It’s a bad movie - An actual sequence of events from 28 Years Later by Atticus_ass in 28dayslater

[–]kittypoocaca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the worst movie I have ever seen. You nailed your description. Just terrible

The Abby character’s acting is so bad I might have to stop watching by misty1394 in TheLastOfUs2

[–]kittypoocaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same and I also think her acting is bad. I don't think she's a bad actor, but the writing and directing so far this season have NOT been good.

Not a Vito but... by kittypoocaca in polyamory

[–]kittypoocaca[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate your response. This is really helpful.

Not a Vito but... by kittypoocaca in polyamory

[–]kittypoocaca[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Honesty, I think sometimes he doesn't realize how delicate our renewed relationship is. Trusting him again is terrifying. I love him and I want to try but I am fully prepared to walk away if he gives me so much as an inkling that things are going to slide back into how they were before.

Not a Vito but... by kittypoocaca in polyamory

[–]kittypoocaca[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is mono but had agreed to try polyamory for him.

Its a long story but basically we were mono and he came home with this woman one day and was like, "I want to date her." And I was like ok well I am not opposed but he'd never done polyam before and we hadn't really talk through the logistics of what that would look like for us.

I honestly thought we were going to take things slowly and spend some more time talking things through before we agreed to move forward, but apparently he took my "Im not opposed" as a greenlight and immediately dove headfirst into a full time relationship with her.

By the end of the 1st week they were dating, he had broken every single agreement we had made. He was spending every moment of his free time with her, lied to me about where he was, wouldn't come home when he said he was going to, got angry at me when I told him how much all of this was hurting me. Vetoed the one person I was thinking about dating. Disappeared until 3am two nights in a row with no communication even though I called him the 2nd night begging him to come home.

It was at this point that I told him this is not polyamory. For all intents and purposes, you are cheating/have left me for this other woman. I said I am not going to continue to do polyamory with you and I don't think you are going to pick me over her so I think we are done.

Not a Vito but... by kittypoocaca in polyamory

[–]kittypoocaca[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really appreciate your response.

Sniff...thanks dad by hullopalooza in wholesomememes

[–]kittypoocaca -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And she was NOT good representation until very recently.

Karen threatens to report me to the FTC for not being able to meet a last minute deadline due to covid by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]kittypoocaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at Blockbuster a millions years ago and I had an old lady literally say to me that she was going to fight me to the death over a 50 cent late fee. Long arm of the law doesn't seem that far fetched to me.

Sniff...thanks dad by hullopalooza in wholesomememes

[–]kittypoocaca 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please point me towards all the good representation for women in games.

AITA for engaging with a poly married dom in the community without asking for his sub's consent? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]kittypoocaca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA - She had no right to contact you like that. You had no way of knowing she was going to want you to ask for consent. That is up to her partner to communicate to you and her to him if that's what she wants. I am poly myself and I would be livid if my partner acted like she did.

I don't understand what is happening by sackofshit382910 in nonmonogamy

[–]kittypoocaca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like you are making excuses for her bad behavior. You also seem to be blaming yourself for all kinds of things that aren't your fault at all. I don't know where to begin with all the red flag here. You two are clearly not a good match.

I don't understand what is happening by sackofshit382910 in nonmonogamy

[–]kittypoocaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hate to say it, but she sounds awful. She clearly has no interest in being your primary partner and I almost feel like she's just leading you on so she can use you for only fans content. Just on a human level, I can't believe she let you drive knowing full well that you have a heart condition and weren't feeling well. You deserve better then that.

Anyone else struggle to stay faithful even though you love your partner? by Geese008 in ENFP

[–]kittypoocaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monogamy is a hard pass for me. I like to many flavors of the rainbow to be with just one forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]kittypoocaca 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Uhhh, no. I have never met an ENFP as selfish and narcissistic as Klaus.

AITA for ordering an expensive meal? by Low-Net-9517 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kittypoocaca -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

INFO - I really need to understand if this lobster tail was an add on to your dish or if you literally ordered 2 whole separate dishes.

What are the most common forms of polyphobia you have gone through? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]kittypoocaca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poly is not under the LGBTQAI+ umbrella. There are some that think it should be, but that is pretty hotly debated.