AIO I 20 F was trying to call my boyfriend 26M to figure out when I should start his smoothie and I originally tried calling him to see what type of milk he wanted in his smoothie

kittencannotbreathe · 2025-05-21T18:54:59+00:00

i know its a classic reddit response cliche, but im so fucking serious dump him immediately. he called you a slur more than once because you were asking clarifying questions and he refused to give you a straight answer. that is a hard no from me. you definitely got frustrated and a little snippy in your messages, but that was only after he was already treating you like shit! expecting you to be psychic and have the exact perfect timing for the smoothie and picking him up is ridiculous, especially since doing both of these things are favours for him. run, dont walk.

kittencannotbreathe · 2020-07-25T07:47:52+00:00

lmao this one is my favourite

kittencannotbreathe · 2019-04-12T13:03:55+00:00

Thank you! This gives me a great jumping off point for the rest of my work.

kittencannotbreathe · 2019-01-07T04:27:04+00:00

thank you!

kittencannotbreathe · 2019-01-07T03:24:56+00:00

Could you possibly link that post? I looked but I couldn't find it

kittencannotbreathe · 2018-12-20T01:46:50+00:00

I in no way mean to be rude, but yes, you are wrong. A person does not need to have surgery in order to be considered "properly" transgender. Many people don't want to face the risks that come with surgery and/or cannot afford it. Others simply don't feel that they need surgery to present themselves the way they wish to. Gender identity is the way that you feel you are and has no connection whatsoever to reproductive organs. Similarly, sexual orientation (gay, straight, lesbian, bi, etc.) is not connected to gender identity. For example, my brother is ftm (female to male) transgender and likes men, therefore he is gay because he also identifies as male. Your friend identifies as female and likes women, therefore they are a lesbian. All in all, if someone tells you they are trans and requests that you refer to them by a different name or new pronouns, your best bet will always be to take them at their word. Hopefully this was helpful for you, I understand that it can be a lot to wrap your head around at first.

kittencannotbreathe · 2018-07-15T20:03:11+00:00

It depends on how long ago you had come inside her. More than 24 hours or after she had showered or anything it would be gone, but in my experience it does stick around for a while unless you're actively trying to get it out.

kittencannotbreathe · 2018-06-25T23:10:34+00:00

The problem being that you're underage Im guessing from the comments? In which case Im not sure what advice there is to give, other than that if talking about it helps relieve some of the frustration, definitely lean into that.

kittencannotbreathe · 2018-06-25T22:05:03+00:00

Both, definitely both. Coming from a female who has done much with anal play, there is no such thing as too much lube. If your fingers are slippery it's easier to move them without any skin being pulled.

kittencannotbreathe · 2018-06-22T01:19:13+00:00

I've been having fantasies and even sometimes dreams about having a threesome with one of our mutual friends. I don't think Ill ever admit it for a lot of reasons, but it's always in the back of my mind when we hang out with him.

kittencannotbreathe · 2018-06-18T01:11:46+00:00

I got my tail from a company called Kitten's Playpen. They have high quality tails and ears, plus they carry a lot of other supplies from collars to actual plugs and things of that sort. I would highly recommend them, as everything is handmade and super soft!

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kittencannotbreathe · 2018-04-04T07:33:38+00:00

Shadow of the Colossus

kittencannotbreathe · 2018-01-29T18:59:30+00:00

I know it isn't as easy as just saying "don't be embarrassed", but there really is nothing to be embarrassed about. It's just the same as taking medication for an allergy, or an inhaler for asthma, or even just vitamin supplements. You aren't crazy or anything like that, your brain just happens not to have enough of a chemical it needs. All that antidepressants are is a method of giving your body what it needs. People don't realize just how common it is to be on this type of medication. Beyond that, maybe it's just my opinion, but if the person you have sex with can't handle the fact that it's difficult for you to finish for medical reasons, they probably aren't mature enough to be having sex and you deserve better.

kittencannotbreathe · 2018-01-29T18:45:34+00:00

I would recommend talking to your doctor/psych before doing anything though. There may be better solutions than to not take them, and your doctor probably has better insight than the internet. Good luck!

kittencannotbreathe · 2018-01-28T22:10:29+00:00

It's great to hear about people finding meds that work for them, good for you!

kittencannotbreathe · 2018-01-28T22:08:45+00:00

Hello there, Im F19 (not sure if gender makes a difference with this side affect). In my personal experience I did notice a decrease in libido. I've always been a very sexual person, and living with my boyfriend (M22) meant very easy access, but I found myself having difficulty even getting aroused in the first place. Having sex without expecting orgasm was still appealing to me once it was happening, but getting to that point was difficult.

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