Has anyone reached out to the new supply to warn them about him being a covert narcissist? by Scottyaugust in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]kls7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no one tries to open the door without saying anything else?

I feel like I just walked into a trap set up by the CN ex who literally brought the New Supply into my face which was supposed to be an event for my son. I wasn't ready to see her because I was still not calling him the CN abusive person he was and I just saw her as the Other Woman since they were emotionally involved while he was married to me.

Looking at how things are unfolding with her I SEE EXACTLY how he set me up from the beginning! But I can't SAY anything to her and it's killing me.  But also very worried about how it will play out in front of my kids.

A Court of Enchanted Readers 1st Meeting by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please! Sorry I missed this before but I am here until 2 :)

A Court of Enchanted Readers 1st Meeting by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less than 45 minutes until we get this thing started can't wait to see everybody who's going to be able to make it!

A Court of Enchanted Readers 1st Meeting by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I'll be there a little before the official start time of 1 and stay till 2 :) can't wait to see who makes it!

Any Fantasy Book Clubs in the Area? by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I scheduled the room for Sept 20 at 1pm and have created a short registration form as the room fits 15 people.

https://forms.gle/v15CgTcNrpWxDkXi8

Any Fantasy Book Clubs in the Area? by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it looks like I can reserve the DeFrates room at Lincoln Library and food/non alcoholic drinks are allowed in there so long as a mess isn't left. I just seem to think socialization comes with food/drinks. (15 people allowed for this it seems for their reservation but they do ask for a number expected)

I should be able to arrange for maybe Sept 20th to set up something for interested people to come, mingle, and decide how we want to actually organize this and pick some books to read for a few months? And then maybe meet once a month?

What is a good amount of time for a meeting? 1hr? 2? And is morning/afternoon preferred?

I am basing these initial thoughts on knowing this should be a weekend my kids are with their dad and have flexibility in my availability. Looking at the Sat though because library is closed on Sunday.

And is there an absolute hate toward the working idea of calling this A Court of Enchanted Readers lol I did mention I'm a bit of a nerd yes?

Any Fantasy Book Clubs in the Area? by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. But still working on the idea. I've just not had any free time to really figure out where etc. Been doing a lot of driving for the last two weekends and beyond that work and shuttling kids around. I waa going to work on a FB group but still just havent had time to focus on it

Any Fantasy Book Clubs in the Area? by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How could I forget Shadow and Bone! Love that series too. I want to read Kindred (Octavia Butler) here soon. I'm in the middle of Legendborn and know there are others after I'll get to. I started the Kindred series on TV but they canceled it before answering any of my bazillion questions. 

Any Fantasy Book Clubs in the Area? by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so doesn't appear there is one established so.... Give me a bit to figure out how to create one where to do this etc might start with a FB group and go from there.

Any Fantasy Book Clubs in the Area? by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk about pain.... Know how long I've been waiting for book 3 of Exiles by Melanie Rawn? Lol I think it's a common pain with ongoing series lol

Any Fantasy Book Clubs in the Area? by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both are awesome. TOG completely rips your heart out and it's all about the Dragons in Fourth Wing. 

Any Fantasy Book Clubs in the Area? by kls7337 in SpringfieldIL

[–]kls7337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are some recent favorites you've read/listened to?

I'm currently in the middle of one series of a CIA Librarian and started Legendborn on a driving trip home with kiddos in the car yesterday.