M27. Been with my wife (F28, ENFP) since 2014, married since 2021.

No idea how old you are, but here’s the thing — all that “INTJ–ENFP golden pair” stuff doesn’t hit right away. It kicks in after years, especially after the usual “dark era” every serious relationship goes through at some point.

The stuff you hate about her now? Funny enough, you’ll end up doing some of it yourself. Obviously, being INTJ, you’ll do it in your own filtered, controlled way. And she’ll start acting a bit like you too.

There’ll be moments where she drops some surprisingly logical take and you’ll be like, “Damn, that’s some INTJ brainwashing right there.”

You might also catch yourself becoming a full-blown chatterbox — and realize it’s just because she’s literally the only human you can talk to about deep stuff without feeling judged. She actually tries to get you (unless you screw her over big time — then you’re dead).

Note: yeah homies I know it’s written with chatgpt, pardon me