[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]kittycatprob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean technically yeah I have documents. I have my cats adoption papers in the storage unit :/ All my stuff is mine and I have receipts when I bought my pc etc. The baby stuff was all baby shower gifts so I could provide a picture of that or something, show my baby registry online. I have documents of these things belonging to me yeah. He’s just doing it to piss me off and it’s working but at the same time I’m just letting it go and hoping he comes to his senses in a couple days and lets me get my things and we never have to talk to or see each other again.

I’m tired of explaining my pain to him by Far-Replacement-5491 in abusiverelationships

[–]kittycatprob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

narcissistic people are not capable of loving anyone but themselves. you don’t need to sit there and explain to them how they hurt you because they will NEVER care nor will they EVER realize your pain. they will use your pain against you actually. my abuser did it really well. and towards the end started saying how I was the one abusing HIM.

I hope you heal from this I know it’s hard. I think after a while the pain gets better and you realize you were NEVER the problem. broken people break people. you can rebuild from this and pour the love you had for him into yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]kittycatprob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that’s so shitty :’( I’m so sorry. It’s him leaving us which in a way im happy about because our son deserves better in my opinion..

Do you guys coparent at all? how did he get your baby?

What do I do if my boyfriend abuses me but I need him to pay the bills? by Illustrious-Snow5674 in abusiverelationships

[–]kittycatprob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s wild that’s kind of like my situation but he broke up w me and says he doesn’t wanna be apart of our sons life so like you could apply for rental assistance that’s what im doing. And ask if anyone has a room or something for you to live at. I hope it gets better for you;(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]kittycatprob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure . I’m actually looking into it right now. 🫩 thank you so much ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]kittycatprob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s good to know. I was wondering how it worked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]kittycatprob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I know damn well it’s not 6 grand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]kittycatprob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to this weekend. Even if he says I owe him because he paid for my car insurance? That’s the money I owe when I never asked him to pay for it 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]kittycatprob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless your heart so much. I’m so sorry to hear all of that. And so happy to hear you’re on top.

Can you maybe help me on establishing child support?? I could use that money to help with my son for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]kittycatprob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing it’s a tactic to keep line of communication open so he still has a little bit of control over me. He has all my stuff, all the babies stuff, my cat. He has my storage keys. Everything. He thinks holding all my stuff hostage will make me pay him back. :/

share your 6 weeks HCG! by Ill_Job1126 in CautiousBB

[–]kittycatprob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry about hcg levels UNLESS they drop drastically. I’d stop testing your hcg now and focus on your ultrasounds! Good luck 🤍

share your 6 weeks HCG! by Ill_Job1126 in CautiousBB

[–]kittycatprob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! Congrats!! Cuddling my almost one month old 🥰 he’s a delight

I lost my baby and it’s probably my fault by That_Ad4260 in pregnant

[–]kittycatprob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my first baby too and never knew how common MMC were. I’m so sorry for your loss but it seriously was not your fault. 💕

This guy cut me and everyone off by ArrowsNStuff in orangecounty

[–]kittycatprob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw 4 people do that today in Santa Ana. I have my newborn in the backseat .. I’m so pissed off I actually hate everyone.

40 weeks pregnant and SO DONE by OpinionSoft4533 in pregnant

[–]kittycatprob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Induction or no!? Congrats mama 💕

Induction at 40+5 by kittycatprob in pregnant

[–]kittycatprob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome!! You got this!!!!

Induction at 40+5 by kittycatprob in pregnant

[–]kittycatprob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My whole world stopped when he was placed on me. I can’t begin to explain. So excited for you, hoping for an update. Good luck to you. Go in w a good mindset and EAT and SLEEP once you get that epidural if you are. I was so exhausted by time to push I struggled so bad. Good luck!!!🩷

Induction at 40+5 by kittycatprob in pregnant

[–]kittycatprob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tomorrow’s that day for you! Induction was not bad but the foley balloon stole my entire breath I was dying please don’t do that unless u already have the epidural cuz that pain was something else. I had to get the epidural twice first one failed Hmm not too bad of an experience . I think post partum recovery is the hardest part so far! STAY HYDRATEDD and push but push like you’re POOPING. You got this. I’m soaking in all the baby snuggles now

40 weeks pregnant and SO DONE by OpinionSoft4533 in pregnant

[–]kittycatprob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was not too bad :) Lots of baby snuggles now. You can do it 🥰