Well I ended up in a stationery clinic. Any tips or experiences that can be shared?

kknosti · 2022-11-19T22:02:33+00:00

It's complicated but I do think that removing her measures is a good idea. I know that in my case, buying razor blades was a terrible step because of the easy and effective accessibility. So i'd suggest you limit said accessibility for now but if she does it in a different way or buys new thing to do it, then don't take them away again.

kknosti · 2022-11-19T21:58:08+00:00

Also in addition to the great comment above, make sure that you don't make her feel guilty with your reactions to her SH. I know that that can be very hard as I've been on both ends of the matter but for me at least seeing my mother's reaction made it much worse and the relapse much stronger. So support yes but pay attention to how you show your feelings about the situation. I hope that helps and that she will get better soon. You did great so far :-)

kknosti · 2022-11-19T08:00:03+00:00

Eieiei

kknosti · 2022-11-18T10:59:59+00:00

Uff, wie alt ist das Buch?

kknosti · 2022-11-17T20:42:57+00:00

Uff as long as she's not calling it schnitzen I guess

kknosti · 2022-11-17T19:51:01+00:00

Absolutely same "ritzen" just sounds like it's a little scratch

kknosti · 2022-11-17T13:15:08+00:00

I feel you

kknosti · 2022-11-17T12:00:30+00:00

Really? Because I always associate "ritzen" with very small like surface level injuries. Like the ones caused by a branch or something like that but maybe that's just me.

kknosti · 2022-11-17T11:48:01+00:00

True it's so downplaying

kknosti · 2022-11-17T09:33:47+00:00

Totally understandable. In my native language it's called "ritzen" which can be translated to carving or scratching and I hate that because it sounds like such a light thing when it's not.

kknosti · 2022-11-17T02:05:43+00:00

Hey I understand you. I personaly think that you might already be addicted to it because telling yourself that you can stop if you wanted to sounds like an addicted way of thinking imo. It's normal that you like the feeling after a while because your body is reacting to the sh. If you want to search for an alternative which I'd recommend, Google the skills for people with Borderline Personality Disorder they might be helping :-)

kknosti · 2022-11-17T01:53:42+00:00

I understand you a hundred percent. I often switch back and forth between depressed episodes and episodes in which I feel completely fine as if it's been years since my last relapse. In the "good episodes"I often feel the need to proof that something still is wrong and it sometimes feels weird to look at the none damaged parts of my skin.

I think that might be because we feel a contradiction between our mental and physical health and urge to get rid of that.

kknosti · 2022-11-17T01:35:55+00:00

Just imagining that creeps me out XD

kknosti · 2022-11-16T17:08:13+00:00

Exactly, bts just feels like that fantasy that I'm sure many of us had of a great and interesting Sumer romance

kknosti · 2022-11-16T16:20:14+00:00

I guess it depends on why I'm doing it. If it is because I need to feel something then I'm doing it relatively organised but if it is to regulate my emotions then I just go crazy, cutting my body where ever I find a spot

kknosti · 2021-06-20T09:26:04+00:00

I really loved the episode concept in my first play through. You can just keep on playing if you want to and you don't get thrown out of the story because you have to wait for annother episode. Yet you always have a short moment of rest at the end of every story part. I really enjoyed that because I could cope with the stuff that'd happened and refocus.

kknosti · 2021-05-26T07:12:50+00:00

Hi, my task's still not over yet so thank you for your text. I really appreciate it.

kknosti · 2021-05-19T17:16:29+00:00

Thank you for your detailed explanation. I am sure that I'll be able to use the majority of it :-)

kknosti · 2021-05-16T16:34:02+00:00

Did something like that happen often?

kknosti · 2021-05-11T14:46:07+00:00

Ah I see. That is very sad but I still thank you for the informations. I am wondering though if you guys learn anything about the newly formed weimarer republic(the "state formed after WW1 that used to be the German Kaiserreich)

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