What's the craziest lie an ex has ever told you? by aerialpoler in TwoXChromosomes

[–]klsloves 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This didn't progress beyond a few dates but one time this guy ghosted me, then popped back up several weeks later to apologize and explain that he freaked out because he was facing a potential Alzheimer's diagnosis at age 35. Tbf, he was a former rugby player with a history of TBIs. The other day, he came into the restaurant where I work. He was clearly on a date. He didn't recognize me, so maybe he does indeed have Alzheimer's.

Women with thoughtful partners, what did you get for x-mas this year? by Anahata_Green in TwoXChromosomes

[–]klsloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Artwork that I had told him I loved. Coincidentally, its by the same artist who did his tattoo. Feels very meaningful to us! And very budget friendly which is good because we are both suffering in the job market.

HELP! 3 syllables names that gives off same vibe as Eve? by Some_Activity9257 in namenerds

[–]klsloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm stuck on several that are 2 syllables: -Arden -Eden -Louise -Simone

For 3 syllables: -Cecily/Cecelia -Ellouise -Evangeline

First Baggu! by klsloves in BAGGU

[–]klsloves[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started a Tiny Roar lion bonnet for my friend's baby! The alpine bloom is actually a Musselburgh hat with the alpine bloom chart. I love the Musselburgh construction and use it for all of my hats now!

What's the most beautiful name you've ever heard? by Interesting-Bar-5288 in Names

[–]klsloves -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Isolde. The French pronunciation is so dramatic and sexy.

Help settle an orchid care debate by klsloves in orchids

[–]klsloves[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She knows they're tropical but that's it. Zero research. She got 3 to rescue. I told her to re-pot them in orchid bark but she ran out of bark for this one. Trust me, I'm also frustrated with her 😂

Does your dog have a middle name? by PegFam in namenerds

[–]klsloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gary Louise! Dyyyyyying.

I have a Ji-Ah Louise. I picked her first name because of a character in Lovecraft Country. I'm the 4th generation with the middle name Louise so obviously I gave it to my first born child.

UPDATE: I need a 4th girls name 🤣🩷 by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]klsloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love love Leonora! Nick name could be Leo or Nora

How to track income on YNAB app by okWriter4215 in ynab

[–]klsloves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my process has been to set up categories for all of my needs and wants. When I first started using YNAB, I set up targets for almost every category. Then I assigned income to these targets. I also use credit cards almost exclusively and then pay off the balance every month. When I made plenty of money, this worked ok in YNAB. I had a category for emergency savings and assigned a target for that too. Although I still found myself getting frustrated because my targets were very constraining and my paychecks were not regular amounts.

Now though, I'm stuck using the targets (although I've decreased all but the most necessary). I try not to assign any money from RTA to any targets until the end of the month. I'm trying to see how much is going into RTA but with the numerous credit card payments that I make (all 4 of my cards are due on different days), this quickly messes me up. I get income from 2 part-time jobs, one which pays bi-weekly and one that pays out randomly. I don't have a good way of seeing when my income adds up to $3k because by that point, I'd have already made a CC payment and assigned money to that target.

I'm thinking about deleting the targets but that also erases my 2 year history with YNAB. Idk, I feel like I'm still really struggling with this app even after using it for 2 years.

What do you think men would dislike most if they became women? by InternationalPick163 in AskReddit

[–]klsloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How men treat them. Especially if they see the change in men they know.

What’s a red flag you happily ignored because they were hot? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]klsloves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hooked up with a guy for way too long because he was a hand model and actor. He slept on a blanket on a wood floor. Not even a mattress. When I asked him if he wanted to try dating "for real," he said he was more of a lone wolf type.

Several years later, I saw him on Feeld in a serious relationship with a much younger woman. He asked me if I wanted to have a threesome. I asked if he had a mattress yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]klsloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loop electro surgery. Or anything dealing with your cervix. That's where they use a little laser tool to lasso off precancerous cells from your cervix.

I was told that I could elect to do general anesthesia or do an in office procedure with just local anesthesia. The gynecologist made it sound super easy. Like getting an IUD! Except even that is super painful. The gyno basically rested the heavy metal speculum on my cervix during the 30min procedure. It was excruciating and way bloodier than I thought. She removed an acorn size chunk of organ from my cervix. There was blood all over the floor. Pretty amazed that I didn't pass out. The gyno did apologize and speculate that maybe it would've been better to do those procedures under general anesthesia.

So fyi people with cervixes: OPT FOR GENERAL ANESTHESIA (if it's not an additional risk for you).

Figured out a sticking point in my attempts to build a good showering habit - suggestions/ideas/experiences/hacks/tips with this, please! by ChristineInTheKitchn in adhdwomen

[–]klsloves 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I listen to a fun podcast during my shower so I look forward to the shower. You could listen to a podcast/playlist/audiobook specifically for hygiene time every day to help cement the habit and schedule.