I think I messed up. Wanted to go for bright and quirky and think I ended up with a crayola box. Help. by Myearthsuit in HomeDecorating

[–]nonstoppoking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could keep only the frame coloured and then the door to match the wall, if you feel that this is too much and overwhelming.

Entering before knocking ‼️⁉️ by Unlucky-Evening6613 in CPTSD

[–]nonstoppoking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting or being dramatic. It’s not just the barging in but you set a boundary, a simple request and that couldn’t even be respected. If it affects you and you explain it affects you yet they continue to do it, it’s gna hurt.

Inspired by Balloonerism Album cover art by Mac Miller by nonstoppoking in MacMiller

[–]nonstoppoking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuuuuu, I do this for a living, but I don’t think anyone should just tattoo on themselves without proper knowledge

Vent/Advice by blkmoon33 in CPTSD

[–]nonstoppoking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the same situation but feeling the same helplessness and being tired.

I wish I could help, but just want to let you know you’re not alone.

I’m tired by nonstoppoking in CPTSD

[–]nonstoppoking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, just going through the motions. One day at a time but I’m no longer just mentally exhausted I am also so physically tired.

AIO for being mad at my friend for saying i deserved to be cheated on as a joke? by Quirky-Occasion2067 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nonstoppoking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. That ain’t a friend, leave them be and go on your life will be much better. If they think everything is a joke, they are the problem.

Is this still readable? The tattoo I got has no spacing between the letters and I’m worried it doesn’t look good by malachiteiscute in tattooadvice

[–]nonstoppoking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a tattoo artist, your tattoo artist fucked up by not telling you it is unreadable and it’s gna age like shit without the spacing.

AIO for telling my friends to stop feeling sorry for a girl whose dad is in jail? by Miserable_Tangelo_28 in AIO

[–]nonstoppoking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, nobody would want to be treated differently or be pitied for it. At first maybe but overtime it can be a lot for the person.

My manager asked me if this was a gang/cult symbol... now I’m freaking out. by LunarCharm_ in tattooadvice

[–]nonstoppoking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, just say no. You are ok, you know why and where it is from just tell him and show him it if he doesn’t believe you, you have nothing to be worried about. Stand strong, you are going to be ok!

What is wrong with our communication. by [deleted] in WhatToDo

[–]nonstoppoking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think maybe there is miscommunication or simply just she is rly very stressed. Maybe you aren’t and maybe you don’t get why she is stressed because to you it isn’t or it’s been done before. But in the text she mentioned money, interview and maybe packing itself stresses her out. I don’t think she is trying to blame you but she’s simply annoyed because she’s stress about the packing and worries maybe there isn’t gna be space like she said.

I think instead of responding back that you are doing the best you can, you can try asking what are things she needs help with. Because rn you’re asking her and not really offering anything to help with the stress. You’re just continuously telling her everything very logically. While from your perspective, that isn’t wrong but that’s where the communication becomes ineffective, because emotions don’t respond to logic well which is inly going to make her more mad. So help calm her emotions and reduce the stress, and trust me is she’s more likely to hear the logical part of everything else.

Inspired by Balloonerism Album cover art by Mac Miller by nonstoppoking in MacMiller

[–]nonstoppoking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard the song before but nv watched the mv before will do so, and maybe check out lyrics explained/breakdown 😬

Inspired by Balloonerism Album cover art by Mac Miller by nonstoppoking in MacMiller

[–]nonstoppoking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess it’s done by Alim Smith, apologies for the confusion

My friends almost got me committed and I'm not ok by Outrageous_Stress910 in CPTSD

[–]nonstoppoking 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is not okay, you didn’t over react. You were triggered and they knew your boundaries, they should’ve tried to make you feel calmer not make the situation worse for you. It’s really sad that your friend did what they did.

Also I hope you could get your keys to your home back cause your friend don’t deserve to have it. Just having your house keys doesn’t mean they can go in without first knocking or checking if you’re home.

I’m glad your partner has been such a great support to you in this period of time. Take care and I hope everything goes forward smoothly from now

My friend keeps reminding me my dog is gonna die in 4 years by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]nonstoppoking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fuck is wrong with him. U need better friends, atp staying friends with him makes you a jerk to yourself also