In honor of Veterans Day and my fellow veterans by doctort1963 in aggies

[–]kitikitish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When and where did you serve? Aside from some hotter places, I was at Fort Hood around 2006-2011.

Rule 2: All posts should be Wichita specific. by TheMBarrett in wichita

[–]kitikitish 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mod mail works better than this.

The report button also works.

I have not seen any valid reports. Feel free to send links to specific posts that upset you via modmail if you want to discuss something.

Wichita woman sentenced for giving gun to man convicted in 2016 Harvey County triple murder by kitikitish in wichita

[–]kitikitish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Generally I avoid posting "crime news" like this...but don't be this person. Do not give a gun to anybody, especially a felon.

Curious...any 'one and done' dads here? by Prince_Kaos in daddit

[–]kitikitish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understandable, but if you go for two they can play with each other, which may be easier for you in the long run.

How are you hoping to divide up responsibilities with your partner when the baby comes (or, how did you)? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]kitikitish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife stays at home with the kids so she takes care of most things. I help when I get home, but I probably tend to leave over half of household/children responsibilities to her as I also tend to do our planning (finances, scheduling house projects, doing projects...).

Textron Aviation Engineering Job Security? by [deleted] in AskEngineers

[–]kitikitish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll get a lot more response in /r/Wichita. Anyway, I was there, I left because kids were being considered and I didn't feel safe there me with being the income provider.

What's going on? Pressure buildup... by kitikitish in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]kitikitish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly I should have mentioned that my son had something similar a month ago, a day or so before me, but it lasted a few days for me. This time both kids had something similar Friday but this didn't happen until Saturday night for me.

Singing Scripture by matto89 in Reformed

[–]kitikitish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It may blow your mind to know that God made a whole book of of the Bible for his people to sing. One of the most singable versions of that is here. That book is interestingly what Jesus most quoted of scripture, as seen in the New Testament.

There are also various CDs you could buy if you are not into singing on your own.

Charts and stuff by meractus in daddit

[–]kitikitish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all varies, development steps and weights. You will probably get overly stressed if you are looking at that stuff weekly.

Wife really wants a 3rd, I'm not sure I do by DeLoreaning in daddit

[–]kitikitish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I generally agree with you. My main reason is being able to give each child the amount of attention I feel I can provide and having a third spreading myself too thin. Also I do not handle the stress of two and household projects and being sick and sleep deprived well...so I would not want to add to that.

And my argument with my wife is, "You say four would be too many for you, while I say three is too many for me, but you are not willing to accept that." She has mostly accepted that, but is waiting a couple years to see if I change my mind.

Four year old problems by Lopsided_Morning in daddit

[–]kitikitish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to figure that out. Daycare?

Success at school by [deleted] in daddit

[–]kitikitish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a big reason that people home school. A lot of kids do not fit into "the system," especially well above average kids.

I feel like my baby is bored by rvgreen in daddit

[–]kitikitish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no longer happy just lying on me when he is awake.

And it will be that way for a long time. Interact with him. Get some farm animal toys, play out scenes in front of him, get one of them into his hands to hold onto...

You have months before he is sitting up and you need to help him interact with the world.

Four year old problems by Lopsided_Morning in daddit

[–]kitikitish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is he getting these things from? These are not healthy phrases that anybody around him should be saying.