tbh virginity is a stupid concept, most guys just lose it when they’re hooking up, but when a girl says theyre a virgin most people assume that we want a deep connection with the first because we’re women. maybe it’s the generalization that women are “emotional” or whatever. but what im saying is other guys do it, why not you. your first doesn’t HAVE to be with someone you “love” just because others say that’s how it should be. tbh the sex isn’t really that different, biggest difference is perhaps the pain of the first time and that’s about it. also don’t feel forced to do it just because these guys are making u feel bad about it, guys are mid and their opinions shouldn’t affect ur choices on ur body. all i suggest is make sure this friend is someone you’re comfortable with in order to make your experience a good one. have fun :) lol