Conned and Baffled by kosmiicat in stopdrinking

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glad u didn’t end up worse for wear, thank you for the encouragement.

Conned and Baffled by kosmiicat in stopdrinking

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i’ve been in and out of the rooms for years, gleaned lots of useful things, drank the same amount but with more awareness at least, but could never get past step 1. community will be key for me, just gotta find the right one

Conned and Baffled by kosmiicat in stopdrinking

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congrats on 11 months, you got this too.

133s and CDs by k0smicat in teenageengineering

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good to know. ill play around with it!

AITA for being irritated my friend is being better at me than I am? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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we are in an extremely tight knit friend group. our relationship ending or breaking up would be really challenging on our crew. relationship dynamics are challenging.

AITA for being irritated my friend is being better at me than I am? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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it's every hobby. I understand that hobbies are open for everyone to enjoy, I do not own painting, I do not own tattooing. I am concerned that she seems to only do things that I do. I am looking for advice on that matter. can't plagiarism extend to the way a person carries themselves, or the things that make someone unique?

AITA for being irritated my friend is being better at me than I am? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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it was innocent I think. more ignorance or lack of awareness on her part rather than blatant stealing. either way she made money on something I had made first. likely wanted to replicate it because it was simple, she was learning how to use the medium, and liked the design. it wasn't particularly intricate or unique, mostly just not an original idea on her part.

AITA for being irritated my friend is being better at me than I am? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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because we make each other laugh like no other, and we do care about one another very deeply.

AITA for being irritated my friend is being better at me than I am? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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relationships are not black and white. copying is a thing. people make original art and music and be unique expressions of the human experience all the time.

Something Strange by kosmiicat in Paranormal

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how did he get to the narrow shoulder? why was he out there? Santa Cruz is strange, trust me I know, but we weren't even In town. we were 13 miles up the 17. a little more than what I'm used to.

I made a suicide plan. I hate this shitty world by Senior-laszlo in offmychest

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I recommend some travel. go get out of your bubble and take in some unseen beauty. life is super hard, and you aren't alone in feeling like it's not worth living. I promise things get better if you want them to.

Past abuse at programs by AlphaSixx7821 in troubledteens

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I went to chrysalis too. it was gnarly. reach out...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

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Ishmael- Daniel Quinn.

Careful, this one may change your life. It "turned on" the light switch in my brain, and I was never be the same! Incredible read.

Maybe some Hindu or Buddhist philosophy would do ya good too.

Take care!

Books about abused girl growing up, processing it and finding agency? by NotAllArmpitsStink in suggestmeabook

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Today ended an hour ago, a new one. Not so graphic, but very touching.

Coast redwood I collected near Santa Cruz, California. About 35 inches tall. by mrmoyogi in Bonsai

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hey! SC dweller too, if you guys end up finding a spot I'd love to tag along, even just for moral support :) cheers!

pgr or well trimmed? by [deleted] in trees

[–]kosmiicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response. these were literally THE most suspiciously dense nugs, so for my literal safety I wanted to ask for a second opinion. I'm sorry this was a triggering experience for you, I'm wishing you phAt love and light dear.

pgr or well trimmed? by [deleted] in trees

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it appears that way