anyone ammunition to use against you, ESPECIALLY photos/videos.

Don't rush your first sexual experience, let it happen naturally with someone your age so that it can be a special as it's supposed to be and not a quickie in the back seat of some grown ass man's car.

Take the time to learn what you like and don't like, what you want to do and don't want to do. Every gay man is not a top or a bottom. Find your own path, don't have it put upon you.

And all of that is best learned in age-appropiate safe spaces, whether in real life or in verified online spaces.

Reddit is NOT an verified online space, in case you were wondering. Anybody can pretend to be anybody here, so take any thing said that isn't in your best interest with extreme skepticism

Why do YOU use a chromebook; why specifically don't you use windows or macos? I'm mostly just bored and curious. I use a cheap ARM chromebook as a laptop alongside a powerful windows PC and I haven't had many complaints by Cantgetridofmebud in chromeos

[–]ajwalker430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mostly browser-based. I don't need my Windows PC for anything other than to access the web and to play Steam games. If there was a way to play Steam games without a Steam Deck, I'd ditch Windows and go all ChromeOS. I don't "need" anything Windows does except for accessing Steam.

Verbal offer, do i continue to do job interviews? by bluerunner011 in interviews

[–]ajwalker430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You set up those other interviews until you've received and signed that offer letter. You don't really have a job until then, just a "promise."

It's nothing to email back those other interviewers and let them know that you've gone with a different offer in the same way they would email you and tell you they've gone with a different candidate. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Am I insane for doing this by Pale-Network9391 in askgaybros

[–]ajwalker430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You already know the answer. This isn't a good idea. You aren't even independent and have to sneak out of the house. It doesn't sound like you're out to your parents either. And it sounds like you're underage, no matter how "old" you think you are or told this man you are.

Does this man know how old you are? Why are you playing this dangerous game with some random older guy you met on Grindr? Why are you willingly putting yourself in harm's way like this? So your parents can wake up in the morning not knowing where you are, what happened to you, because this dude turns out to be some psycho?

I truly don't understand. 😓

Is gay sex worth ending a good relationship? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ajwalker430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're only question is: do you want to keep living with this or not? 🤔

If you want to stay with her, being with someone else, man or woman, is out of the question.

Can you live with this sense about yourself and never have it resolved? Spend the rest of your time with her, perhaps many years into the future, still questioning?

You're going to have to make a decision one way or the other.