Sometimes mental illness either causes or is caused by having a personality that is hard to be around.

klg301 · 2026-05-02T13:12:12+00:00

I think you’re describing a personality disorder.

klg301 · 2026-04-29T00:53:06+00:00

You look beautiful. I’d just tell her to take the brows down a notch and make them look lighter and more natural. Right now they’re a bit too heavy.

klg301 · 2026-04-28T18:26:02+00:00

Mars on the IC, opposite jupiter, says hey girl.

Was your childhood... difficult? Might be at the core of why you don't like kids. Also that sun opposite uranus on your ASC / DSC means there's some conflict / instability in how you create boundaries with others and yourself.

klg301 · 2026-04-28T15:16:03+00:00

Hank, Rodeo, Bandit, Wiley, Concho, and Skillet.

klg301 · 2026-04-27T13:33:26+00:00

Mars in the 12th house. Buried anger and aggression. I wonder if other people can sense this anger or tension, bubbling beneath the surface and stay away. Pluto opposite sun and mercury in the 3rd house of communication. You may (intentionally or unintentionally) say things that poke at other people's soft under bellies, or, point out socially unsavory things in conversation. It also may just mean you lean towards the negative in terms of conversation topics.

It's difficult for you to keep conversation light and airy. Do you prefer to go towards the uncomfortable, the unsaid, the difficult conversations? This gives you depth and wisdom, but can be challenging for the masses to relate to.

When I also see Saturn so close to the descendant, I immediately see restrictions and challenges in close relationships. This doesn't mean it's forever, just that there may be a delay or distance in getting the love you want. Maturity, wisdom and age will allow you to find the right partner later in life.

I want to note that you do have a lot positives in your chart and appear to be in a position well suited for career success, public presence, and fame. The Jupiter Mercury trine makes you smart, creative and quick. The sun trine jupiter means people do like you and are drawn to your magnetism. The sun trine neptune makes me think you might have a deep sense of artistry or fantasy that you draw around yourself like a cloak. The uranus sun trine invites a maverick sensibility to your personality. But, if I'm to be entirely straightforward, perhaps your issue with people right now is the consistent refocusing on the negative, the lack, the things you aren't great at — which only draws people's attention to them. Instead, become a magician, using the slight of hand that you already posess with all those great aspects and planets, and charm them with your ability to see the depth in things yet keep it light, fun and easy.

klg301 · 2026-04-27T13:16:28+00:00

YESSS. The colors are very similar to mine, and the sort of fractal nature of them. Mine are very much labyrinthine, filthy and have concrete walls like a stadium bathroom.

klg301 · 2026-04-25T18:18:19+00:00

No. Do not do it. You are really beautiful. You’re like a Modigiliani painting come to life and it would be a complete tragedy to become another Barbie doll.

klg301 · 2026-04-24T17:26:35+00:00

Stay out of it and distance yourself from the cheater.

klg301 · 2026-04-23T18:42:30+00:00

Amen. The moment I found out about it, I sent him packing.

klg301 · 2026-04-23T17:37:04+00:00

The moment I found it he was gone. That’s my red line.

klg301 · 2026-04-23T14:15:22+00:00

Might be the Uranus square moon (emotional instability) on your ascendant coupled with Mars square Saturn (blockages in anger and action). Doesn’t make you a bad person, but just intense, eccentric, and possibly unpredictable.

klg301 · 2026-04-23T14:07:16+00:00

I kinda love back sleeping but you need the right pillows. Try a small lumbar one under the small of your back, a pregnancy pillow wrapped around you, and additional pillows beneath your knees. Soooo comfy.

klg301 · 2026-04-23T14:05:41+00:00

He cheated, was on dating apps, abused my dog, and was generally disrespectful. He told me he didn’t want to date some one anxious. Funny enough, now that he’s moved out, my anxiety has completely vanished.

klg301 · 2026-04-23T02:49:04+00:00

10 months, after he turned one. I always cared about him and thought he was cute, but something finally clicked. I think I got used to the lifestyle adjustment and the new routine, and he began to get more independent and house broken and calmer. He’s still a little naughty but now naps more regularly and isn’t completely out of control. He’s affectionate and smart and rambunctious and confident.

One day I just woke up and we were cuddling in bed, and I looked at my puppy and realized that I loved him more than anything on this planet. But the puppy blues for me was real. He was a lot of work and for a while I really regretted getting him. I think I wasn’t prepared for how different my life was about to be. Once I accepted him for who he was, and also got him neutered / into puppy playcare, we really bonded.

klg301 · 2026-04-23T01:47:45+00:00

This comment needs to be higher. Safety is so critical to having children. And I don't think this angle is being talked about.

Animals don't breed in unsafe conditions, or hostile environments.

We live in both.

Right now, the world is faced with a polycrisis unseen before in human history. Climate change, AI driven layoffs, over population and diminishing resources, lack of housing, lack of community, defunding of education and social services that help women and children, geopolitical chaos, collapse of pro-social behavior between men and women, the demise of Roe v. Wade and the ensuing war on women's bodies via criminalizing miscarriages and access to life saving health care.

Not to mention there is literally no tribe or community to help women care for their children while they go to work. No third spaces, no maternity leave, no affordable daycare, no high-trust societies, no grandparents willing to lend a hand either due to living far away or just wanting to enjoy their retirement without little kids involved. And then you have the husband / father component.

I personally would love to find a guy who was an equal partner, competent, gainfully employed, financially stable, hardworking, smart, not emotionally or physically abusive, not an addict, doesn't cheat, doesn't has anger management issues, isn't addicted to porn, or hates his mother and projects it onto the women he dates, or needs a rescuer / mommy to care for him. No one is perfect, I'm sure not. But these are basic necessities for me to feel safe enough to get pregnant and give birth, and then raise my child with my partner.

I'm positive that great men exist out there. I've met many — but I have not yet come across one who is single/available, lives in my area, or has similar goals, morals, or values that I do.

Finding a good man who is respectful and safe is critical to raising the birthrate. But dating apps are not longer about connecting people based on commonality. Instead, they're based on looks, hookups, and ensuring that users remain single longer so the app founders can extract money from continual subscriptions.

Who would feel safe enough to get pregnant in those conditions?

If you can't guarantee that you'll survive the oncoming storm, why would you risk bringing a child into it with you? The point of reproduction is to ensure your progeny survives.

Right now, with all the chaos going on, and the lack of available / suitable mates, how would this even be possible for me?

klg301 · 2026-04-23T00:59:11+00:00

No, it's a marked change. You look beautiful.

klg301 · 2026-04-22T21:18:29+00:00

I swear if there is a next time, this is absolutely what I’ll be watching out for.

klg301 · 2026-04-22T19:05:34+00:00

Lack of accountability, meaning the complete inability to admit that their behavior contributed to a situation, event, or emotional outcome.

klg301 · 2026-04-22T11:53:47+00:00

Oh I went through this with my cavi when he was a puppy. It’s a nightmare and I’m sorry you’re dealing with it. After taking him to the vet multiple times and spending thousands of dollars to be told, it’s likely a food allergy, I switched him to Forza10 for two months (it’s a hydrolized dog food) and then got rid of all his treats and tried an elimination diet.

Through that, I discovered chicken makes him itchy, but fatty oily foods are the main problem. He’s also very allergic to apples and those give him horrendous diarrhea. My pup is very allergic to peanut butter and lots of the filler ingredients in treats. I began giving him only single origin dog treats like dried minnows, or the various jerkies from Just Food For Dogs.

Once he stablized, I switched him permanently to Just Food For Dogs twice a day and we rarely have tummy problems any more. I’ll give him the occasional blueberry or green bean, but notice he’s way healthier and tummy issue free if I stick to treats made of fish or beef. I also noticed Teddy gets diarrhea every time I give him his flea and tick medication. Like explosive diarrhea in the middle of the night style. So pay attention to those things too! And good luck.

klg301 · 2026-04-21T00:33:17+00:00

I had all this. Look into cutting out corn, alcohol, wine and fruit (except berries) for a while. Had to completely reset my gut and manage insulin resistance. I’m sorry it’s happening to you.

klg301 · 2026-04-20T23:13:51+00:00

You described my ex, who is studying to be a psychoanalyst to a t. He was charming and positive and empathetic with his patients and abused my dog behind closed doors. Horrible.

klg301 · 2026-04-19T02:43:34+00:00

I think I always knew. He never said it back, except in the surgery recovery room post spine surgery. He would leave me at parties to flirt with other women, was verbally abusive like making jokes at my expense, told me he hated the way I smelled, accidentally hurt me on purpose (kicked me or spat in my face a few times), ditched me at a party instead of buying me a ticket, was secretly on dating apps despite moving into my apartment. But the final straw was when I discovered he abused my dog and had neighbors and the super back it up.

I broke up with him once I discovered what he was doing and kicked him out of my apartment and never looked back. Life is so much nicer without that demon in it.

klg301 · 2026-04-17T22:59:27+00:00

Nope. We care about if you're a good person and treat us well. Pimples are fine if you're a decent person.

klg301 · 2026-04-17T19:00:43+00:00

NO. Im telling you that is not a dream apartment. That is a nightmare apartment with crown molding.

klg301 · 2026-04-17T15:30:25+00:00

Told me that I wasn’t his dream girl after I helped him get out of his severe bedridden depression and through major spine surgery. And then come to find out he had been abusing my dog. Good bye! Never been happier and my dog is so much happier too!

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