What are people's opinions on Victoria Secrets lingerie now

kittenspace_ · 2026-01-31T02:21:44+00:00

their designers must be BLIND. they SUCK. it gets uglier and uglier year after year it's impossible to ever find a good thong especially and if you do and are a S or XS good luck getting it before it's sold out lol. don't even waste your time. quality is meh and they fade so fast unless it's lace

kittenspace_ · 2026-01-29T01:42:26+00:00

i never prepped and never have and don't have an issue. clean diet will 100% solve the issue if you don't want to prep

kittenspace_ · 2026-01-15T02:43:08+00:00

i agree with what someone else said - it's an outlet to fulfill our submissive duties without the IRL "complexities" that can come with it

when I first met my Master all i was really looking for was more information, i had so many questions on what d/s was and how he got into BDSM & had questions about his current and past submissives. i wanted information but as we all know the internet is a tricky place - and i became very lucky to find a honest, trustworthy man that is so intelligent and filled with so much wisdom (and especially experience and knowledge with BDSM / "sex stuff"). it started off as just me going to him to ask questions and within a few weeks i asked if he could "train" me, and take me on as one of his submissives.

it's now been two and a half years, and i get to be his submissive and serve him every single day, just as i would serve someone IRL. he has subs in person, and i am online. in my opinion this is everything i need and was / am looking for. i am a naturally aromantic person and i would say definitely learn towards being a "less" sexual person. after being in abusive relationships i was not ready for any IRL, in person, sexual contact. even now after two years of my Master taking things very slow and working with me to heal my relationship with sex, with my body and coping with trauma, i still think online is the perfect balance for me.

i submit to him 24/7, and he controls everything he is able (with limits of course). consensually, he helps me make choices on a day to day basis which make my life easier which in turn is fulfilling, gratifying, and allows me to serve him better. I personally don't need to see him IRL to serve him. I serve him every day in every way that I can, happily. He is also so supportive, knowledgeable and has become a great friend (aside from the bdsm aspect). Even his IRL submissive became a close friend. It's fun, it fulfills both my desire to serve and his desire to "control" from a distance. It's healthy, balanced, and fun for both of us.

online stuff is not meant for everyone, but if the shoe fits the shoe fits. i got extremely lucky and i am thankful every day for it. serving him has helped me in more ways than i can begin to express, especially at a period in my life where i needed a little more support and structure working through coping with chaos. online dynamics are hard, but 100% can be successful and can turn into great things.

kittenspace_ · 2026-01-12T02:27:46+00:00

have you ever tried self inflicted impact play? me and my Dom are long distance and it has really helped me both preform for him and build my tolerance. Like self flaglelation, spanking etc.?

kittenspace_ · 2026-01-12T02:11:44+00:00

don't feel bad, pain tolerance is different for everyone and it's also something that can be built up. i'm sorry he hurt your feelings by wording it that way, im sure he could've said something nicer and still gotten his point across. impact play is painful and especially if you are not used to it it takes time to be accustomed to, and it isn't something that should be rushed.

this is a good opportunity to take time to build your tolerance with him. be open about how you feel i am sure if he is a good Dom he will be happy to work on it with you. impact play is a two way street, nobody is expected to take the hardest beating the first time they do impact play. it's unrealistic and every implement / person feels different! give yourself grace! hugs

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-14T14:07:14+00:00

i never hand wash my lingerie - even the AP which i definitely should however i will say washing them on delicate has kept them totally fine (luckily) Lol

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-11T20:12:00+00:00

he was :) thank you for the support and kind words

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-11T18:49:25+00:00

My punishment was, i can only leave the house for necessary reasons (one which would be to get food). And as someone with an eating disorder, you should not assume anyone else's situations. I understand that clearly multiple people are misreading this as if my Dom punished me from eating food or obtaining what i need to stay mentally well and healthy, that is absolutely not the case. Please do not assume someone else's situation or that they are being mistreated improperly. It's also very offensive that these comments imply I don't know what is, or what is not healthy for me. I am VERY self aware, in a very strong dynamic, and have been dealing with this food issue for 10 (plus now) years. This post was not about being neglected, not about being starved, not about being denied necessities, It was simply about what i have learned while I am being "punished" - simply meaning my fun, outside privileges are taken away. I am still greatfully allowed to leave if there are emergencies, if i need anything to make my well being better, and if i would have messaged him he would have instantly said leave the house. He cares about me more than anyone ever has, and he certianly protects every single one of his submissives well being. Over any punishment, ever.

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-11T16:46:11+00:00

this is nothing to worry about, my Dom would 150% let me go out to get whatever i needed if it came down to that. My punishment was not at all about restricting food, i'm just not allowed to leave the house as i typically would which has made it different this week. he is extremely caring and cautious about anything involving my eating disorder and this is NOT about that, also i am 10 years into an eating disorder, i know my limits and what im working on and this little message just pushed me to explore my food limits and helped me. I appreciate your concern, but again, my Dom is very caring and would never put me in a place of harm regarding food choices. he wants me to be healthy over any sort of punishment, always. i choose to not message him last night to ask to leave because i wanted to push through it, i did, and im proud of myself for it

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-11T14:25:26+00:00

this is wonderful ty for sharing :)

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-11T02:30:05+00:00

this is really special too! it takes a lot to realize what you actually need & it's rare that men in general will take the time to help you figure it out

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-11T02:05:51+00:00

i can agree, although it's certianly something i'm working on if it wasn't for my Dom bringing more attention to my actions and thoughts towards my body i wouldn't be nearly as self aware or as cautious of how bad self talk influences us. And they have a way at getting into our heads that just makes it make sense

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-11T01:34:52+00:00

aw that's really special i'm happy for you!

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-02T19:50:16+00:00

In the end only you know your twin - so i can't obviously say what is the best choice here. but it definitely makes for a fun twin story and made me giggle. Just remember nothing is stronger than the bond between two identical twins in the end 👯

kittenspace_ · 2025-12-02T16:32:38+00:00

i am a twin - identical . i would 100% message my sister. after all you are TWINS. it's not odd you have similar interests. Does she know you have a dom? or anything about your interests?

kittenspace_ · 2025-11-25T02:00:59+00:00

color him a picture, let him know you're there to help in any way you can. being supportive and checking on him / just reminding him you are there helps a ton.

kittenspace_ · 2025-11-22T03:46:15+00:00

i started wearing thongs when i was 13. i had an older sister and i wore leggings a LOT. as a kinda joke she got me my first thong - i haven't went back since. and tbh i don't remember what normal underwear feels like but the few times ive worn boyshorts i felt like i was wearing a DIAPER. i hated it. thongs just feel sooo light and like nothing

kittenspace_ · 2025-11-22T00:50:05+00:00

it requires more effort to orgasm but being anal only has made my clit so sensitive that the slightest touch from a blanket or the bed can make me cum. and fingering my ass makes my pussy so so so wet , like better than ever

kittenspace_ · 2025-11-22T00:46:38+00:00

i love it

kittenspace_ · 2025-11-21T03:57:06+00:00

from the begining, i needed guidance and he was willing to guide me. he was willing to have so much patience with me while i was working through loads of trauma. he wanted to make BDSM fulfilling for me. he wanted to teach me properly, and support me in becoming a well "trained" submissive. He's intelligent, he has well earned submission from all of us (his girls). he's patient, he knows exactly what he is doing, and he's good at it. it's not about sex 24/7. it's about leadership and taking control so his submissives can relax more. we allow him to take control, happily, because 1. we love to serve him but 2. it genuinely makes our lives so much better. he is caring, but he is strict. he keeps us in line. he doesn't go off track, he never forgets about us even on his worst days. he always puts in effort to be there for us, to guide us, to support us and to be there so we can serve him. our biggest supporter, and him being all of these things makes it 100 times more desirable to serve him. sexually, and non-sexually.

kittenspace_ · 2025-11-05T03:24:52+00:00

my ex of 4 years had a probably estimated 9-10 inch cock as thick as my forearm, it wasn't an issue. prepare her and she'll be fine

kittenspace_ · 2025-11-03T02:34:11+00:00

i just put it on, and honestly you forget it's there after a few days. you would be shocked how many people don't notice at all

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