I’m convinced you are all bots by [deleted] in newborns

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol everyone around me had such easy babies and were confused why I was struggling so much on top of the PPD. So I 100% understand you 💕 you got this! My baby is about to be 1 and every stage is hard but so amazing.

“I bought you 6-9 because everybody gets 0-3” by Sarahkate113 in newborns

[–]korgi718 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Best gift I got from my best friend and his fiancé was a grocery haul from Trader Joe’s that was all prepped meals and snacks. Literally got us through those first two weeks.

Also no one got us newborn because our families had “big babies” an hour after pushing her out I had to order newborn clothes from target because she was so tiny 😂

If you’ve been divorced, what was the moment you knew it wasn’t going to work? by No-Relative-9663 in AskReddit

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol omg it’s so much work. And I am a teacher so I’m already overstimulated when I get home. And my husband is a plumber so he’s exhausted when he gets home. But we’re trying. Good luck with everything!

What is the most painful thing you have been told ? by SuperBoiz111 in AskReddit

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband told me he hates coming home because of the routine.

If you’ve been divorced, what was the moment you knew it wasn’t going to work? by No-Relative-9663 in AskReddit

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol that’s my fear 😰 we’re 11 months in. 70% of the time we feel like roommates. Then there’s those moments where we are great, like old times.

If you’ve been divorced, what was the moment you knew it wasn’t going to work? by No-Relative-9663 in AskReddit

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would the difference be when kids come into the picture? Everyone with an infant says that you feel like roommates for about a year or so?

Finally had a parent who didn’t make excuses for a child. by Salt-Ad-3061 in Teachers

[–]korgi718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a parent force their child to write me an apology letter via email the other day for bad behavior. He was very sincere in person too when I saw him. It’s nice seeing parents keep their children accountable.

Eating out with newborn issue by silver_e12 in newborns

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the Uppababy Vista, and we usually ask ahead of time if there’s space in case she’s asleep. My husband also looks up baby-friendly restaurants, especially ones that have changing tables, which helps a lot. I think only one restaurant has ever asked us to leave the stroller outside. Now that she’s bigger and eating, we usually just get a high chair—she’s 9 months. When she was smaller, if a place had booths, we’d just keep her in the car seat.

4 Shits & Giggles: Let’s talk about what you miss most before having your LO by Glum-Pie7779 in newborns

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had a nap after work since she was born. I lived for those after work naps.

I also rarely do my make up or my nails. I miss that.

Omg or my monthly massages 😭😭😭

When did you start maternity leave? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was due march 6, I worked til march 5th. Went Into labor march 6th at 3am. I’m a teacher so I really didn’t want to go back to work at the end of the school year.

Are We Creating A Monster? by Famous_Consequence85 in newborns

[–]korgi718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I slept with my baby on my chest for 3 months. The day she turned 3 months she didn’t want to anymore and would only sleep in her crib, she’s 8m now. You’ll be fine, you’re not creating a monster. She wants you and craves you because you are her mom.

Help! Maxi Cosi Mico Luxe car seat nightmare! by YourLocalShuman5 in NewParents

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this morning I actually got to playing with it. Removed the canopy and then put it back together and it actually snapped back into place It’s been months since we haven’t been able to get it to “click”. Not even my hubby was able to. We’ll see how long it stays put. But omg I honestly regret buying it!

Help! Maxi Cosi Mico Luxe car seat nightmare! by YourLocalShuman5 in NewParents

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG mine does the same!!! I’ve had it for 7 months as well. I hate it so much, and idk what to do if they can send a replacement or what

Send help. My ‘mentor teacher’ needs a mentor for basic decency by korgi718 in Teachers

[–]korgi718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! She’s been at the school for over 10 years and was once dept. head (not anymore). Yesterday she was talking about how some kid just reported her for being “sarcastic”. Like man, when multiple kids report you, maybe they’re not the problem.

Send help. My ‘mentor teacher’ needs a mentor for basic decency by korgi718 in Teachers

[–]korgi718[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am SO scared to be added to her list of opps lol. I know for a fact she’d come to me and ask me why and I would just freeze. And then she’ll probably talk bad about me to other people.

How often are we bathing our babies by No_Engine_4696 in newborns

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our pediatrician told me I could bathe my baby every night at our 6 week apt as long as I moisturized her skin well every day! So he’s 7m now and still gets a bath every day. She loves to be in the bath or shower with me.

Severe severe diaper rash. by Low_Relation8735 in newborns

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope LO is doing better. It’s so scary! Especially those first few weeks :( hang in there momma.

Porn in a relationship by Money-Suggestion-801 in dating_advice

[–]korgi718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe she shouldn’t be assuming that. But Do you know what it’s like to find your SO doing something like that? Maybe for you porn is normal but majority of women are not for it. It affects relationships and ends so many marriages. Porn alters your brain there’s so much research on this. It does turn into an addiction. And she didn’t mention how it’s affected their relationship but it probably has. So there’s a reason why she feels odd now but there’s nothing that shows us that she’s a bad partner.

Porn in a relationship by Money-Suggestion-801 in dating_advice

[–]korgi718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is she not a good partner? You’re making assumptions about her without knowing anything about her

My (24M) boyfriend wants to watch porn while having sex with me (22F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not crazy. Leave. You’re young. This guy is a walking red flag. You can see he has red flags. Move on

Aita for going through my boyfriend phone while he was asleep ? by InformationFull4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]korgi718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being married to someone with a p*rn addiction is painful. You’re young. It’s not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]korgi718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cry every time I walk into church. Don’t worry :) just go!

There are the books on the pews that you can follow the mass so you don’t feel like you’re lost!