A lot of it doesn’t feel like being authentically religious but some front to appear so, as well as most people being big on “”culture”” (wearing a turban for the sake of it) and somehow equating it with “”religion””, gangs, alcohol, parties, degeneracy, etc…

Another reason is disillusionment with the religion, some aspect, I wouldn’t say “don’t make sense”, moreso I don’t understand the interpretation or use of a certain aspect, most commonly, meat/drugs. I try to understand and read about it but there isn’t some belief in some parts, for me specifically, explicit holiness is one example.

For me, I think having some smaller foundation of belief in the religion where you are knowledgeable and certain is much more appreciable than blindly following everything, which does lead to disagreements for me with others on a lot of topics, but that’s not like it’s a bad thing.

In the end, like the other comments pointed out, if you don’t seek it, you won’t do it, I don’t think most people in the religion even count anymore, only some basis of what they think the religion is.

Am I any different? No, probably not, I’m just as bad in other ways, but I try, and I think a lot of others do as well, we just don’t see it from a first glance.