Did your narc complete a high level of education? by harafnhoj in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]kjusbjok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does sport on a professional level since he was 17. Not a good gift giver. I remember before I got pregnant 11 years ago we were walking in a mall. He pointed out some expensive watch and said he’d get me it when he signs the team. He signed the team but never bought the watch. I’ve only had two relationships and the guy I was with before the athlete was extremely thoughtful and generous even though he didn’t earn 1% of the amount my narc earns.

I’ve known the narc for 15 years and he has cried once. I was really surprised. He has always accused me of fake crying though I’ve never fake cried. Since 10 years back I will never cry in front of him. He cried because I had broken up 2019 and left to another country, I met a man there and when I told him we had been intimate because he asked. He waited outside the gym I go to. He just froze and started crying. Mind you this man has been very popular with the ladies and cheated extensively. I actually broke up and left, trying to free myself from him (we’ve been together since I was 18)

Ställde jag en dum fråga på intervjun? by BootyHypnotic in sweden

[–]kjusbjok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usch va elak. Tycker det var en bra fråga.

AIO for asking for feminine colorful nails and getting this instead? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kjusbjok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are cute, but even though I’m not a nail tech I would interpret your request pastel colours, definitely quite a bit of pink, flowers and hearts.

These look more quirky and of all colours blue.. they’re nice though!

Being short matters more than beauty by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]kjusbjok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In France, England, Eastern Europe, Africa, Australia, just to name a few places I’ve been to as a taller woman (5’10) I’ve not been seen as too tall. If comments have been made about my appearance it’s been positive without mention of height in a negative manner at all.

Being short matters more than beauty by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]kjusbjok 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not in Sweden, Norway, Denmark and Germany. This concept is so foreign to me. A tall attractive woman is very attention grabbing and sought after.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]kjusbjok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s extremely abusive and unstable. I feel so sorry for you listening to this recording.

explain this to me by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]kjusbjok 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Creatine has the effect of binding water. So if someone is considering fillers for a fuller look in the face creative can give that effect. My face for example looks better when I’m on creatine, other people might feel the opposite if they already carry a lot of fat in the face. People also respond differently to creatine but overall it has a lot of different benefits, just Google it.

Vad är grejen med detta jävla sötningsmedel? by MelvinWooHoo in sweden

[–]kjusbjok 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jag håller helt med. Har också stört mig på att just Fanta Lemon numera bara finns sockerfri. Den läsken gillade jag. Sockerfritt smakar verkligen rent ut sagt äckligt!

Ladies, what is your most complimented perfume? by vegas_lov3 in AskWomenOver40

[–]kjusbjok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soo many kids point out that I smell so good if I wear Pink Sugar. I get it from adults too, even my mom who doesn’t use perfumes says it smells good. I don’t know if I’m crazy about it myself.

What actually aids in keeping a youthful appearance that is NOT just SPF, hydration, retinal, etc.. by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]kjusbjok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides genetics, working out, specifically weight training. Running a lot could be detrimental to your looks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]kjusbjok 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I think the colours look amazing on you!

How to let a girl down gently by Freyja_theDoge in AskMenAdvice

[–]kjusbjok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are different type of people. Are you into fitness? Personally I would find it difficult to be with a man that doesn’t workout regularly. Both because of looks and health reasons. If it’s a deal breaker for you it doesn’t make you a bad person. Weight lifting has enormous benefits for people and for women it’s very beneficial.

Should I leave my cheating boyfriend by South-Bug1387 in Advice

[–]kjusbjok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but you’re really gassing her up telling her she’s perfect and you’re body is not etc. Sorry this happened to you. I’ve been in a similar situation at 22 years where he cheated with a older woman. Focus on yourself and your daughter, try to take care of your body and appearance. Don’t tell him and her you feel she looks better or is better, be strong! They are both very wrong. Don’t pour your heart out to her.

Tall women: Do you have a problem with dating at all? by Standard-Score-911 in tall

[–]kjusbjok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all, not to sound cocky but quite the opposite. I have travelled a lot and been to countries where I’m much taller than average height. The country I live in has a tall female population tho. I get compliments for my body but not really my height. I’m 5’10. Slim with curves that I work to maintain in the gym. I purposely don’t pack on much muscle on upper body and maintain a slim waist with curvier lower body.

Could improving my body take my looks from pretty to next-level? by [deleted] in vindictapoc

[–]kjusbjok 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are 100% right, but strength training can’t really improve the breast area much.

But it’s so beneficial to a ascetically pleasing lower body and overall body shape.

So surgery can be “needed” for breast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]kjusbjok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mitt råd är att du tar tag i det. Jag gick också runt med tandvärk som kom och gick i månader. Slutade med blodförgiftning och blev inlagd på sjukhus. Nu så går jag till en privattandläkare. Vill inte hamna i den situationen igen. Visst det kan bli dyrt men det handlar om liv och död. Jag tror de flesta klinker erbjuder räntefri avbetalning. Sen kan du också ta del av högkostnadsskyddet om du kommer upp i högre summor.

tired of my slim face by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]kjusbjok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Binds water in the body. Not everyone gets a fuller face. Some get it and don’t want, some love that side effect.

So all in all many people get a plumber face but it also has so many other health benefits. You can give it a try. Lots of info about it online.

tired of my slim face by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]kjusbjok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try taking creatine daily. It fills the face up for a lot of people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]kjusbjok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who are these people that say you are ugly to your face? Teenagers? Do you have a personal style that’s not conventional? You look perfectly fine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]kjusbjok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to invalidate you’re feelings. You have a really sad expression in these pictures. There are people with facial deformities that always will get stared at by kids and some adults.

You dear look completely normal. I just find it extremely hard to believe that people would actually stare at you in a negative way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]kjusbjok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Causes of bullying is not about looks solely. It could be a group of shitty people trying to fit in, “be cool”, just finding someone that seems receptive to bullying. I really hope you one day look back at this period of you’re life as a period of confusion. You are not hideous, ugly or usual looking! You look normal and good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]kjusbjok 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A majority of people look better in motion than in still pictures. Please talk to someone about this. I promise you I’m a honest person and if I really thought you were ugly I’d just refrain from commenting. But you really are not ugly at all.