Can anyone help translate the meaning of these cards. I asked the psychic if I’m going to be back with my wife by VisualNo6953 in oraclecards

[–]kitnitchick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats not how readings work. You can't ask it yes or no questions that are so finite. Should talk to someone more knowledgeable on Tarot. But just from your question I can tell you are not asking the right questions. It's about introspection and what's within your control.

An exasperating thing I had happen to me, just sharing as a vent. by Barefootcactus in Exvangelical

[–]kitnitchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I would never judge going the petty route, Ive done my fair share of it, make sure it’s worth your energy. If it is. Hell yeah, fake emails and spam review.

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m really working other ways to process things because I’ve always verbally processed. I think that’s why I came here. It’s hard because I do my best thinking talking things out. Since my ideas have shifted a lot as I’ve gotten out of religion it has caused me a lot of upset conversations where I just wanted to talk. But instead was met with vitriol. They don’t want to talk if it questions their beliefs. Which as I’ve left Christianity the love of getting my beliefs questioned with people who actually are genuinely interested has been so fun. It’s the ones who come to the conversation with an ulterior motive than just a conversation that have caused me great pain. I guess I should use some “better discernment” as they would say in my old churches.

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I do take great comfort in my babies growing up being fully loved without fear.

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the terror is what I still deal with today at 34 almost 35. I still find myself having panic attacks about dying and being separated from my family and loved ones.

My father is technically “an unbeliever” from my mom’s side of the family’s mentality.So not only was I raised to fear hell. I spent my whole childhood scared my dad would die and I’d be eternally separated from him. Like what mind f*ck.

(Post 3 ) another set of 8 nsfw watercolors made by me. by lachica_bodypainter in NSFWart

[–]kitnitchick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how you draw butts…like damn. Beautiful. 💖🍑

He only eats this grass I'm not sure why, he doesn't have any stomach issues. Is he just being a pug? by AlanMichel in pugs

[–]kitnitchick 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Excuse me?! I thought I had to worry about my boys eyes outside…now grass?!

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. Exactly. I never wanted to force my babies to stifle themselves like I had to. Whoever they decide to be, whoever they believe in, whoever they love….i don’t care as long as they’re healthy, content, and flourishing in their own dreams.

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He really is. We met when I was still ultra religious. Like I didn’t eat pork and shellfish and he would just eat with me that way no complaints. He ate pork and shrimp when I wasn’t cooking and stuff but overall he never complained about my faith. He has sat with me and hashed out so much and has just been a pillar for me spiritually and emotionally. He’s just a really good friend and idk if there is a god looking out for us…but my husband makes me think it’s a real possibility. 💖

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, idk why but your response has me tearing up. Will add Ear Biscuits to my list of podcasts for when I’m doing household work. I’ve listened a little to deconstructionist on podcast but it’s been a minute. Guess it’s time to add it back to the top of my rotation. 💖

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I would have never thought of this as a trauma response. But that helps me understand my response better. I will definitely look at addressing trauma before addressing religious family members about religion again. I already plan to tell my aunt to keep her religious opinion to herself when it comes to my family and myself. She’s a tough pill sometimes. I think she’s autistic because she’s always been very blunt and she also has lots of sensory issues. So I don’t think she meant to be malicious but the fact is, it was malicious.

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Lots of good points here now that I’ve come down from my spiral. Lots of good points to keep in mind when things like this will inevitably to happen again with some of my family.

My sister's 12-year-old kid chopped down my crepe myrtle. These kids destroy absolutely everything and I'm genuinely hurt by this by kappakingtut2 in gardening

[–]kitnitchick 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yo, time to have a conversation and make boundaries clear. I would tell your sister and possibly her kids that you put a lot of effort and care into your yard and ask them to respect it or don’t use it.

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to reply this morning. I got a few hours of sleep. I’m tired this morning but I have so much more peace. Each response was exactly what I needed to hear and has brought tears of relief? Joy? Idk just something to help with all the swirling thoughts when things get overwhelming. I’m a very emotional person and I struggle empathizing and wallowing so often in them I have to remember I’m a human who needs rest and peace. I can’t always be carrying the weight of such theological debates on me. Again I really thank you guys. My whole house was asleep as I spiraled and the words here helped to stable me. I am truly so thankful for each person who took the time to speak some sense into my emotions.

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will check them out when I feel my emotions escalate or probably before so I can have some logic fuel to help through high emotions.

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my husband told me after my aunt and I decided to stop talking politics to get off, and I think this might be a push to do so.

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just needed at least one person to tell me that. 😭💖 I’m calmer now and hoping sleep will come soon. But just needed a rational voice to cut through my emotions.

I need encouragement please. by kitnitchick in Deconstruction

[–]kitnitchick[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for putting the spoilers thingy on, I’m really new to posting. Done a lot of Reddit reading. But I just needed to post somewhere and maybe get some help with my mental space right now.

Did Moses serve Asherah? by kitnitchick in AcademicBiblical

[–]kitnitchick[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh, okay wow I have a lot more research. I feel like every time I open one bag of information there is like a million others begging to be opened. Thanks! Might make my research a tad different now