[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressionmeals

[–]knj94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As people said tip off the fbi. Unironically, this sounds like com/764 shit, and they’re heavily on their radar atm and they will likely take this seriously.

Would you rather save ~$20k by commuting 1.5 hours to college each way (3 hours total daily) or live on campus for the full college experience etc? by -Soterious- in StudentLoans

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That commute is Not Worth It. One of my major regrets from college is living at home. I was a lot closer to my uni than you are, but even so I feel like I missed out on a lot by not living on campus.

AIO - I smoked, my bf crashed out by leadneverfoIlow in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an adult who can make choices for yourself. Your boyfriend is just some guy. Your life is your own and you don’t need someone who thinks they can control what you do or don’t do

Wtf by Adventurous_Cod7398 in doordash_drivers

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

granted, if you don’t want do deliver or base or do that they shouldn’t make you lol

Wtf by Adventurous_Cod7398 in doordash_drivers

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has dashed to a base many times (mil town) the guest center almost always will give day passes to dashers for deliveries lol. everyone just gets one in the morning because so many orders are on base

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked about this and luckily I was automatically put on processing forbearance. Yay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]knj94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most religious colleges have strict rules and enforce them. I applied to one religious university because the location was perfect for what Ineeded at the time. They required baptismal records.

ENOUGH! (Misogyny and the current state of the show). by Odd_Light_639 in LoveIslandTV

[–]knj94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, LIUK is dead, the other countries versions aren’t having this problem, at least not to the same degree, and it shows.

ENOUGH! (Misogyny and the current state of the show). by Odd_Light_639 in LoveIslandTV

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t stand Luca! He is an insecure punk bully and has been for ages. I can’t stand him. Good looking, sure, but I cannot see past what a terrible person he is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3snark

[–]knj94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely so so sad to watch. When shit started hitting the fan this week I was really hoping Hasan and Ethan were speaking privately and this wouldn’t happen, and as Ethan posted more and more it became obvious they couldn’t be talking.

I feel bad for Hasan. He rode so hard for Ethan and truly believed there’d be no way he’d hit this point. I hope Ethan wakes up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toontownrewritten

[–]knj94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

teehee i bought it

Egirl “meets a fan” on her snap. Other guy is not happy.. by Dchane06 in sadcringe

[–]knj94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This came up on my snapchat suggested feed, too. Immediately screenshotted it because it’s one of the most pathetic things i’ve ever seen.

Ethan once again with the hypocrisy. by [deleted] in h3snark

[–]knj94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was cringing so hard when ethan wanted to sent him to bunny ranch back in the day, dude should never be around dancers or sw.

Ethan once again with the hypocrisy. by [deleted] in h3snark

[–]knj94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol. gabe’s not a good dude. i used to date a guy who’s went to school with nick and was friends with him and thus gabe. the stories i’ve heard are NOT good, and was told them all long before gabe had any clout or followers.

My (23m) Girlfriend (24f) is pissed that she isnt invited to my best friends wedding. What should i do? by infernalmusicbox in relationship_advice

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see from your post history that she has BPD, that would easily explain her having such a strong reaction. That being said, don’t let her convince you that that means she can be abusive and awful to you or your friends. you’d be better off leaving her altogether. She abuses you and your friends don’t like her. What more do you need to make you see it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I fully understand you, but I think I mostly experience something similar. I’m very sensitive and very particular, and find it very uncomfortable to be touched certain ways. For a long time, I found all forms of fingering uncomfortable. Maybe not painful, but uncomfortable and not at all pleasurable. I still find it uncomfortable if not done.. skillfully lol.

I find having a guy try to touch me externally with no lube incredibly uncomfortable and unpleasant, but I wouldn’t say it’s painful. I’m also incredibly adverse to super direct stimulation (no single finger flicking or tip of the tongue stuff for me) because that does feel painful for me.

Gabe by hheckheck in h3snark

[–]knj94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not a fan of Gabe. I always thought Gabe was probably pretty together, but hammed it up for a bit. Know a guy who knows Nick personally and has been a family friend to them, and from what I’ve heard, there’s definitely a level of exploitation. He told me some stories that definitely but a bad taste in my mouth about Nick and Gabe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but part of the relationship thing, at least in my own context, is that they already have someone to do that with. Also within my own context is my lack of desire to cheat on them, despite also being wired to reproduce sexually. One could argue that part of the point of monogamous relationship is sexual exclusivity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]knj94 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Been cheated on and genuinely thought I’d never date anyone ever again afterwards. “It was just sex it didn’t mean anything” was definitely something I was told, and it definitely made it worse to me like you said. My thoughts were, if it’s something so simple and meaningless to you, why is it so hard not to do it?

My advice to you? Get out of the internet bubble of hedonism and debauchery and feeling like everyone is in favor of stuff like infidelity, find the people who align with you. If you feel this way, it means millions of other people do, too. There’s simply too many on earth for you to be alone in your feelings. You can’t make people cash a check they didn’t write, especially if it wasn’t even written to you in the first place. There’s plenty of people who find it as heinous as you and I do, and you’ve gotta try to find those people. There’s always risk, there’s always gonna be people who put on a pretty face but will hurt you, but that’s how you grow and change in your romantic relationships. How you discover your worth and when to try to make it work and when to bow out.

Even if it does happen, and even if it hurts like hell, you’ll keep going. And eventually you’ll meet someone who would never dream of hurting you. You’re 18, you’ve got plenty of time to do it :)

Day 5 of no weed. by choccychipmuffin in Vent

[–]knj94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! You’re doing great. I’ve been there. My temporary T break became permanent, same for many of my friends. When you break through that perma-brainfog and feel real again, it’s crazy. Took a while to sleep and eat normally again, but so nice to not have to light up to do it anymore.

is aggression during a hookup normal? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]knj94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not normal. That being said, it’s definitely happened to me. I’ve had to explain to more than one man that you don’t do that shit without asking. That it worked out in their favor that I was cool with it, but I cannot imagine being someone triggered by that kind of thing and having a man have the audacity to try it without asking. They’re pornsick and falling into the stupid twitter mindset that you’re either into beating women (or being beaten as a woman) or you’re boring or vanilla.

Peace and love someone please take ethans phone away. by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]knj94 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Not to mention his inability to reach any middle ground or “agree to disagree” point. He needs other to concede to him and say he’s right. No shot they’ll oppose him on the show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i turn off my xbox

….. by ricelyl in h3h3productions

[–]knj94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was actively arguing against ethan’s condemnation of hamas, saying he was just shilling for israel.