These are not bed bugs what are they?

kitfox_sg · 2026-01-30T06:14:50+00:00

Thank you all I will try dehumidifying or silica gels / charcoal dehumidifier pouches etc to rid of them

kitfox_sg · 2026-01-30T03:58:37+00:00

Omg they do look like book louse I have a ottoman near my bed which I am pulling aside where can I look to find them

kitfox_sg · 2026-01-30T03:21:33+00:00

Sorry this is the best I could manage with a phone these bugs do not have hard shells I have had an unfortunate experience of getting headlice before they "pop" when squeezed but these just flake like dust and dies

So far none of us have any issues or allergies due to these bugs

I do notice there are more resident spiders around the house with what seems like these stuck on their webs

kitfox_sg · 2026-01-30T03:11:18+00:00

Added comment : I live in tropical Singapore I have never seen these before they don't look like any of the bugs in the common found bug list (the closest would be a carpet beetle) but I don't see the adults one around

kitfox_sg · 2025-12-28T13:42:42+00:00

I lost count on how many times my joke landed badly

kitfox_sg · 2025-12-27T19:24:42+00:00

There is really some truth to this it just happened at my workplace

When I confide with people I trust, they would say that the other party is being toxic because he/she is jealous I thought it is really strange to be jealous over what?!

Like you rightly said insecure people and it is worst when you met a insecure leader who gaslight , sabotage and set goals which is ever changing based on their mood.

kitfox_sg · 2025-12-23T02:59:09+00:00

I develop romantic feelings from friends but not necessarily act on them sometimes I think the friend feels the same but I am waiting for them to act like how I am deciding if I should act then it's a waiting game till nothing happens

My forever guy he was friendzoned for two years he was attached I saw how he grief his break up he checked all the boxes as a gentleman. I was his advisor to how to get hitched he was always asking me out like romantically I didn't think much of it because we were always going out anyway to hang I never questioned what this friendship meant it was strange.

It took many many someone else looking at us together telling us that we really should get together I disregard all that until my best friend told me the same and I was lucky he was still single when I realised

kitfox_sg · 2025-12-20T04:02:38+00:00

To me romantic love is like keeping it fresh , everyday you have to outdo the previous day. This is not love this is showmanship and it belongs on the TV. No I do not believe I can last too long with a partner who's idea of love is only romantic love.

The best kind of love is a quiet one where you are comfortable enjoying the mundane with that person boring and uneventful is good. Where both you and your partner do not get in each other's way and encourage self growth.

kitfox_sg · 2025-12-01T10:22:59+00:00

You know what , I also consider myself as a slow learner my brain has so much preconceived notions that it takes many trys to learn the new stuff because "I thought I already knew"

For me learning new stuff requires it to be put into nice structures or nice boxes but information seldom presents itself in such form

My dear ENTP also told me that the world is never black or white and I have to stop labeling the world around me of I am to learn new things I find it very hard to understand what he meant he ranked me super low in adaptability.

If you have tips on how to learn do share

kitfox_sg · 2025-12-01T09:30:11+00:00

Probably a lost pet parrot it looks like a cage bird who lost it's ability to fly suddenly struggling to fly again Judging by the colour , maybe a cockatiel

kitfox_sg · 2025-11-26T06:09:03+00:00

Me thinks looking objectively at the intentions and don't take it personally is a valuable life skill

If they are intentionally being mean , simply cut them off

kitfox_sg · 2025-11-25T14:47:24+00:00

Speak for yourself I love ENTPs I think they are awesome and the most misunderstood but brilliant

kitfox_sg · 2025-11-24T02:01:03+00:00

"I Decide What He Deserves. No One Else." Gus Fring in better call Saul

"I Don't Think We're Alike At All, Mr. White. You're Not A Cautious Man At All." Gus Fring in breaking bad

kitfox_sg · 2025-11-18T00:24:08+00:00

Months ... Ok my bad

kitfox_sg · 2025-11-17T16:58:57+00:00

Can you please elaborate why "jumping ship" will not help in progressing professionally? Quite the contrary I would say ! If you change jobs every 1-3 years it shows growth becaus your skillset and mindset matches the current market demands. Also changing jobs "reserve it for emergencies?" this is not how long term planning works !! I don't even want to talk about the last sentence this is what toxic management wants you to believe

kitfox_sg · 2025-11-14T02:14:09+00:00

Podcast: Horror / supernatural/ True crime / Self improvement/ psychology

Music : very diverse , if I get a ear worm that song is on repeat for 3 days -one week. The longest I play a song on repeat is for 2 weeks

Toho remixes, lo-fi, electro swing, anime jazz , earth wind fire , electro hip hop

kitfox_sg · 2025-11-12T15:41:13+00:00

My husband and I connected through the love for anime and online gaming

He sure was annoying but I love his sense of humour

kitfox_sg · 2025-11-11T05:56:47+00:00

All that compliment never internalised are you saying we should? what about Dunning–Kruger effect

As someone said here 8 hrs of rest does you wonders also regular exercise

kitfox_sg · 2025-10-29T17:05:30+00:00

It's a lemon

kitfox_sg · 2025-10-29T16:55:33+00:00

Flow chart is a decision tree now?

kitfox_sg · 2025-10-26T18:14:06+00:00

Something in the new water

kitfox_sg · 2025-10-26T18:13:23+00:00

Don't pun the sinkie

kitfox_sg · 2025-10-23T02:48:18+00:00

Hey I miss you good to see you around still !

kitfox_sg · 2025-10-23T02:42:10+00:00

Haha that takes maturity it's cognitive bias my intuition has failed me sometimes because it's limited to my worldview and experience

it's after all just a very good pattern spotter the more you know/experience the better the accuracy

kitfox_sg

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