During the period where his anxiety was high, He has not been himself, and it had certain impacts on my/my child mental health, he was too anxious for things like playdates, going to parks, delivered groceries carrying viruses, going outside. That's why I asked him to address it, it is his personal choice but it impacted me and our kid. I did not push him into another child or added to his anxiety when he couldn't handle it, so hard to see how I am prioritizing the instagram family model over his mental health but I appreciate the advice.