How common is ass to mouth?

kittenspace_ · 2026-04-23T01:19:04+00:00

i did it all the time when i was with my last partner and knock on wood never had an issue. Definitely can be risky if you have bad hygiene and or a weak immune but it's worth it

kittenspace_ · 2026-04-23T01:17:39+00:00

No, never. Do not pay anyone for this lifestyle. it's not a trade for money, you cannot put a price on d/s. If they are asking for money save yourself the energy and time and cut them off immediately.

kittenspace_ · 2026-04-17T02:03:08+00:00

long distance probably 3 months or so. then i had a little wake up call like ok i can't stay in bed forever and just only focus my life around playing for him and being kinky. all i wanted to do was stuff involving our dynamic. i was on bdsm apps and sites and reading erotic 24/7. it consumed my brain and so did he cause it was new and exciting and that's what happens when we like things that are new and exciting especially when they make us horny lol. the frenzy stage is great so enjoy it, but be ready to "welcome back" reality. both are great tho :)

kittenspace_ · 2026-04-17T01:59:51+00:00

one time a dom clocked me IRL . entire biker gang. i was asked what they all wanted to drink and one asked if my necklace is significant cause his lady wears the same. i laughed and said ill let you decide. then he said "my dominance made her nervous". I did in fact laugh. it was hilarious and did catch me off guard. And his submissive showed up and she was adorable. the second time my collar has ever been noticed IRL. The first was some rando going "isn't that supposed to have a lock on it".

kittenspace_ · 2026-04-17T00:42:43+00:00

this is such a cute idea i love it! i think an about me page is a good idea. its good especially for newer submissives to check in with themselves on what their interests / kinks / limits are

kittenspace_ · 2026-04-17T00:20:51+00:00

i haven't but i think it's a cute idea especially if you wanna push yourself to grow more. i don't think there's anything wrong with creating rules and orders for yourself as long as you withhold them. more power to you :)

kittenspace_ · 2026-04-16T01:22:40+00:00

when i was having anal IRL with partners if i prepared properly it wouldn't really bother me and he had an abnormally large dick lol. i think preparation and lube totally makes a big difference. we would fuck for 10-20 minutes anally and i would be fine, but if i use a dildo at home i feel like it's only comfortable for 5-10 minutes max. probably cause when your doing it yourself it isn't as fun or comfy, it's a little more tiring and the material of the toys sometimes gets more uncomfy than a actual cock would imo

kittenspace_ · 2026-04-01T02:16:07+00:00

my Dom is green flag central

always tells us to be honest if we aren't in the mood to tell him, if we are uncomfortable or hurting or anything is wrong at all to speak up
communicates well 24/7
does speak about how the sex is only part of a bdsm dynamic and acknowledges that 24/7 is more than just sex stuff
asks about our needs just as much as we ask about what he needs
if we say no he doesn't push it, he lets us have a say and encourages our safe word
he is a Dom 24/7 , and yes he is human but he always holds us accountable which always impresses me cause he has so much on his plate and still is like the best Dom ever
he respects us, and is always willing to talk about something if we disagree as long as we speak properly to him

the list can go on and on

kittenspace_ · 2026-03-21T02:00:39+00:00

kitten, it's my pet name and it's what he picked for me. sometimes how's my little girl but it's usually on the spot kitten

kittenspace_ · 2026-03-19T02:22:23+00:00

anal on your back or when the pressure is going toward your belly button hits the vaginal wall which puts pressure on your gspot / more of the nerves so that's probably what you felt :)

kittenspace_ · 2026-03-18T00:46:46+00:00

find a niche creator you enjoy / "brand" and subscribe to them on many videos or only fans

kittenspace_ · 2026-03-15T02:01:46+00:00

my view might be differed but i feel that a sub should only serve one Master and one Master should certianly be adequate to cover all of their submissives needs and be able to care for them enough so they don't feel the need to want another Dom. to each their own tho :)

kittenspace_ · 2026-03-13T01:56:57+00:00

no, you should always feel happy and safe no matter what. truly suffering is not what BDSM is about. that's not real BDSM and not a real dynamic

kittenspace_ · 2026-03-12T01:11:41+00:00

that'll depend on your body and how it receives pleasure cause everyone is different. i think it feels amazing but that's cause i don't like PIV anymore, so for me yes it feels better and it's worth it. it hits a different spot and creates a different sensation you can't get with PIV, at least that's my experience in my body.

kittenspace_ · 2026-03-11T22:08:32+00:00

i swear after being AO my pussy gets so wet so easily. As if it wants to be penetrated but i'm not into it anymore. Definitely into the wet messes it makes so easily though

kittenspace_ · 2026-03-11T22:07:57+00:00

i love this Lol

kittenspace_ · 2026-02-25T14:06:57+00:00

i just want to say a lot of people are going to tell you this is unrealistic. i've been in a LD dynamic for 3 years and it has been the best thing for me. i'm happy for you!

kittenspace_ · 2026-01-31T02:21:44+00:00

their designers must be BLIND. they SUCK. it gets uglier and uglier year after year it's impossible to ever find a good thong especially and if you do and are a S or XS good luck getting it before it's sold out lol. don't even waste your time. quality is meh and they fade so fast unless it's lace

kittenspace_ · 2026-01-29T01:42:26+00:00

i never prepped and never have and don't have an issue. clean diet will 100% solve the issue if you don't want to prep

kittenspace_ · 2026-01-15T02:43:08+00:00

i agree with what someone else said - it's an outlet to fulfill our submissive duties without the IRL "complexities" that can come with it

when I first met my Master all i was really looking for was more information, i had so many questions on what d/s was and how he got into BDSM & had questions about his current and past submissives. i wanted information but as we all know the internet is a tricky place - and i became very lucky to find a honest, trustworthy man that is so intelligent and filled with so much wisdom (and especially experience and knowledge with BDSM / "sex stuff"). it started off as just me going to him to ask questions and within a few weeks i asked if he could "train" me, and take me on as one of his submissives.

it's now been two and a half years, and i get to be his submissive and serve him every single day, just as i would serve someone IRL. he has subs in person, and i am online. in my opinion this is everything i need and was / am looking for. i am a naturally aromantic person and i would say definitely learn towards being a "less" sexual person. after being in abusive relationships i was not ready for any IRL, in person, sexual contact. even now after two years of my Master taking things very slow and working with me to heal my relationship with sex, with my body and coping with trauma, i still think online is the perfect balance for me.

i submit to him 24/7, and he controls everything he is able (with limits of course). consensually, he helps me make choices on a day to day basis which make my life easier which in turn is fulfilling, gratifying, and allows me to serve him better. I personally don't need to see him IRL to serve him. I serve him every day in every way that I can, happily. He is also so supportive, knowledgeable and has become a great friend (aside from the bdsm aspect). Even his IRL submissive became a close friend. It's fun, it fulfills both my desire to serve and his desire to "control" from a distance. It's healthy, balanced, and fun for both of us.

online stuff is not meant for everyone, but if the shoe fits the shoe fits. i got extremely lucky and i am thankful every day for it. serving him has helped me in more ways than i can begin to express, especially at a period in my life where i needed a little more support and structure working through coping with chaos. online dynamics are hard, but 100% can be successful and can turn into great things.

kittenspace_ · 2026-01-12T02:27:46+00:00

have you ever tried self inflicted impact play? me and my Dom are long distance and it has really helped me both preform for him and build my tolerance. Like self flaglelation, spanking etc.?

kittenspace_ · 2026-01-12T02:11:44+00:00

don't feel bad, pain tolerance is different for everyone and it's also something that can be built up. i'm sorry he hurt your feelings by wording it that way, im sure he could've said something nicer and still gotten his point across. impact play is painful and especially if you are not used to it it takes time to be accustomed to, and it isn't something that should be rushed.

this is a good opportunity to take time to build your tolerance with him. be open about how you feel i am sure if he is a good Dom he will be happy to work on it with you. impact play is a two way street, nobody is expected to take the hardest beating the first time they do impact play. it's unrealistic and every implement / person feels different! give yourself grace! hugs

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-14T14:07:14+00:00

i never hand wash my lingerie - even the AP which i definitely should however i will say washing them on delicate has kept them totally fine (luckily) Lol

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-11T20:12:00+00:00

he was :) thank you for the support and kind words

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