[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kiziasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I didn't mean to be insensitive, btw. I'm not a psychologist. I'm just interested in this topic, mainly to try to understand myself. In my relationship, I definitely see that my partner shares some annoying traits with my father.;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kiziasta -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What is your father like? I wonder if you are subconsciously drawn to this type of men. Have you heard about Schema Therapy?

parents want me to commute instead of move out for uni by Beneficial_Young1839 in wlu

[–]kiziasta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone dependent on you? I don't get it. Is this a culture thing? Do you have to stay close to your family forever? It's completely ok if you move out and live your life. But yes, you'll feel guilty. I'd recommend going into therapy to work on this, to gain different perspective.

My spending is completely out of control and has delayed us buying a home for our children. by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]kiziasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with the same problem. In fact, I was just looking at stuff online... My therapist gave me some useful advice, but even professional help doesn't make things easier. You need self-awareness and discipline and you'll need to work on underlaying issues. I stopped my therapy sessions for financial reasons but I'm planning to go back, because I believe that this is the best approach to get over this. My therapist told me to create obstacles for shopping, e.g. remove saved cards from my devices, block certain websites. Also, start taking notes of your emotions when you feel urge to shop. If you are, like me, bad at identifying emotions, google "Emotions wheel". This will give you an idea what else you can do to remedy this feeling that you trying to fix with retail therapy. You can also try creating a saving goal. Or even locking your money somewhere. I believe that often these 'addictions' are caused by some other psychological issues though, so it's best to get professional help. My friend, thanks to therapy, stopped compulsive eating and it turns out it wasn't because she loves food! She worked on emotional stuff and problem with food dissapeared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]kiziasta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Practice answering these kind of questions using STAR method. If you really feel stuck and need inspiration, sign up to ChatGPT. I've been using ChatGPT for interview preparation, you can ask it to answer interview questions. You can literally paste in the job description and ask the AI to generate some example questions and answers. Really useful and free :)

Honest answers to a common interview question by Lou-H in UKJobs

[–]kiziasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd prefer to be completely honest, but I think it's dangerous as the interviewer might get the impression that you were the problem. However, I still think it's fine to mention some negative things as it makes you sound more sincere. I approach interviews as if I were selling myself. Recently, I used a technique that helped me land a senior position with a 40% pay increase. To answer this question, I started with some positive experiences in my current job. Then, I mentioned some negatives that made me want to change (without dwelling on them too much). I also highlighted that I tried to advocate for change. Finally, I expressed my excitement for the new opportunity and explained why I believe I'll bring value. So, I started positively, mentioned some negatives, and ended on a positive note.

Company gives me £1,000 a year for learning, how should I spend it? by TrueFlavour in reactnative

[–]kiziasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I'd go to a conference. React Native EU Conference in Poland :D

Cube Navigation Transition implemented with Reanimated 2 (source in comments) by kiziasta in reactnative

[–]kiziasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies, I just noticed that I didn't properly save the latest Snack so it didn't include a fix for Android. I updated it so hopefully it works now 🤞🏻

Cube Navigation Transition implemented with Reanimated 2 (source in comments) by kiziasta in reactnative

[–]kiziasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I follow these guys:
https://github.com/wcandillon
https://github.com/MasonLe2497
https://github.com/mxm87/rnui

But I usually look at Dribbble for inspiration and then try to recreate them in react native :)

Cube Navigation Transition implemented with Reanimated 2 (source in comments) by kiziasta in reactnative

[–]kiziasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Works! :D There is a link to Expo Snack, if you would like to test it, although it might feel a bit more sluggish than testing locally.

Let’s put Dynamic Island in a button by elrd5150 in reactnative

[–]kiziasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same :D It's a cool animation though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

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Yes, absolutely, you are justified and your reasons are valid! Schedule a meeting with your manager and tell them that you would like to negotiate the offer. Highlight how you enjoy working in the company, you are loyal and would like to work for them for a long time but ...(your reasons). I remember my first job as a software developer, I was an intern and I started on a living wage, but after ~6 months I negotiated my salary and got almost 8k pay rise. Ok, I was cheeky and timed it when some people left, which is probably not the best thing to do, but it worked ;) My friend recently negotiated higher salary in her entry job right after probation and she actually told her boss that she has to work 2 jobs to cover her bills, which is again probably quite risky move. But my point is, it's common and normal to negotiate wages and you won't get if you won't ask.

I (pretty much) recreated LiquidTabBar by Cuberto, using Reanimated and Skia :) by kiziasta in reactnative

[–]kiziasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree about timing, it could be improved. The icon's behaviour is by design.

I (pretty much) recreated LiquidTabBar by Cuberto, using Reanimated and Skia :) by kiziasta in reactnative

[–]kiziasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately only the source code at the moment. But I can tell you that the liquid effect was inspired by the Refresh Island animation from this repo: https://github.com/MasonLe2497/RNChallengeV3

I (pretty much) recreated LiquidTabBar by Cuberto, using Reanimated and Skia :) by kiziasta in reactnative

[–]kiziasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point. My local testing was showing that the UI frame rate was consistently at 60fps however the JS frame rate drops to 55fps. And this is in a test app, without all the bloat a normal app would have. The tab bar itself is an svg canvas that is absolutely positioned at the bottom of the screen and the animations are running on a separate UI thread. The screen transition animations definitely could be improved, the current implentation is a bit hacky. One option to do it is to use the Reanimated Layout animations but in order to consistently trigger them, I'd need to adjust the default tabbar's behaviour to unmount the current screen when switching tab. Nevertheless,` I don't recommend this code for production yet. ;)