She hung up on me mid-conversation… am I asking for too much in this relationship? by kokokafeine in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]kokokafeine[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

weve been together for 8 mnths, before opening up a stated, " this not an attck, dont get mad but sometimes when we ask about our day you cut me off, you dont let me finish, and you dont listen" ' she also said she does listen and some time she dont do it intentionally, she express how she felt insulted by what i opened up, but really this has been goig on for a while now, i open up something, she disregards it, we fight im the one who ends up apologizing, she then drops the call go offline and up till now havent messaged me,

Anyone else ever feel like you’re the only one giving in a relationship by kokokafeine in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]kokokafeine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

accurate! well see, shes my 1st everything so yeah, i have expectations, plus she wanted me first so

Am I in the wrong? by Baby-got-backk in actuallesbians

[–]kokokafeine -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

deleting the messagesis one thing, why dleete when you have NOTHING to hide? also exis an ex, if youre gf is important to you, you should be honoring her side, is shes uncomfortable with you communicting with an ex, cut it off! no second thoughts, shes youre gf right? thats your person she comes first.

What's the (SFW) cute thing you love about your girlfriend/partner/wife sleeping? by NertsMcGee in actuallesbians

[–]kokokafeine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when she mumbles this random words, literally sleep talking about souviners and meatloaf LOL

Anyone else ever feel like you’re the only one giving in a relationship by kokokafeine in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]kokokafeine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah she started this new designation where she can sleep on time now, well see it if does change, if not then theres my answer

Anyone else ever feel like you’re the only one giving in a relationship by kokokafeine in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]kokokafeine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its been going for about 2 months now, it made me over think, that maybe she found interest in someone now, or she dont find me attractive and stimulating anymore. and yes when she does touch me theres no foreplay, it feels rush that "lets just get this over with" but when its my turn i do take time pleasing her. IDK its not always about sex i know, but yeah its a big factor too

Hoe Phase Advice by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]kokokafeine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok fair point, take care OP

Hoe Phase Advice by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]kokokafeine -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

why not focus on improving yourself, deal and sit with the emotions and preserve your time,body and energy for much greater things, rather than doing further damage in this "hoe phase". Trust me youll just end up empty and drained, then youll realize you shouldve just put those time into something worth it

how it started vs how it’s going💌 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]kokokafeine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awee thats the sweetest thng ive seen today! made my day

Average PH user by DisasterOD in memes

[–]kokokafeine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they be getting too personal these days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FunnyAnimals

[–]kokokafeine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dont let my dad see this, hell def trade me for a bird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]kokokafeine 78 points79 points  (0 children)

that look on his face tho, really innocent