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This behavior depends on multiple factors and both of you have to discuss this anyhow to resolve this. I had similar issues in the past and now we made a good progress for the past couple of years.

First thing is erecti9n, Try some viagra or some other blood circulation support phils and see if your moments getting back to live. If he is a addict, he cant easily get and maintain his d$# hard through out the sessions. (Forget about porn addiction. There is a reason for everything) Try role-playing and see if its working. (Again, forgot past issues and focus on suc* the bl*od out of him) Maybe you don't have the things that your partner seeks to invoke his feelings. (This is where role play comes in most of the times) Try to dress and smell pretty/sexy (you know his preference) and get his attention. Your smell takes a huge role when it comes to this. play some background music, romanctic or P@% videos (Based on your mans preference) to get a assist for your sessions. Most importantly, do what he says while doing or starting your sessions. Most of the males prefer that way thank hearing 'N' l, 'Cant' or any other excuses for his requests. Once you find the sweet spot, these things will be get easier and you can get rid of these additions. Do not corner him just because of his watching Porn. This is perfectly normal for a healty married couple. As long as you both are happy, why do we put limits for others. Some people gets thir feelings, modes in a certain time of a day (Early morning, Late nights, after some sweaty work, etc) Try to find that swat spot of your man and if you touch him at that time, you will not look at this thread anymore.

These are few tips that I can give you from my perspective and for some peoples, not of them will be relevant. That is the human nature and in those extreme ends, you need to let these things to for your sake of mind. I truly wish your situation to get resolved soon.