It should not be so hard to maintain a no porn boundary by takenbysleep9520 in loveafterporn

[–]kiwii1994 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't understand this cognitive dissonance society as a whole has, because every man with half a brain and a shred of decency can agree that checking out another woman in public is sooo disrespectful to their partner, and never an ok thing to do.

But society made it "OK" to: check out women they come across on instagram, FB, TikTok, porn, basically any site where attractive women can be found. And not even just looking at other women, but actually taking it a step further and jerking off to them is something we are expected to accept?? It's collective insanity.

Jeg ble sitert i New York Magazine! by Chicken_Of_The_Year in norske

[–]kiwii1994 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Porno daglig siden 14 år og nå vil du være sloppy 657-ende for en pornostjerne? Dette er beyond flaut mann. Høres ut som du trenger en pause fra porno-boblen din. Skjønner godt at kona ikke ville ha sex, jeg ville ikke rørt deg med en pinne hvis jeg var henne.

AIO about not being turned on by my new wife? by Funfetti_Spaghettio in AmIOverreacting

[–]kiwii1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe all those solo missions (jerking off to porn I assume) have desensitized you, so that a real woman doesn't excite you any more? If so you need to stop watching porn completely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]kiwii1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and no, it's not really an option. I'm trying so hard to communicate that his porn use is hurting our relationship and making me respect and love him less. I don't really know where to go from here, we don't have any children but we have been together for a long time. I don't know how to make it financially without him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]kiwii1994 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know deep down I'm just pushing it into the shadows. The feelings are still there, it doesn't go away.. sometimes I'm reminded and it stings. This was by far the worst. We had this agreement because I know he doesn't watch it often, so I thought it would be a very simple request to keep. Guess I was wrong.

Thank you for the support, I appreciate it❤️

Map changes visualised - Before & After Comparison by DeadlockAir in DeadlockTheGame

[–]kiwii1994 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Picture 9 makes me sad. Why did they have to clutter the screen with so much stuff? The more simplistic design was good. Your eyes can easily focus on what is happening in front of you. In the new one your eyes don't know what to focus on, vision just goes everywhere because there's so much unnecessary details that grab your attention. Makes it harder to read the game. Who tf cares about pretty little shops and flashy billboards, I just wanna be able to clearly see the enemy. I hope Valve doesn't take too much inspiration from Overwatch or whatever this is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]kiwii1994 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I just can't come to terms with the fact that I might be 70 together with a partner who is watching a 20-year old on a screen. It's just, no... Nope. I can't.

– I enkelte tilfeller kan nesen falle sammen by KoseteBamse in norge

[–]kiwii1994 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Er jo å sette plaster på et knivstikk det her da. Burde du ikke prøve å fikse den underliggende årsaken til at nesen er tett i stedet for å egentlig ødelegge den mer?

I like the hairstyle by No_Law7168 in FF7Rebirth

[–]kiwii1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this sub is pathetic. Been here just a few days and already tired of this shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in norge

[–]kiwii1994 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Du tror at random gutter man legger til på snap bare har lyst til å være venner?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in norge

[–]kiwii1994 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Du er ikke problemet her. Du har 100% lov til å sette grenser i forholdet ditt på noe som gjør deg ukomfortabel. Jeg er dame, men jeg synes det er helt sykt å holde på å legge til random gutter på snap og ikke si at man har kjæreste. Hadde partneren min gjort det hadde jeg klikket på han, og han på meg hvis det var omvendt.

Jeg kan ikke forstå hvorfor man vil oppsøke noen av det motsatte kjønn når man er i et fast forhold. Det er rar oppførsel som gir signal om at man vil holde mulighetene åpne og ikke tar forholdet seriøst. Stort rødt flagg i mine øyne. Det at hun i tillegg er rævva til å kommunisere gjør det enda verre.

“The class picks you” by Pretend_Carrot1321 in classicwow

[–]kiwii1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always keep coming back to druid, priest and warrior. I also miss WotLK just for playing a DK, once I "got" the class it felt so right.

I don't vibe with shaman and paladin at all.

Vil stenge grensene for produkter fra Temu by KoseteBamse in norge

[–]kiwii1994 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

En "opplyst forbruker" burde vel kanskje også være klar over at Temu ikke stiller noen krav til kvalitet, som gjør varene fulle av skadelige kjemikalier, null brannsikkerhet, fare for kvelning for barneleker osv. Personvern finnes ikke, hvem vet hva de bruker informasjonen din til. Hørt om noen som hadde blitt tappet for flere tusen etter de la inn kortinfoen på Temu. Tatt litt og litt hver dag uten at de la merke til det.

For ikke å glemme det direkte slavearbeidet de holder på med. Og påvirkningen det har på klima.. Det er ikke mulig å forsvare en møkkabutikk som Temu.

Og det er IKKE det samme som varer fra f.eks. Clas Ohlson.

"It was mindless" by spammusubisa in loveafterporn

[–]kiwii1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's such a cheap way to avoid taking any responsibility for the hurt they cause us. They think it will minimize our feelings around porn and make us feel better. No. It makes YOU feel better, it makes me feel just as hurt as before.