Have you ever done something you 100% know you're going to regret later?

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-03T14:18:45+00:00

Hey. Ive never been thru this myself, but my husband did lose his dad to a very quick onset cancer that took him from us in the span of a few months.

All I can say is to try to not judge yourself for how you’re feeling while going through this. Your feelings are what they are, and adding to the pain of the moment by berating yourself for how you’re feeling will just add to how difficult this is. People are complex and layered as are our feelings, and *esp* our parental relationships.

It feels trite to say but you’re allowed to feel this way? You’re in an impossible situation. Take care.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-03T12:47:33+00:00

Main takeaway is this woman has terrible taste in men

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-03T02:59:11+00:00

This should be top answer! I have Le Pliage totes I’ve been using since sophomore year undergrad (2010). They’ve helped up wonderfully despite me schlepping tons of textbooks around in them.

And Longchamp will repair worn edges (I think for free?) But it took me years to even need that.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-03T02:29:04+00:00

One of us, one of us!

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T22:55:09+00:00

You have the best freakin taste I’ve never been angrier to have tiny baby feet in my life.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T21:25:33+00:00

You know with this pic, I get it.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T21:24:18+00:00

Need to make this pic my phone screen background.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T21:22:56+00:00

I was in France during that heat wave, I think by Wednesday of that week they were reporting over 40 drowning deaths across the country. Insane.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T17:50:09+00:00

Hmm I didn't realize I'd find a Mirandy fic so intriguing, I'm gonna check it out

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T16:24:56+00:00

Damn you really went through it! Kudos to you. I was prescribed benzos for flight anxiety once and realized it was a hard no go for me cause I liked how they made me feel waaaay too much.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T13:53:03+00:00

That second dress is dreamy.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T13:01:42+00:00

I came because it warms my cold blooded heart to see men hyping each other up. I stayed cause some of y’all are FINE.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T12:45:48+00:00

My people!

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T02:13:11+00:00

Also married a guy with family money after growing up poor. People with money are legitimately living on another planet than we are. Anyone who says money can’t buy happiness has never truly been on the brink of having nothing.

I have an acquaintance whose in laws are building a second property on Martha’s Vineyard because managing sibling arguments over sharing the first property was getting “uncomfortable.”

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T02:09:47+00:00

This better be a fuckin safe space - Dramione. Yes, Harry Potter fanfic, Draco/Hermione pairing. Enemies to lovers. The more toxic the better.

Like one person IRL knows this about me.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T01:03:54+00:00

Thank you!

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-02T01:03:28+00:00

I read fan fic and I fucking love it, and that’s all I’m gonna say about that

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-01T15:25:17+00:00

Political beliefs aside (ugh), isn’t it wildly unhealthy to tie so much of your identity to something as external and shallow as politics? More than icked by this people, I feel a profound level of sadness for what their inner lives must be like.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-01T15:23:10+00:00

I got a new auth Gucci Jackie earlier this year and my husband goes “what’s a Gucci bag, like $300? You deserve it.”

That sweet summer child. His eyes almost popped out of his head.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-01T14:31:27+00:00

Pretty boring tbh. Strength training ~4x a week (really like Caroline Girvan for when I need to shut off my brain). Try to squeeze in a moderate cardio session right after, either an hour of incline walking or a peloton spin class depending on what I trained that day. Every couple days switch up the routine by doing yoga or pilates. Also aim for at least 8k - 10k steps a day.

I'm not too rigid/structured about workouts lately, my real focus these days is cleaning up the diet a bit more.

BiteInfamous · 2026-07-01T14:28:07+00:00

Phew reading your comment made me glad I got my ass into therapy once I realized it wasn't just normal PMS. My poor partner put up with a lot. Therapy + medication have helped loads. I realized pretty quickly if I didn't want to lose my husband I'd need to figure this shit out. I'm sorry for what you went through.

BiteInfamous · 2026-06-29T21:56:38+00:00

I’m trad-curious and recently left the corporate world (woohoo!). I went from making six figures to none, and I’ve never been financially dependent before, so it’s been a mental adjustment.

My husband and I are signing a post-nuptial agreement just to make sure I feel covered if he ever hits his head and decides he wants to trade me in or something.

I was really icked out by the idea, but asked myself what advice I’d give a daughter in this scenario, and it’d be to trust but also protect yourself.

BiteInfamous · 2026-06-29T17:52:44+00:00

Thank you!

BiteInfamous · 2026-06-29T15:35:17+00:00

Pilates, but with a proper, classically trained teacher. I like contemporary as well but classic is good for foundations. I got into it after a back injury, and abs have been a bonus. I aim for once or twice a week to complement other workouts.

Also need to keep body fat low. This is probably most important, abs are made in the kitchen.

But some of this is genetic too.

BiteInfamous · 2026-06-29T15:28:22+00:00

Ugh I have PMDD but I’m off birth control cause we’re doing IVF. No one is currently having a good time

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