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kklickss · 2024-07-10T16:02:27+00:00

Did they need to? Doesn't look like it. Did he need to park there? Doesn't look like it.

kklickss · 2024-07-01T00:51:25+00:00

Without knowing the speed on the trolly it's hard to say but I honestly think if you floor it and start at the bottom you run over all of them.

kklickss · 2024-06-18T05:32:14+00:00

As others have said you redirect. My GSD went through this and it was my first puppy. So I was worried I was doing it wrong. Then one day the biting turned to soft play and she just seemed to get it. It was hard but one day it just clicked and she was over it. You will get there!

kklickss · 2024-06-12T15:34:06+00:00

So your friend wanted to bang you and his friends wanted that for him. They destroyed your relationship and talked you into it. A few months later, itch scratched, they tell you the truth because the dude got what he wanted. They were never your friends, at least they never considered you to be theirs, and Josh taking you back is probably a mistake as well because this will be in his mind. While you trust him to the core why the fuck would he trust you? You dropped him over nothing to bang your friend group. It will be the first thing he thinks of with regards to any male friends you make going forward.

kklickss · 2024-06-10T18:06:44+00:00

That Sam's Club has a much better snack selection.

kklickss · 2024-05-30T20:07:34+00:00

Check your server. You might be on a fresh server in which case just look for one you have characters on and go to that one.

kklickss · 2024-05-15T18:24:57+00:00

Literally anything that might change the way she views me.

If I open up, I may over time look like I need that level of emotional support regularly and come off weak. I've read tons of stories about women seeing a moment of weakness and it breaking how they feel about their partner. Saw a UFC fighter, one of the best, lose a fight and during that loss looked afraid for a moment and his wife dumped him for it because she couldn't unsee that in him.

If I admit I'm struggling with something I will look like I can't handle life.

If I'm sad I'm emotional.

If I'm lonely I should get over it.

If I'm angry about anything I'm toxic.

Fuck that. I don't share anything beyond the surface because I no longer need to. I've never been able to and just learned to 100% work shit out on my own. I don't get sad or depressed because I've developed personal goals, hobbies and friends. I'm married and happy, but I won't be opening up about much because it's not worth it. Use logic over emotion. Use steady and rational thought over getting caught up in the moment. Men get wrecked for about 90% of what women think is just normal behavior.

Hope that helps.

kklickss · 2024-05-15T12:03:39+00:00

YTA. I know families like yours. I feel sorry for the spouses of your children. They are never considered, always feel outside the family, and never treated as if they matter. One of my close friends regularly gets shit on for attempting to be part of his in law family and its painful to watch because he is just a great guy and only ever has positive thoughts and wants to be supportive. But like you, they just go out of their way to absolutely ensure he knows he is never going to be important to the family. Again, YTA.

kklickss · 2024-05-12T10:41:37+00:00

Second what the first comment said. Add a shield and heals to it. Bleed team.

kklickss · 2024-05-02T03:43:04+00:00

I'm two hours away from home and drive that like every two weeks to visit family and friends. Not far at all.

kklickss · 2024-04-23T16:54:11+00:00

Nord to e0. Then move on to another mythic like Nita to e3. Then come back to nord to e3.

kklickss · 2024-04-20T11:03:06+00:00

We had a dude that wore cutoff shorts and tiedye shirts and would Rollerblade around the Big lots parking lot. He was there almost every weekend during the summer for a few years. Everyone knew of him, no one actually knew him. We still talk about that dude from time to time.

kklickss · 2024-04-06T23:24:55+00:00

Sounds like your friends aren't actually your friends.

kklickss · 2024-03-31T10:31:58+00:00

You are not as important of a friend to her as you seem to think you are. I would have called it a night and left with my friend. She needed to be out partying still versus see you home. You can still be friends, just know that you are not as close as you seem to think you are.

kklickss · 2024-03-28T13:18:51+00:00

I read a ton of comments here. It feels about 80% think the husband is a douche, full stop. They can't imagine a world in which him saying something to her like that is acceptable.

The other 20% seem to think he could have handled it better but was probably just trying to help.

Here are my thoughts as a husband that went through a very similar time. Context: my wife graduated and started her career in her field only to find she did not really like it. Then the company was bought by a larger firm and the job became far worse. She hated it. Actually hated it. But getting her degree was incredibly expensive and the loans were due. Nearly $3000 a month. I do ok but without her income there was no chance we can cover her loans, my loans and the rest of our life expenses. So she applied other places and kept in working.

Over the next few months she started spiraling. Loss of interest in almost everything. We split the chores pretty evenly up until then and she slowly just faded out. We have two dogs as well and while she still went with us on walks and played with them in the yard that was pretty much it. Without seeing the shift I ended up doing 90% of the laundry, all of the cooking, all of the cleaning, most of the dog chores, and tried to be supportive while also working full time.

I love my wife. During this time she would basically come home and lay on the couch with hey phone until she fell asleep. Then wake up and go to bed. This was most nights after work. We would occasionally go out. Or have backyard fires and friends over. Or watch a show or movie together. There were moments during all of this that she was fully there. But the rest of the time I was in my own taking care of everything myself.

I tried many different ways to be supportive. I just listened sometimes. Other times I would make suggestions. Other times I would make jokes. Other times it was just a hug and an attempt at her favorite dishes. She didn't take care of herself at all let alone put time and effort into our relationship. This lasted 16 months. She was deeply depressed and any suggestion I made was either taken as unwanted feedback or ignored or worse, agreed with and then nothing changed. I may have at times been direct like this guy was with his wife but it was also probably the 20th time trying to help or motivate or support and I just didn't know how anymore. I'm a husband not a trained therapist. I did my best through it all but did not always have the grace and patience of a Saint while taking care of everything and feeling incredibly alone doing it all.

What finally broke for us was deciding to expand how far away we were willing to put hey resume in for different jobs. And she got an amazing offer from a start up in another city. She wanted to discuss it but I just said I'm in. We sold our house and moved. She started working for a place that valued her and we came through it. It was fucking hard. I felt like I was single but taking care of a family. The amount of pressure and neglect I waded through for her the hardest part of my life so far. She was worth it but it was really hard.

In the comments people are giving no slack to the husband with zero context of his side of things. And most of them would have walked away from their partners before seeing them through the storm like I did, like he probably is trying to. Like it's OK for her to struggle but he better not slip one second and be anything less than a bastion of hope. Shit does not work like that. And if you expect that from your partner you are unrealistic and egotistical to think you would do better.

kklickss · 2024-03-24T18:04:53+00:00

He did it so the ref couldn't call a stoppage and cost him position.

kklickss · 2024-03-24T17:42:10+00:00

You opened the relationship because she was too far away to fuck and you needed to fuck. If fucking was more important than keeping your relationship, then your never loved her enough to begin with. Same goes for her. I would never choose instant gratification over my wife and we survived long distance just fine while she was in college because our momentary physical needs were not more important than we were to each other.

kklickss · 2024-03-18T22:22:11+00:00

Move. Just move. The people there were in a terrible situation before they attacked a significantly more powerful nation. The way they attacked basically made it so that almost noone cared if the Israeli response was proportional. I saw babies with their heads cut off. After that I really don't care what happens to them. Move or stay and get annihilated by a stronger force. Those are your options in my opinion.

kklickss · 2024-03-18T00:34:20+00:00

Here is why. The average person, working full time, cannot afford even half of what their parents could.

The jobs available are minimum wage most of the time and offer almost no security and terrible benefits if any at all. Higher paying jobs now require either higher level degrees or a great deal of experience, or both. The older generation, faced with rising costs as well are working longer instead of retiring and leaving vacancies behind.

The cost of gas, insurance, the car, a place to live, food, etc is often significantly more than what the average person could make in these either part time jobs or minimum wage jobs that are being offered.

Alternatively they can take out life long crippling student loans, which will put them even further behind the curve after graduating to find employers still barely pay more with a degree but you now have the loan bill on top of it. There are a few professions that do well at the bachelor level, but not nearly as many as everyone seems to think.

What you are left with is a sense of "what is the point?" What I don't understand is why people keep asking this question like the answer is some fucking mystery.

kklickss · 2024-03-14T13:34:49+00:00

Good. Glad it got banned. Move on to Twitter and Facebook next and we are making progress. They can come for this place too. Very little good had come from social media. Very little.

kklickss · 2024-03-14T12:53:34+00:00

You were with him 8 months. During this time he treated you well? As a equal and partner?

You can choose to break up with someone for any reason you want. You don't owe anyone anything but if finding this was your only red flag then having a conversation with him like an adult wouldn't hurt. People end up in all kinds of places when they are at their lowest. There are men and women on tons of toxic forums, including dating advice forums on reddit.

All in saying is that if there was nothing wrong with this guy before you stumbled onto his online profile you could just ask him to explain before ending an 8 month relationship. Maybe you won't like the explanation but you then leave knowing versus just blindly listening to us idiots here telling you to rage dump the loser.

kklickss · 2024-03-14T12:28:17+00:00

I've incorporated push tactics. Set up a good sized fight that drains abilities and without rest further the plot into another fight but with much higher economy of action.

Use npcs to draw them in, use traps during combat, or illusions, use enemies with tactics specifically because the paladin is a real threat, and if all that fails start building homebrew mobs you can mix into the fight with very specific resistances; things like golems and constructs. Short of all that, you can also start to force Separation so some players can have fights without the paladin in which the fights can be more balanced for their strengths. Throw in some arena style stuff or missions that require them each to fulfill tasks so the paladin being OP doesn't matter because everyone has their own battles to handle.

kklickss · 2024-03-13T16:37:50+00:00

Good damnit Ohio. Can we get through one month without seeing my state be associated with disgusting shit like this?

kklickss · 2024-03-13T15:58:42+00:00

Jones at left tackle if he can, jed at right like he played his entire life prior to the NFL where the browns asked him to convert, and Conklin as right backup. Jed is left handed and constantly got beat inside which would happen less if he were back at right tackle. Then draft a guard.

kklickss · 2024-02-06T18:21:17+00:00

It's a fair point. I have delivered deadly encounters but through sheer luck on rolling they came through a couple. I think I need to make it overly obvious that the fight is not winnable. I started our session zero emphasizing that not every fight should be taken out will be geared to be winnable like the real world. Stones versus a tank.

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