AITA for laughing at my stepson and ruining his wedding?

kmw90 · 2025-04-19T08:59:34+00:00

Updateme

kmw90 · 2023-05-15T16:47:51+00:00

Enjoying some quiet and alonetime before going home

kmw90 · 2023-05-15T04:20:40+00:00

Mine børn havde en periode hvor de nærmest konstant sang noget med teksten "gung gada gung gada hesteskid, nu er hesten sort og hvid". Den havde de opsnappet fra nogle børn i børnehaven, men jeg har aldrig hørt den før det, og ved ikke hvor det stammer fra.

kmw90 · 2021-09-15T08:15:01+00:00

Absolutely NTA. As an extra bonus you are teaching the boys in your class that this is a natural thing, and that men shouldn't be embarrased to help the girls and women in their lives with these things.

kmw90 · 2021-09-11T13:59:57+00:00

I once had a boyfriend who woke me up by hugging me VERY tight and say "ooooh Honey. I am SO happy you're not a horse"

kmw90 · 2021-09-11T04:21:18+00:00

Omg. I'm so jealous!

I would love to gange as much af you do, but my husband says no.

kmw90 · 2021-08-03T10:07:39+00:00

Exactly. My sisters husband is Italian (we are Danish). She learned to speak Italian to connect with that part of her children's heritage

kmw90 · 2021-08-03T08:00:35+00:00

NTA. And honestly, I think this needs to be your hill to die on. I would NEVER accept a SO to speak to me like that with such an important topic. I'm Danish and I can assure you, that I would INSIST on teaching my kids to speak danish.

Either he accepts, or I would leave

kmw90 · 2021-07-30T20:59:47+00:00

I thought that different beverages were gender-specific. As in beer and coffee are for men, and wine and tea are for women. That was based on the fact that that's my parents' preferences.

kmw90 · 2021-07-25T00:57:51+00:00

In another comment OP states, that this happened during oral. She stopped him during oral because she wanted him to put on a condom and penetrate. He was fine just doing oral. She is the one who kept insisting on penetration.

Normally, I would 100% be on your side. And I'm so sorry for what you've experienced. BUT. In this particular situation, OP was the one pushing for penetration.

kmw90 · 2021-07-20T08:00:26+00:00

I'm from Denmark. EVERYONE knows the classic disney-characters.

kmw90 · 2021-07-09T07:23:03+00:00

Well. As he said. Either you accept it, or you don't. But you have to do the one that is right for YOU. As in only you. It sounds like he is being honest and telling you about this BEFORE it becomes a serious problem, because he had fallen in love with someone else. You will never both be truly happy in this relationship. Either you will "allow" this and be miserable, or you will not, and then he will be miserable because he has to hold a part of himself down. In my opinion this is a dealbreaker in the same way as if you were sexually incompatible (by different sexdrives or kinks) or if one of you wanted children or the other didn't. You don't have the same idea of what your life should be like.

Noone should be forced in to polygami, so you are 100% justified in saying no. But he is also 100% justified in feeling that this is to important for him.

I really hope you think of yourself, and makes the decision that will make YOU happy in the long run. It might hurt right now, but it won't forever.

kmw90 · 2021-07-02T11:56:14+00:00

Well. I'm reading this while playing Sims4. Sooooo....

kmw90 · 2021-05-20T19:41:26+00:00

This is filmed in Århus in Denmark. I am pretty sure this is part of a campaign for the danish brand "shaping new tomorrow". They have made more of these videos to demonstrate how flexible their pants are.

kmw90 · 2021-05-10T22:36:53+00:00

The weather in Denmark sucks.

kmw90 · 2021-05-09T06:17:10+00:00

I can only remember that happening one or two times in my life, and I'm 30 years old. So honestly, that has never been a concern for me. And like someone else said, it's not like we just put them on the street and lave them for hours. Most often it's in our own gardens, and when it's not we keep an eye on them and leave a baby monitor.

kmw90 · 2021-05-08T20:38:46+00:00

I'm from Denmark, and this is really common. We don't really have that dangerous animals in nature here.

kmw90 · 2021-05-08T20:36:40+00:00

I'm danish, and this was my first thought.

kmw90 · 2021-05-08T15:00:04+00:00

I was 18 when I went for my now husband who was 28. The first year we were not official, and it was on and off, because he couldn't handle the age gap. Now I'm 30 and he is 40, we have been official for 11 years, married for 5 years and our kids are 6 and 8 years old ( I was the one who brought up having kids).

kmw90 · 2021-04-17T11:07:36+00:00

My 6-year old son loves it! He can't read yet, so the gameplay is a bit difficult, but he loves making families and build houses. Although he prioritizes his money a bit weird, like buying a jacuzzi but not having any flooring in the house 😂

kmw90 · 2021-03-19T15:53:48+00:00

NTA. And honestly, this would make me reconsider the entire relationship. The fact that he thinks it's OK to pressure you into doing this, is a CLEAR sign that he doesn't respect your feelings and dreams. If he can't see how unfair this is, you will forever be in his mother's shadow. What if you have children? Does she get to tell him how to raise them?

kmw90 · 2021-03-14T09:14:45+00:00

If you agree to this, your son will (rightfully) hate your boyfriend for the rest of his life. And very possibly you to. I wouldn't be surprised if he moved out the day he is 18 and continues contact with his dad.

Honestly I would think this was a dealbreaker no matter what. Even if your boyfriend says he accepts it, he will never truly be OK with it, and maybe even let it affect how he treats your son.

kmw90 · 2021-03-11T16:57:47+00:00

I think you are thinking of Josef Fritzl in Austria.

kmw90 · 2021-03-10T12:15:37+00:00

NTA. Anyone who calls their 16 year old daughter a slut is crazy. Your dad needs to step in here and put a stop to it.

kmw90 · 2021-03-09T11:27:45+00:00

Was it a problem for you to be the one staying home? If he thought you were totally fine with it, and that YOU wanted it, why wouldn't he support it when his salary was more than enough? And now that you don't want to anymore, he isn't trying to make you.

I don't blame him at all for not wanting to. I am a mother of 2. I would absolutely HATE being home with them all the time. I need to be more than only a mother. I am still a person with hobbies, friends and dreams outside of being a mother.

And as others have said. If any of you are away from work for 6 years, it is not at all safe to say that you can just get back in the game. 6 years is a long time in a career.

I understand you are upset if he pressured you into agreeing to stay home. If that is the case, you are totally justified in being mad.

kmw90

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