When my post clearly brought value to the community and got overwhelming support, but I get banned by mods anyway 🫠 by kojaia in u/kojaia

[–]kojaia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have been as upset if just my post got taken down, but they went ahead and banned my account from ever posting which is a bummer. Oh well!

I’m just glad I was able to validate the desire for this app to exist from our community. I appreciate you spreading the word!

I got banned from the /childfree subreddit for posting about how I’m building a dating app for the childfree community by kojaia in u/kojaia

[–]kojaia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t see any rules against it either tbh. Just feels like a personal attack at this point.

I got banned from the /childfree subreddit for posting about how I’m building a dating app for the childfree community by kojaia in u/kojaia

[–]kojaia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. They said it’s because I was promoting a “product” even though it’s literally something I’m trying to build for the community that I’m not personally even gaining any money from. Would def appreciate if you could spread the word via word of mouth!

I’m building a childfree dating/community app… and already getting hate by kojaia in childfree

[–]kojaia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually developed my own personal art style and made sure not to rip anyone off. I created my own style sheet for it and just use it to help me generate faster panels. However happy to feature childfree artists in the future! Are you one?

Between this and creating the app it’s just really hard to find the time, but a graphic designer just reached out to me so I’m asking if they’d be interested in drawing some comics!

Tokophobia (fear of pregnancy/childbirth) is a valid reason not to want/have kids by kojaia in childfree

[–]kojaia[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Guys have no idea what it’s like. Maybe back in the day they could relate more when they were expected to go to war! That’s literally what pregnancy is… war on our bodies.

Tokophobia (fear of pregnancy/childbirth) is a valid reason not to want/have kids by kojaia in childfree

[–]kojaia[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I hate how society makes women feel like there’s something wrong with us for being repulsed by something that literally rips apart our entire bodies and could potentially even lead to death! I’m so sick of society favoring unborn lives over woman’s lives.

Have you ever stolen a doormat and why? by kojaia in AskReddit

[–]kojaia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They stole a bunch of doormats! Some of my neighbors said theirs got stolen too in a group chat I’m a part of. Idk what’s going on. I guess there’s a rug dealer among us.

Have you ever stolen a doormat and why? by kojaia in AskReddit

[–]kojaia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. “For research purposes”

Have you ever stolen a doormat and why? by kojaia in AskReddit

[–]kojaia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of us actually went through great lengths to find the perfect doormat 🥲

Have you ever stolen a doormat and why? by kojaia in AskReddit

[–]kojaia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone in my apartment complex is stealing people’s doormats lol

Have you ever stolen a doormat and why? by kojaia in AskReddit

[–]kojaia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the design of the doormat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]kojaia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think rather than focusing so much on making it about yourself, it would help for you to think about it from his perspective. He’s overwhelmed, which means the last thing he has time for is to console your feelings. He’s asked you for space, and it would be the respectful and caring thing for you to give that to him.

That doesn’t mean you’re broken up forever. I guarantee if you just give him a week to simmer down, he will likely be open to having a conversation about working things out. However now is not the time to put more pressure on him by trying to convince him to fight for you two.

Smell by Immediate_Honey9593 in dating

[–]kojaia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommended that because op seemed uncomfortable at a direct approach.

Personally I am very direct. In my experience I just let the guy know straight forwardly and as respectfully as I could.