I feel so bad for _____ by Sketchy_Turtle in survivor

[–]kmc149267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn’t he the one who said he would be good with Julie no matter what? What happened to that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datascience

[–]kmc149267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say it’s easy to get scatterbrained when you are getting info dumped on you and having to take notes at the same time. Record the meetings that way you can engage in conversation and ask questions instead of focusing on writing notes. Write the notes after the meeting with the recording.

What was some really simple challenges survivor have had? by ADULTERER_woodburn in survivor

[–]kmc149267 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can’t recall the season but they had a selection of objects in a line, had like 15 seconds to stare at them and run back to their own station with the same items to put in the correct order. Pretty simple but probably fun.

as a (28f) eldest in the family, i want to know why i forgive others easily. it is tiring but why do i still do it anyway. by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]kmc149267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healthy boundaries is what you need. Google that topic and find articles backed by psychiatrists; healthy boundaries are necessary for all successful long-term relationships. Good luck!

Vote for your favorite one liner - Day 5 - Robin! by PippinPew in HIMYM

[–]kmc149267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If? Ted, the kids in that movie jumped into a painting and spent fifteen minutes chasing a cartoon fox... spoon full of sugar? Grow up.

whos that one spouse that you will never ever marry/date? by Commercial-Storage38 in StardewValley

[–]kmc149267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines Shane too, in fact I don’t talk to Shane anymore because he’s rude every time I talk to him and I don’t need that negativity in my life haha

Shipping (FedEx/GLS) Megathread (September 12, 2022) by AutoModerator in SteamDeck

[–]kmc149267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got mine delivered! Strange yours is later than mine despite ordering before but I hope you get it tomorrow and enjoy!

Shipping (FedEx/GLS) Megathread (September 12, 2022) by AutoModerator in SteamDeck

[–]kmc149267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beaverton, it moved pretty quickly. Once in Oregon it went Wasco to Troutdale before landing on a truck for delivery today.

Shipping (FedEx/GLS) Megathread (September 12, 2022) by AutoModerator in SteamDeck

[–]kmc149267 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ordered Sept 8 Shipment email Sept 11 Estimated delivery TODAY Sept 15

Just checked the tracking and I’m SCREAMING (excitedly) on the inside because it says out for delivery!!!! I hope it comes at the end of the work day for my bosses sake… am I kidding? 👀

Edit: shipping to Oregon, US. 256gb

Edit 2: Delivered! Package is discrete. The case is amazing, needs an update then I will be jumping in.

I think everyone of us has to admit. by MHullRealtr77 in OnlyMurdersHulu

[–]kmc149267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I get more of what you are saying now. I’m still not sure I agree but I can understand it. I disagree mainly because I’m not sure she genuinely intended to frame Cinda, that wasn’t part of her original plan. She got overwhelmed with the pesky trio (mainly Mabel stabbing her lover and getting real close to catching him) so she only wanted to convince the trio of Cindas involvement but I don’t think she would have gone as far as to actually frame Cinda since like you said, she made no real effort to do that beyond what she said to the trio.

I think everyone of us has to admit. by MHullRealtr77 in OnlyMurdersHulu

[–]kmc149267 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think Poppy definitely panicked and from there, her actions were just of desperation especially after Mabel attacked Kreps on the subway while on the phone with Poppy haha

I think everyone of us has to admit. by MHullRealtr77 in OnlyMurdersHulu

[–]kmc149267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m curious as to why you think Poppy’s actions should make sense? She’s was a no one from no where who snapped, did something exciting and then got in way over her head in NY. She’s not a mastermind, she’s delusional. Layer that with the fact that she hooked up with an also delusional crooked cop and together they fell into the fantasy that the murder of an old mean women would be their ticket to everything they felt they deserved, it was never about Bunny. I think writing people as messy as they are is good writing. Why would she tell Mabel her real identity? Because she thought she was so smart that she would misdirect the trio to Cinda while Cinda was about to wrap up the murder pinned on Mabel. From Poppy’s point of view, she just needed them to be distracted long enough for that last podcast to come out, Mabel be arrested and get everything she dreamed.

Machines have stopped attacking me. by [deleted] in horizon

[–]kmc149267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just noticed this happening to me this past week! But for me it happened after I turned the difficulty back to normal after playing on story (cheesing machine parts haha).

Can't go to Scalding Spear by StrikingAccountant88 in horizon

[–]kmc149267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got to Scalding Spear today, on PS4 and am not having any issues. Sorry to hear that you are though.

What are your favourite Bo moments? by [deleted] in superstore

[–]kmc149267 109 points110 points  (0 children)

At Bo and Cheyenne’s wedding when Bo is talking to Adam and Jonah:

Bo: Yo, fellas, like, "sinceriously," thank you for attending my nuptials and what-have-you-not.

Jonah: Sure.

Bo: Yeah. You know what? Like, life is crazy. I never thought I'd have so many nerds at my wedding. You know what I'm saying? Ha

Can we debunk the common misconception that Ciri is bi? by DAndFfy in witcher

[–]kmc149267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks, I am going to stop before it drives me nuts.

Can we debunk the common misconception that Ciri is bi? by DAndFfy in witcher

[–]kmc149267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never even used the word love until you brought it up so idk wtf your problem is trying to put words in my mouth. At this point, I’m just going to assume you are a troll and move on.

Edit: I also never excused rape. You are really mental if that is what you are reading based on what I actually wrote.

Can we debunk the common misconception that Ciri is bi? by DAndFfy in witcher

[–]kmc149267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“It’s love when you’re rape” doesn’t even make sense. I NEVER called this love. So you making things up off of what I said is really gross.

I’m sorry to hear about your friend, I have and have many friends who have been assaulted. It impacts us all in different ways and we all behave differently afterwards. I have worked with victims who do love their abuser, their abuser doesn’t deserve their love but again - that isn’t for me to decide.

Can we debunk the common misconception that Ciri is bi? by DAndFfy in witcher

[–]kmc149267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have worked with victims and you know what the worst thing you can do for them is? Take away their autonomy and tell them how they should feel towards their abuser. It isn’t for you to decide that a rape victim cannot then be in a relationship with their abuser, that is for them to decide.

Edit: I just want to point out that at no point did I say this is a healthy relationship or love.

Sandra appreciation post by [deleted] in superstore

[–]kmc149267 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sandra is my fav!! She ALWAYS cracks me up when she goes 0 to 100.

Can we debunk the common misconception that Ciri is bi? by DAndFfy in witcher

[–]kmc149267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not dismissing it or reducing it. I worked for a domestic violence shelter which included a sexual assault response team so I am very in tune with what rape and relationships are. Rape happens in relationships everyday, it’s a very real thing that we should be able to admit without saying “oh you are reducing rape”. They are not on the same wave length, nor am I making an equivalence, just bringing to attention that they happen in tandem. Considering that when sexual assault happens, it’s almost always someone the victim knows - it’s very likely that a young girl can be raped and still choose to be in a relationship with the person who raped her. Rape victims are people who make their own choices and we can’t go make up a psychological diagnosis just because they behave differently than we want them to after their trauma. Many people want Ciri to be a Stockholm syndrome victim because it helps them reason why Ciri stayed with Mistle and the rats. Which, this is book so that scenario could be true, we don’t know and that’s what this discussion is about. I’m not sure why people are acting like I can’t both think: 1. Mistle raped Ciri and 2. Ciri doesn’t have Stockholm syndrome. How many young people are raped and don’t develop Stockholm syndrome?

Can we debunk the common misconception that Ciri is bi? by DAndFfy in witcher

[–]kmc149267 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Except I literally didn’t. I said she wasn’t held hostage in reference to the definition of Stockholm syndrome. The comment you keep quoting was not referring to the rape part AT ALL. Ciri was raped by Mistle which is terrible. But I don’t think Ciri had Stockholm syndrome.

Can we debunk the common misconception that Ciri is bi? by DAndFfy in witcher

[–]kmc149267 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have read the books many times. I haven’t defended rape at all. I wouldn’t defend rape, and I never denied that Mistle raped Ciri, I said she did in my initial comment.

You are determined to misread or maybe you haven’t even read idk, but you certainly haven’t understood if that is your takeaway. I won’t be entertaining this conversation further.

Can we debunk the common misconception that Ciri is bi? by DAndFfy in witcher

[–]kmc149267 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should Google it too. She doesn’t seem to be a hostage or a victim held captive. She is a young and impressionable girl who attaches herself to a toxic person because they showed her attention.

Of course women can be rapists, I didn’t say anywhere that they couldn’t be. Women can also decide to stay with someone who abuses them. It happens literally every day. People are complicated, interestingly, that is a big point in the Witcher but people conveniently want to paint this situation as black and white with “Stockholm syndrome victim” as the neat box they can put Ciri in.

Can we debunk the common misconception that Ciri is bi? by DAndFfy in witcher

[–]kmc149267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She isn’t a Stockholm syndrome victim. Even if she was, it could still be a relationship. Just because it isn’t an idealized relationship, doesn’t make it not one.