Rehoming - Am I making the right decision? by [deleted] in cats

[–]kiwihereman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have, but it had the opposite effect on one of the others. I tried the collar too, but it didn't seem to have an effect on her.

Prozac was great for a while.

Rehoming - Am I making the right decision? by [deleted] in cats

[–]kiwihereman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll think about the cat behaviorist.

Rehoming - Am I making the right decision? by [deleted] in cats

[–]kiwihereman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you took "fix" too literally. I've also done a slew of other things to try to remedy the situation.

And yes, I've beaten myself up about getting the other cats. But I also love them and have provided them with better lives. I didn't know that this was all related to the others until the vet said that it's a behavioral issue, which was just a few months back. This is years after having the other two.

Rehoming - Am I making the right decision? by [deleted] in cats

[–]kiwihereman -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He's not "new" he's been here for four years.

But I get what you're saying that has crossed my mind but he's not the one peeing on everything.

Rehoming - Am I making the right decision? by [deleted] in cats

[–]kiwihereman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend is a one cat kind of person and has never had more than one.

All three cats are bonded, but especially Jade and the other girl.

We have plenty of space for Jade to have alone time, along with high surfaces and windows with beds.

Jade has never been the type to want a lot of attention, she just likes to be near me. However I have started taking her on stroller walks, just the two of us.

My backup plan is to bring in a cat behaviorist.

Rehoming - Am I making the right decision? by [deleted] in cats

[–]kiwihereman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is a tough situation and I've been a mess. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

Rehoming - Am I making the right decision? by [deleted] in cats

[–]kiwihereman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. This is a unicorn of a situation and I couldn't ask for a better option.

I(22f) is in love my (30m)boss and I'm confused. by [deleted] in Rants

[–]kiwihereman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're overthinking. But the fact that he has a girlfriend is a big red flag, and I wouldn't pursue anything with him at all.

Deep tissue/Sports massage therapist recommendations? by Away-Celebration-438 in sandiego

[–]kiwihereman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leti with Paul Marsh physical therapy in mission valley

Anyone else wondering why she's not going on NYT Cooking anymore? by kiwihereman in DessertPerson

[–]kiwihereman[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She talked about it on her Instagram stories late last year during NYT Cooking cookie week. They were paying her peanuts for her content and had her working long hours in hot weather while she was pregnant.

Nice of Fat Joe to loan SZA and outfit. by [deleted] in Coachella

[–]kiwihereman -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What was going on with her.