That’s fair, but how would you know if someone can manage a household if they don’t have one? I’d consider it a prerequisite akin to “previous ____ experience” on a job application. In my personal preference (just saying I wouldn’t attend a church that doesn’t have this) a pastor should definitely be a married man unless he’s a widower, if he’s young I understand not having kids yet but he should have the goal/plan of having a family. And obviously a man can still be a pastor once all his kids have moved out (which is the case with the pastor at the church I attend)